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Women do you wear lingerie costumes you know your significant other doesnt like on purpose?

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Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
was wondering who does this cuz I had a couple of questions
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yes
no
Alan & Michele , The Curious Couple , GravyCakes , Bignuf , Angewin , Coralbell , ~LaUr3n~ , wetone123 , JessCee , KinkBiLove , dv8 , darthkitt3n , Ryuson , daveysgirl , indiglo , Rika , ZenaidaMacroura , Miss Morphine , AshMegYo , Valentinka , unfulfilled , kinkykara , TameTemptress , Shellz31 , potstickers , Churga57 , mnsriley22 , dezzydezire , 7Miles , voenne , Gimme More
31
sometimes
SaMiKaY , deltalima , Misfit Momma
3
only because I loved the costume so much
js250 , Miss Morphine , SaMiKaY
3
only to turn him/her off to leave me alone
sometimes I wear one he/she doesnt necessarly dislike a certain costume but doesnt find it sexy either
Taylor , JessCee
2
Total votes: 39 (36 voters)
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Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
was wondering who does this cuz I had a couple of questions
What do you think about buying a costume you like butyour significant other says something like "school girl is hot but I'm not into nurses"

Do you think if you like a costume alot but your partner is just like MEH if you say the right things and be sexy enough it will work?
08/20/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
was wondering who does this cuz I had a couple of questions
I try it out with a few different variations and hope they will come to like it. Usually only a couple of times and then out it goes if there is no compromise.
08/20/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
For my fiancee and I, a costume has to be something we both like, but we do have similar interests. I think it's very fair for a couple to "switch off" between costumes if interests are different.

I know any costume my fiancee likes will turn me on. Hopefully you find that it's the same in your situation!
08/20/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
i've lucked out b/c my bf has liked everything i've worn so far.
08/21/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
was wondering who does this cuz I had a couple of questions
If I wear any, it is FOR him to enjoy. Eye candy. What would be the point in wearing something he does NOT like? Who wins in that scenario?
08/21/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
My boyfriend has never told me he disliked any lingerie. I know he prefers certain things over others, but he's happy anytime I wear lingerie because he knows he's gonna get some and he likes that I put effort into looking good for him.
08/21/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
That would completely defeat the purpose, would it not? I only buy stuff I know he'll like.
08/21/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I kinda agree Sapphire. My goal is to arouse and seduce him. However, I wanna be seduced too. So if I think I make a damned hot nurse, why can't I enjoy a costume myself?
I have a lingerie item that I showed my boyfriend and he wasn't too keen on it. So I did avoid it for awhile, but one of the things I realized is I CAN HAVE MY CAKE AND EAT IT TOO. I deserve to be happy and feel sexy.

So I bought it. When I wore it for him, I felt very sexy and wild and he was very turned on.
He might have been turned on cause I was turned on and we compromised.
Hopefully he cares about you enough to at least see you in the outfit before he shuts it out.
08/21/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
I kinda agree Sapphire. My goal is to arouse and seduce him. However, I wanna be seduced too. So if I think I make a damned hot nurse, why can't I enjoy a costume myself?
I have a lingerie item that I showed my boyfriend and he wasn't too ... more
I guess I'm different; clothing doesn't make me feel sexy or unsexy and his reaction is the only thing that matters. I tend to be turned on by non-physical things.
08/21/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I'm not really much of a costume person, but for lingerie I buy what I like and what makes me feel sexy. It is a bonus to me if my partner likes it as well. I think my partners have been more turned on by my increased confidence from my feeling sexy in an outfit than the actual outfit itself.
08/21/2011
Contributor: KinkBiLove KinkBiLove
that wouldnt be a good idea , now would it.
08/21/2011
Contributor: daveysgirl daveysgirl
i ask for their input before picking
08/21/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I agree with Bignuf and Sapphire - when I wear lingerie or a costume it's for my man to enjoy. I feel sexy in lingerie period, so I try to focus on what he likes to look at. He always tells me I could put on a potato sack and still be sexy, so far he's liked everything I've picked out, and he's made a few costume requests too. (Which I am happy to oblige. )
08/21/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
I agree with Bignuf and Sapphire - when I wear lingerie or a costume it's for my man to enjoy. I feel sexy in lingerie period, so I try to focus on what he likes to look at. He always tells me I could put on a potato sack and still be sexy, so ... more
well lets say the woman finds nurse costumes sexy and wants to try it out but the significant other is like MEh about nurses but may find you looking quite sexy int he outfit and ignore the fact its a nurse outfit...

I think if that is the case its ok to wear something like that once in a while..u know maybe a guy doesnt care about high heels or pay attention to your shoes but he can notice you are over all looking nice and sexy..
08/22/2011
Contributor: AshMegYo AshMegYo
Quote:
Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
was wondering who does this cuz I had a couple of questions
I rarely wear the lingerie I own just because I never take the time to get all sexy first. LOL
10/08/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm dressing up for him generally so I make sure he likes what I'm going to wear. He loves school girls so I wear a lot of school girl outfits.
10/09/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I kinda don't see the point in doing that cause for me, most of the reason I like to dress in lingerie is to turn a partner on.
10/10/2011
Contributor: 7Miles 7Miles
He isn't really picky and we have similar tastes in lingerie. I have gotten things that aren't his favorites because I like them. However, I've never gone out of my way to get something that he didn't like.
12/29/2011
Contributor: voenne voenne
That would just be a waste of money to me. But it sounds like something I would do as a joke because I just have a weird sense of humor. In any case, I buy lingerie based on what makes me feel good, because if it makes me feel confident and happy, I think that's more important than what the piece is itself.
12/29/2011
Contributor: SaMiKaY SaMiKaY
Sometimes.

Just because he doesn't like it, doesn't mean I don't have do dislike it too! lol He understands that it's something I am into and while it doesn't do anything for him, it helps me =)
12/29/2011
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Sometimes. If I put effort to make him happy, then he shouldn't be pissed or turned off if I wear something he doesn't like. I like to wear what I like!
12/29/2011
Contributor: Gimme More Gimme More
Nah that'd be pointless to me
12/29/2011