Start with small changes. Stick to what he likes with a little twist to it instead of a dramatic change. It should make you feel sexy in any case.

I agree with deltalima. The way i like and know my bf likes what i get is for one we like the same colors which is great bc i look good in reds/blacks/dark purples/ and greens....and when it comes to texture fishnets and meshy we both like but with lace it just depends.

Im not sure what it is that upsets your husband but buying lingerie is like buying clothes, you want something that suits you body and also what feels comfortable against your skin (i hate feeling itchy in something im ment to look sexy in.)

Yeah, I'm not gonna be much of a help because I buy lingerie I like even if I know my husband will hate it. I can look at lingerie at this point and judge pretty well how he'll feel about it. I buy it as much for me as for him. Usually what I try to do is buy two things if I'm buying something he'll despise - the one he'll hate and one I know he'll LOVE. That way it evens out. I haven't managed to change his opinions any on what lingerie he likes. He likes what he likes, but he tolerates when I wear what I like as well.

Thanks guys, this was a lot of help, I thought about trying to mix his taste with my taste and see what we get! He may just like it, but too afraid to admit it.