I spit relatively often, especially when I'm performing oral or masturbating my partner. I mostly use natural lubrication or water-based lube, so I really don't have much of a choice if I don't want them to chafe.

No, I don't spit all over the place. It's a more "ladylike" spitting, where I get close to the place I want the spit to go, then spit a little and keep going. I dislike the smell of spit on my hand and will usually wash up a little afterward, but during, I don't mind it.

I so agree with what you said. I also think spit is gross and seeing people in porn flicks drop huge wads of it onto their partners genitals is a definte turn-off. I have thought maybe they do it because they need the lube and they haven't found an artificial lubricant that tastes good. Maybe the female should just fuck herself with a dildo for a bit before the action starts so that there is some natural lube there.

I do not spit on my husbands bits and he doesn't do it to me. Regular amounts of saliva that come from basic oral sex are fine, big globs of spit are not.

We don't spit on each other, but I agree with merinus - regular amounts of saliva that come from basic oral sex is fine. I don't have an aversion to saliva, but spitting seems crude to me. I guess it works for some though?

I really don't have a too much of a problem with spit. Well, with my husband anyway, I won't let just anybody spit on me, lol! When you think about it, kissing is basically swapping spit, right? Then when he goes down on me, he gets saliva there anyway so, I'm not opposed to spitting if he likes it. I have been knows to spit on his cock during a blow job as well to help my lips slide better down his shaft too. Lube isn't always available and sometimes what is available just tastes gross. So yeah, we're spitters.

As far as watching it in porn, it really depends on the situation. I've seen some spitting that totally turned me off and others that I kind of enjoyed. I guess it's just give and take for us in that department but I can see where it wouldn't be enjoyable to everyone.

Spitting doesn't even come to mind because I'm such a good drooler. I'm usually salivating pretty well no matter what I'm/we're doing, so I either lick my fingers or just get really close to his skin and lick or kiss so I leave a lot of saliva behind. Lube works tons better than saliva alone for us, though, so I like to start off applying lube and then licking it to keep it fresh and slick.

We spit quite a bit, although it's not like coughing up a loogie . Particularly when we're just masturbating each other.

Rearing back and spitting great wads like they do in porn grosses me out, and if Alan ever did it he'd probably find himself with an immediately "turned off" partner. However, the natural drool/spit that tends to come from oral sex doesn't bother me.

Spit is a funny thing. It's a bit/a lot of a mood killer for me when a partner leans back and spits on their hand (please, god, just use lube), especially if it's really drooly....or actually, if I can see it at all.

BUT

There is something about being in the midst of some rough play....having my partner lean forward, and just spit on me - either on my bits before roughly penetrating me, or on my face following a slap..... it does something to me. The first time I ever had a partner spit on my face in the middle of some SM stuff (context, right, it's all about context), I remember feeling overwhelmingly intimate and connected to him and to the moment.


Long story short? Different strokes for different folks. And nope, I don't get why it's so prevalent in porn.

I'm okay with it, especially how my boyfriend and I do it. We just wet our hands and moisten the area, and it's not gross that way. Usually my boyfriend just goes down on me or I on him if needed.

I have done it, not for fun, but because I didn't have lubricant on me. I've never "spit," though, I've licked up and gotten wet with saliva.

I agree with most here. I am fine with natural saliva that occurs during oral but I will not spit a wad on my man and he has not and will not ever spit on my bits either.

I do enjoy licking my hand to make it really wet and slippery when I give my man oral. Also, seeing a string of saliva from his cock to my mouth during oral really turns me on. Spitting like a baseball player...not really my thing.

The one quote I have heard defending spit is "Don't knock it if it works"
Of course, this didn't involve the loogie concept, either - it was only a little saliva, and it went directly from his mouth to his hand and then to his cock.
Any usual amount of saliva is fine - the baseball player comparison really paints an ugly picture, though.