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Contributor: HisOneAndOnly HisOneAndOnly
I purchased a piece of lingerie for my partner, now that I have it I am not sure what I should do. I have already put it on for him, but feel like I am forgetting to do something. In the movies you see women doing strip dances and stuff, but I don't know how to dance for one, and I just don't know what you are supposed to do with a school girl outfit. Does anyone have any recommendations? I am always looking for ways to spice up my love life, but right at this point not sure how to with lingerie, my partner was never big into me buying lingerie before.

I am open to any or all recommendations. Thank you all so much in advance.
07/23/2012
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Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
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Originally posted by HisOneAndOnly
I purchased a piece of lingerie for my partner, now that I have it I am not sure what I should do. I have already put it on for him, but feel like I am forgetting to do something. In the movies you see women doing strip dances and stuff, but I ... more
You can do anything: dance, strip, role-play, all of the above. What would you like to do?
07/23/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
Maybe you could read some erotic stories to get some ideas. Does roleplaying appeal to you? I know that's what we like to do when I wear a school girl outfit. We will usually roleplay that he is the teacher and I am the student and come up with some little scenario.

Try and drop any judgements you have if you can and don't worry about looking or acting silly. Just do what feels sensual and sexy to you.
07/23/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Ok this might not make as much sense right off the bat, but I have a large collection of lingerie and I wear it around the house like it's my everyday clothing.

This works because we don't have children, but even if we did I would still wear certain things depending on the child's age (nighties and stuff like that). Think of lingerie as an accessory to your personality. The more you enjoy the piece, the more comfortable and radiant you will feel while in it. This will naturally boost your sex appeal and your mood.

The "end game" as it were, is to turn each other on so play with it and see what comes of it.
07/23/2012
Contributor: Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
(EdenFantasys)
I have experimented with different pieces of lingerie over the past year and one thing I have found that works best is this: wearing lingerie that I am comfortable in. If I like the color, the fit, the *feel*, then I'm going to be so much more likely to strut around in it and flaunt myself in it and act sexy and coy and sassy and naughty than I would if I were worried about back fat or jiggly thighs or loose laces.

When you're picking out lingerie, make sure you're finding stuff that appeals to *you*, in terms of look, fit, and feel. All are very important!
07/23/2012
Contributor: PeachCandy PeachCandy
That's great advice Jenn and Stormy. I definitely agree
07/23/2012
Contributor: ss143 ss143
I agree with Jenn and Stormy as well. If you aren't feeling comfortable or sexy in it you aren't going to be able to project what you are trying to. Id like to add to that the lingerie is for you to don't forget that
07/23/2012
Contributor: tami tami
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Originally posted by HisOneAndOnly
I purchased a piece of lingerie for my partner, now that I have it I am not sure what I should do. I have already put it on for him, but feel like I am forgetting to do something. In the movies you see women doing strip dances and stuff, but I ... more
try a little role playing address him as professor... or principal but if he is not up for it don't blame your self maybe he just does not like lingerie that is a "school" girl tell him you would like his opinion on what he likes so together you can enjoy it
07/29/2012