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Contributor: trynthings trynthings
My wife and I are new to using toys. I'm ordering a silicone vibrator for her and would like to know if lube is absolutely necessary? She has sensitive skin and would prefer not to use it if we can avoid it. She produces a lot of natural lubricant on her own so is it necessary to use lube with a silicone vibe?

Also she is pregnant so if you recommend a lubricant please keep that in mind. (not sure if that matters or not)

Thanks
12/21/2013
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Necessary? Not necessarily. LOL If she produces enough of her own natural moisture, you should be good to go. Sliquid Sea is a great lubricant for us ladies and guys out there with sensitive skin.
12/21/2013
Contributor: BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
If the vibrator is going to be used for mainly clitoral/external stimulation lube is not necessary.
It is possible to use vibrators internally without additional lube, but silicone can 'grab' at the skin and lube might make things more comfortable.
Using lubricant during pregnancy is totally safe, but since you said your wife has sensitive skin, and pregnancy throws a woman's body out of whack, I'd try making sure any lube you try during this time is glycerin and paraben free.
12/21/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I have read that lube is recommended even if a woman's body produces adequate lubrication because the lube ensure no pulling on her vaginal tissues.
12/21/2013
Contributor: StormOfSnakes StormOfSnakes
YES, silicone is really draggy and you need water-based lube to be on the safe side. No one wants inflamed sexy bits. I recommend pink or a sliquid-type lube (look at the ingredients to make sure she's not allergic/sensitive to them).
12/21/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by StormOfSnakes
YES, silicone is really draggy and you need water-based lube to be on the safe side. No one wants inflamed sexy bits. I recommend pink or a sliquid-type lube (look at the ingredients to make sure she's not allergic/sensitive to them).
I've never had an issue with silicone dragging when I was turned on -- I think it really does depend on the person.
12/21/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Ansley
I've never had an issue with silicone dragging when I was turned on -- I think it really does depend on the person.
If I am really turned on enough to enjoy having toys in me, I honestly often don't bother with any other lube at first, however, we tend to have long play times, especially if toys are involved, so the lube is applied once it starts feeling like I need or want it.
12/21/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Necessary? Not necessarily. LOL If she produces enough of her own natural moisture, you should be good to go. Sliquid Sea is a great lubricant for us ladies and guys out there with sensitive skin.
Agreed! If excited enough will produce enough of own natural juices.
12/21/2013
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
If she gets excited enough and produces enough of her own, it should be fine, but if it's not enough, I'd go with Sliquid, it's vegan and is free from harmful substances. Just check the ingredients first!
12/21/2013
Contributor: ticklemepink93 ticklemepink93
Since she has sensitive skin, I would be careful about lube, especially if she gets wet enough on her own. Try it without lube once she's really turned on, and see how that goes. You can always purchase lube later on if you realize it is a necessity for her.
12/26/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We only use lube for anal toys / sex.
12/26/2013
Contributor: MaeGal MaeGal
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretKinksters
We only use lube for anal toys / sex.
Likewise for us.
02/22/2014
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
I wouldn't say that lube is necessary when playing with toys. It would all depend on the amount of natural lubrication that she makes and physical comfort when playing. Some people need it others don't.

There are lubes that great for people who are sensitive. ID moments water based Lubricant is pretty good one. Sliquid is another good brand.

I use lube with all anal toys and some of my more larger toys that are for vaginal play. Lube just makes insertion a little more easier and less burning when dealing with a toy with a good bit of girth.
03/05/2014
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
If you're going anal, lube is SUPER NECESSARY. Don't even try it without lubrication - it can result in you not liking anal - to say the least. When going vaginal, it really does depend on the amount of natural lubrication, but better sleek than dry. So, I would recommend lube for toys with rougher textures, glass, also. And, as always, don't forget - never mix silicone lube with silicone toys! Only water-based.
06/18/2018
Contributor: Doommpanda Doommpanda
Lube is totally nessasary! It increases glide and comfort. Make sure to use a water based lube for easy clean up. Always clean the lube after you’re done having fun, including on (or in) your body.
06/19/2018
Contributor: Doommpanda Doommpanda
Lube is totally nessasary! It increases glide and comfort. Make sure to use a water based lube for easy clean up. Always clean the lube after you’re done having fun, including on (or in) your body.
06/19/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
I wanted to add that I believe that lube is necessary when there is even a hint of discomfort. Some people dislike lube because they prefer natural lubrication - it's fine, as long as there is enough of the said lubrication, and if you're not trying anal.

Some toys also work best when paired with a special lube. For example, glass toys might feel a little bit off with natural lubrication, but with a thick silicone solution, the glass wands would bring you through the roof.
12/24/2018
Contributor: C and J C and J
Yes
11/27/2019