I am also very prone to yeast infections and have loved my ID millennium silicone lube. Also my roommate is allergic to nearly everything and she has had wonderful luck with ID moments water based lube. My best advice is to get oodles of samples and spot test them. First on regular skin and learn the texture and smell that you like, then once they past the first test, put some on your labia. Once that is okay, try it masturbating when you know you won't be with a partner (just in case shit goes down). This is how I found a good one. Generally pick hypo-allergenic with no parabin and glycerin, and for yeasty issues, NO FLAVORS (I learned this the hard way). Also no flavored condoms for vaginal use.

I hope you find one that helps! Also share with me if you think of it, I need to expand my horizons.