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Contributor: Lady Hazel Lady Hazel
I just wanted to get every ones opinion about something. I hate the way my body is. I am about 5'4...150lbs.. c cup. Not too great. I HATe the way i look in lingerie, but my boy friend seems to like my body. For you ladies, How do you get past your fears of the "chunky" body?? and men... well.. just your thoughts about it.

THanks.
01/06/2013
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Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Lady Hazel
I just wanted to get every ones opinion about something. I hate the way my body is. I am about 5'4...150lbs.. c cup. Not too great. I HATe the way i look in lingerie, but my boy friend seems to like my body. For you ladies, How do you get ... more
The reason that there are hundreds of styles, fits, and companies that make lingerie is that there are hundreds of bodies that have different needs. Just looking through Eden, there are tons of different things designed to accentuate your best features.

To give us a hint, what do you like best and what do you like worst about yourself? Proper lingerie should make you feel great, and if it doesn't you shouldn't wear it.

Feel free to message me if you don't want to talk about it more on the forums!
01/06/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I've learned to make friends w/ my body & highlight the best.
01/06/2013
Contributor: Ryanne Ryanne
I have learn to deal with what I have especially if my partner loves the way I look and doesn't want me to change anything about me. I'm just about your size and I've found a little bit of "meat" guys and girls love! Best of Luck.
01/08/2013
Contributor: Lady Hazel Lady Hazel
yes.. I am finding out that the slightly longer ones make me feel a bit more comfortable. I know that he is happy with my body, but I want to find a style that makes me feel sexy too.
01/09/2013
Contributor: Lady Hazel Lady Hazel
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Originally posted by Ryuson
The reason that there are hundreds of styles, fits, and companies that make lingerie is that there are hundreds of bodies that have different needs. Just looking through Eden, there are tons of different things designed to accentuate your best ... more
Thanks. I guess I hate from the waste down!! LOL I am happy with my c cup though. If they have alittle support, (even after 4 kids) my c cup looks pretty perky!!
01/09/2013
Contributor: thornrose thornrose
I try to find pieces that I love and most of the time my love for the piece out shines my fear of the piece and how I look in it.
01/10/2013
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady Hazel
Thanks. I guess I hate from the waste down!! LOL I am happy with my c cup though. If they have alittle support, (even after 4 kids) my c cup looks pretty perky!!
Something like these chemises might work well! One is good for accentuating your back and chest, and the other for accentuating your butt and chest. They both have underwire, which is good for support. They both are dark, which is slimming, and shouldn't show off your butt or hips.

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01/10/2013
Contributor: phroggielicker phroggielicker
I try to find pieces that show off my best assets and usually lingerie that is flowy and hides my midsection
01/13/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
Just look for something that looks good on you. Different types of lingerie work for different body types.
01/13/2013