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Contributor: Ali3n☆qu33n Ali3n☆qu33n
I absolutely love being able to dress up in my lingerie, especially when it's strappy or Lacey. But it seems as if most of the men I talk to or play around with just aren't into seeing a girl dressed in some sexy lingerie for them. I've been curious as to why this is. I'm looking for other peoples opinions and some pros and cons about lingerie. Maybe hearing others view points about this will help me better understand why most don't enjoy it.
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01/29/2020
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Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by Ali3n☆qu33n
I absolutely love being able to dress up in my lingerie, especially when it's strappy or Lacey. But it seems as if most of the men I talk to or play around with just aren't into seeing a girl dressed in some sexy lingerie for them. I've ... more
I really don't understand it either! I think it depends on their mood. I have 8-10 different lingerie outfits and sometimes my husband almost avoids me when I put them on. Other times he will ask me to put them on and acts excited about it. Although he enjoys when I send him pics in my lingerie but sometimes it seems like he would just prefer that! Almost like he seems unsure of what to do when I have it on when he's around I'd like answers also!
01/29/2020
Contributor: Soundside46 Soundside46
It is always nice and appreciated for my wife to surprise me by wearing lingerie. She always looks sexy to me but it is nice to see her in a nice corset or other piece of lingerie.
01/29/2020
Contributor: Nightstalkerlove Nightstalkerlove
I love seeing women in lingerie and i love seeing them without clothes too. its good to change things so its not the same all the time. But i have noticed that some of the outfits cover what i want to get to with no "easy access" and i usually am not sure how long she wants it to stay on. Sometimes i think i may want to take it off too fast for her to be happy but its just because im excited and ready! I guess we could talk about it but we just never do.
01/30/2020
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
LOL - for over 20 years I spent - or should I say wasted a small fortune buying lingerie for my wife. She could just never be bothered.

All of the sudden now she's into it - I've moved on and could care less
01/31/2020
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
LOL - for over 20 years I spent - or should I say wasted a small fortune buying lingerie for my wife. She could just never be bothered.

All of the sudden now she's into it - I've moved on and could care less
Crazy how opposite that seemed to work for you guys! I noticed lately my husband has been more turned on if I just wear an oversized plain shirt with just a pair of sexy panties on. So yes this has been my go to lately

I feel like it's hard figuring out what he wants and likes sometimes because he's always so back and forth on it!
01/31/2020
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
I buy pretty stuff that I feel sexy in and feel like I have to force my husband to 'deal with it' for a few minutes. He just doesn't seem to care about the sexy outfits really. I mean he will comment and say 'that's really pretty' or 'I like that', but most of the time when I come out he says 'Why do you have clothes on?' LOL! It's fine though, it just means that we get to the good parts faster!
02/01/2020
Contributor: Robin Goodfellow Robin Goodfellow
I find that lingerie "works" best as a surprise at a reunion of sorts when my partner and I have been away from each other for a while.

Or, when we do a photo shoot.. it always ends up fun.
02/12/2020
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I usually only wear few times then they sit in the closet. I never get tired of my faux black skin tight leather leggings.
02/14/2020
Contributor: Mr.Pitt Mr.Pitt
I love lingerie and any type of bra and panties. I beg my wife to wear things. Really like teddies and anything crotchless.
06/10/2020
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
My BF doesn't care what lingerie is on me or if there any underwear at all. It seems like he doesn't notice at all when I'm wearing something "special". Anyway, I enjoy to dress up in sexy bra, panties or chemise and I do it almost for each sex session. I just feel myself much sexier, more attractive and confident in that way.
06/12/2020
Contributor: CuriousFun CuriousFun
I've never had a male partner who was especially into seeing me in lingerie. The general consensus seemed to be that they'd rather just rip it off and have me fully naked.

I did have a female partner who enjoyed me in lingerie....though even then, it never stayed on for long. It was more of a "Wow, that looks really hot....now take it off!" kind of thing, haha. But she at least seemed to appreciate the effort, which was nice.

Even back when I had playmates, I tended to buy and wear lingerie mostly for myself rather than to arouse a partner. I liked the feeling of knowing I was wearing something sexy and a little naughty under my clothes. These days, though, I tend to prioritise comfort above all else, and haven't bought any sexy undies in years.
06/12/2020