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Best silicone lube for anal sex?

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Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy 09/17/2011

I am trying to figure out what lube to use for anal sex. I have a lot of water based lubes, and though they are great for some purposes, I have found them to dry up too fast to use for anal sex. The best ones I have are astroglide gel, anal lube, and maximus. Maximus works well, but my partner is sensitive to it, so that's out. I have never tried silicone based lube, but I have heard it is better than water based for anal. It seems though that a lot of them are to thin and runny for anal, so I really don't know which one I should get.

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Which lube do you use or recommend for anal sex? (40 posts)
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
Which one do you think would work best for my needs?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
carenautilus , potstickers , dv8 , I'll Miss You EF :( , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , pinkcupcakes , ThoughtsAblaze , CAKES , dhig , AshMegYo , The Mother of a SiNner , Jon S , Mew , kellyg , Breas , Kaltir , OrangeKushBB , Maxx , Willow Wand , SiNn , lalapetitee , ichwillwaffels , HomuHomu , SweetieLuv , Apirka , Master DarkWolf , Lady Bear , LavenderSkies , DreamWolf , ellejay , nannaof3 , sunkissedJess , sweetpea12 , BurntToast , Anne , sXeVegan90 , mmmmm , Missmarc , PoppyTraille , Stagger13 , switzerland , Doah , Falsepast , Neurogasm , mpfm , Lioncub , thesquaredeific , Bignuf , squire , SMichelle , Chefbriapink , hybridinsurge , PropertyOfPotter , satinlady550 , Archery , hhh , Lavendar , bowzer311
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Howells , toxie m , (k)InkyIvy , fufucat , DeliciousSurprise
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Lady of the Lab
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SepZet
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I'll Miss You EF :( , Kitka , Masokisti , Anthony , Frankie , deltalima , Gunsmoke , rockblenny , edeneve
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married with children , Kitka , GONE! , MissCandyland , kawigrl , Ex-prude , Ouroborean , panthercat23 , SecretKinksters , Terri69 , no name 1
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The Curious Couple , unfulfilled , Ghost , geliebt , Stinkytofu10 , True Pleasures , ghalik , Azule , sunkissedJess , The Kitty , brevado , Boyfriend , bowzer311
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Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
We've always used Maximus for anal play and it works great!
09/17/2011
Contributor: I'll Miss You EF :( I'll Miss You EF :(
I am going to say that I am a huge fan of Pink Silicone for anal play! Also, Astroglide X, and my favorite silicone/water mix: Wet Synergy!
09/18/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I've used Wet silicone one.
09/18/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I have to second Pink silicone it's a great lube, lasts until the end of time, and really isn't a pain to wash off. I just love it, and I can't really think of a single complaint. I don't find that it being thin is a problem at all. It's slick and it stays that way, that's all I need!
09/19/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
we like JO H2O
09/19/2011
Contributor: babyrock babyrock
eros has been good to us, but it's a bit thin
09/21/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
We use either Wet Platinum silicone lube or ID Glide water based lube.
11/16/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I've heard really good things about Eros, especially about how it stays slick despite lots of rubbing.
12/12/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Pink is great for anal sex.
12/12/2011
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Better sex essentials silicone lubricant I assume.
04/16/2012
Contributor: Lady Bear Lady Bear
Better sex essentials silicone lubricant
04/20/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyBoy
Which one do you think would work best for my needs?
Better sex essentials silicone lubricant
04/20/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Better sex essentials silicone lubricant I assume.
Yup!
04/21/2012
Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
Thanks for asking this I wanted to know as well!
04/22/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
I've always been great with Maximus, but if parabens are an issue than I think purewater was pretty good too.
04/22/2012
Contributor: nannaof3 nannaof3
Better sex essentials silicone lubricant I assume
04/22/2012
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I love love love Bodyglide, but it's so stupid expensive. Auuugh.
04/22/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I like Gun Oil.
04/22/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyBoy
Which one do you think would work best for my needs?
You should look for an anal silicone lube with a thick viscosity, I don't know what product would have those qualities but it's all I can tell you !!
04/22/2012
Contributor: Frankie Frankie
I like silicone Astroglide and Gun Oil.

Sliquid Sassy Booty Formula is a water based lube that feels like a silicone based lube. I love it.
07/26/2012
Contributor: mmmmm mmmmm
I like Better sex essentials lubricant
07/30/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
i like water based
07/30/2012
Contributor: Ex-prude Ex-prude
Maximus!
07/31/2012
Contributor: The Kitty The Kitty
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyBoy
Which one do you think would work best for my needs?
I swear by boy butter and/or elbow grease
07/31/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Intensity Mrs.Intensity
Hmmm... I've only used water-based as a lubricant. I like the Better Sex water-based lube.
07/31/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
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Originally posted by The Kitty
I swear by boy butter and/or elbow grease
Hmm I never thought boy butter would of been good for anal!
07/31/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
I like silicone lubes for anal. If I'm useing silicone toys ya have to use a water base lube
07/31/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
ID Glide is what I use for anal play, it's water based because of my toys.
07/31/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
Wet Naturals has a silicon based lube that works great!
08/06/2012
Contributor: Neurogasm Neurogasm
Better sex essentials works for me
08/06/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyBoy
Which one do you think would work best for my needs?
Sliquid Slide I believe is the best. Thicker lubes are better for anal.
09/21/2012
Contributor: squire squire
Better sex for better sex
09/30/2012
Contributor: Boyfriend Boyfriend
sliquid
09/30/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Pjur Back Door - the herbals added to the silicone are soothing to me.
10/01/2012
Contributor: SepZet SepZet
I like the Sex in the Shower lube.
10/17/2012
Contributor: satinlady550 satinlady550
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyBoy
Which one do you think would work best for my needs?
If I were you I would try maximus for anal play
10/17/2012
Contributor: Archery Archery
Better sex essentials silicone lubricant or Eros
10/18/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
essential
10/26/2012
Contributor: bowzer311 bowzer311
other
10/30/2012