Best choice of masturbator for a bigger boy

Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz 11/13/2010

Wanting to get my guy a great fleshlight or similar style of masturbator but have no idea what makes a good one and which ones are suitable for the above average kinda guy.

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Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz
Out of these toys which would you choose for the above average sized guy for his first foray into masturbators?

This is open to everyone to give their opinion of the best option, but if you have reviewed any of these or have recommendations for other suitable toys please comment.
Thanks
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Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Part of the answer depends on what you mean by above average, meaning length, girth, or both. And just how above average he is.

However, I would cross the Fleshlight in a Can ones off as they are smaller and tighter than the standard Fleshlights. My guess is these would be too small for your partner.

The other Fleshlights and the Tenga should accommodate your partner. And while they are both masturbators, I think the experience from each is going to be different because of their respective designs. I had never seen the Pussy to go XXL before, but looking it up it appears to be specifically designed for the well endowed. If your partner is hung like a horse, this might be a possibility.

Since you say he has never tried a masturbator before, you might want to try a cheaper one to help decide first if he likes it, and then maybe narrow down what he likes about it before spending for a pricier toy. The Maven is a popular model, it's relatively inexpensive, and it accommodates above average men. Hope that helps.
11/13/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
Part of the answer depends on what you mean by above average, meaning length, girth, or both. And just how above average he is.

However, I would cross the Fleshlight in a Can ones off as they are smaller and tighter than the standard ... more
I agree, start with something less expensive and go from there. Also I second the Maven.

Out of the choices given I would say the Flip Hole, I just got a Fleshlight yesterday so I can not comment on them yet. I will come back after some testing and let you know. Note though the Flip Hole will only accommodate 6" in length but does real good with my 1 3/4" diameter.
11/13/2010
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
Although I haven't tied it yet I'm picking other and suggesting the Maven based on other people reviews of it. In terms of the one on the poll. I'd stay away from the Fleshlight sex in a can series as it rather tight. The other Fleshlight are good but the cleaning may be to much of a hassle for someone's first toy. So that leaves the flip-hole as the one on the list that is probably best.
11/14/2010
Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz
The issue is that I don't live with him and have no idea of his exact size so I'm looking at toys I've got that feel closest to him and making an educated guess.

After reading reviews of fleshlights and their in a can series I'm thinking of the pussy to go xxl even though I love the lady lager. But at least the XXL is both relatively cheap and with its dimensions its sure to fit him. And if he does enjoy it I'll go ahead and get him one of the more expensive ones or even the cobra libre for Christmas

Thanks for your input guys - I do appreciate it.
11/14/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I obviously don't have a penis but I voted for my b/f. He has the Fleshlight and the Tenga Flip hole. They both take care of business but the Tenga Flip hole is just easier to care for, esp. if the guy travels, as drying the sleeve is so important to prevent mold and whatever.
12/10/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
If he has any kind of above-average length, when you are ready to go for a more expensive model, give the lotus texture a try. We're all very interested in knowing how someone above-average feels about it!
12/10/2010
Contributor: TheNuTz TheNuTz
Most fleshlights are ultra ULTRA durable and stretch to WILD diamaters and lengths. Its the container it is in you should investigate.
12/22/2010
Contributor: gs61 gs61
fleshlike is the one my friend decided he liked best
01/10/2011
Contributor: Free Free
Vibro lady touch for sure.
01/25/2011
Contributor: CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
I tried stuffing a Jeff Stryker dildo into my fleshlight pink lady original, and it was tight but it fit. If he's bigger than that monster, than you are probably one satisfied lady.
01/25/2011
Contributor: Bakari-Muhammad Bakari-Muhammad
Why don't you try these: Misty Stone, Alien, and any of Ice (see thru) versions?
02/08/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
My boyfriend is above average in size and LOVES the Maven.
03/09/2011
Contributor: Mark43 Mark43
Fleshlight girl for sure.
03/21/2011
Contributor: The Unnamed The Unnamed
Most fleshlights are ultra ULTRA durable and stretch to WILD diamaters and lengths. Its the container it is in you should investigate.
03/21/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
Fleshlight vibro lady touch
04/14/2011
Contributor: bigfuckindicksDOTnet bigfuckindicksDOTnet
fleshlight should accomodate anything but an anoconda
05/29/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Buzz
Out of these toys which would you choose for the above average sized guy for his first foray into masturbators?

This is open to everyone to give their opinion of the best option, but if you have reviewed any of these or have recommendations ... more
Vibro lady touch for sure.
06/13/2011
Contributor: ajwonder ajwonder
The vibro lady touch is actually known to be one of the tightest fleshlight sleeves. If you read around the fleshlight forums, people say that with all the vibes in place, you can barely get in the sleeve.
06/13/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
vibro lady touch
07/08/2011
Contributor: Endocott Endocott
I have a fleshlight, and I like it a lot. I want to try out the Tenga flip though, because of the pressure points capabilities. Also, because it splits and seems like it would be easier to clean.
07/14/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
vibro lady touch
07/20/2011
Contributor: kinksters kinksters
any of the FL's should do well.
07/24/2011
Contributor: Leaving Love Leaving Love
vibro lady touch
07/25/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Helpful question..I've been wondering the same myself.
09/05/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
vibro lady touch
09/05/2011
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Buzz
Out of these toys which would you choose for the above average sized guy for his first foray into masturbators?

This is open to everyone to give their opinion of the best option, but if you have reviewed any of these or have recommendations ... more
Fleshlight vibro lady touch
01/21/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Buzz
Out of these toys which would you choose for the above average sized guy for his first foray into masturbators?

This is open to everyone to give their opinion of the best option, but if you have reviewed any of these or have recommendations ... more
I agree with the lady touch choice
01/22/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
sue johanssen big honcho- not head honcho but BIG HONCHO ITS XXL especially for xl girth plus it doesn't have a hole in the end so it provides great suction- i'm told that it's more like sex than masturbating.
plus rather than artificial contours its modeled after a real vagina- cervix etc.
04/28/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
Fleshlight vibro lady touch
04/28/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
I hear tenga is the best but I have two fleshlights and like them both.
04/28/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Fleshlight Alien
04/28/2012
Contributor: All His All His
I got my hubby the fleshlight vibro when his tenga bit the dust and he absolutely loves it!
04/28/2012
Contributor: mmmmm mmmmm
Fleshlight vibro lady touch
05/06/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Vibro lady touch
05/06/2012
Contributor: its just me its just me
vibro lady for sure.
05/07/2012