I love to wear sexy lingerie, but I also want to be comfortable. How do you feel about it?
Lingerie preferences - comfort vs appearance?
Discussion Topics
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How do you feel about lingerie, and what are your purposes for wearing it?
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Do you buy lingerie for yourself or your partner?
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What's more important to you - looks or comfort?
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How long do you wear your lingerie?
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Do you purchase your lingerie to ornament your body (and probably not to stay on for long?) or to wear for an extended period?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
12/06/2011
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I wear it to look sexy not long time
Originally posted by
Silverdrop
Do you purchase your lingerie to ornament your body (and probably not to stay on for long?) or to wear for an extended period?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
I wear it for both i feel sexy and i know he will enjoy it.
Both I like PJ dresses or a large t-shirt it depends on what is in the laundry or how hot or cold my house is lol .
12/06/2011
I want to find more lingerie that looks good but is comfortable enough to sleep in. It's so hard to find though!
12/07/2011
I typically want something I'll wear for some amount of time, that's comfy enough that it doesn't matter if I sleep in it and I wear it for both of us, but mostly me because I like to look cute, and I'm a bit narcissistic at times.
12/09/2011
I prefer sleepwear in general because it's more comfortable then me. My family makes fun of me for it, but when I'm home for a long period of time I'm always in a nightgown (unless it's, like, Christmas dinner and the such). So yeah, comfort is a definite priority.
12/10/2011
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I don't have any lingerie because my husband thinks I look better without it.
Originally posted by
Silverdrop
Do you purchase your lingerie to ornament your body (and probably not to stay on for long?) or to wear for an extended period?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
I want some but only for myself.
I sleep in whatever is comfortable.
12/10/2011
just for play
12/10/2011
I like my lingerie to be versatile, sexy and comfy. I don't usually sleep in it though. Typically I wear lingerie for myself but I'll put it on to entice my partner too.
12/11/2011
I like my lingerie to be both sexy and comfortable.
01/13/2012
I just want to be comfortable. I don't care what it looks like.
03/21/2012
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I think that comfort is my #1 goal. If I am not comfortable in it.. then I dont feel very confident in it.
Originally posted by
Silverdrop
Do you purchase your lingerie to ornament your body (and probably not to stay on for long?) or to wear for an extended period?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
03/21/2012
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My sexy lingerie is generally for sex or masturbation. I like to sleep in a cotton chemise or nude.
Originally posted by
Silverdrop
Do you purchase your lingerie to ornament your body (and probably not to stay on for long?) or to wear for an extended period?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
03/22/2012
I tend to wear it for my boyfriend, but sometimes for myself!
03/23/2012
I tend to have to types of lingerie - lingerie that just needs to be comfortable, and lingerie that needs to look a certain way.
03/23/2012
I love lingerie to wear for a partner. But since I don't have one I am using mine for work.
03/23/2012
waear it to make meblook sexy
03/23/2012
I wear it to look sexy for my lover. I have occasionally fallen asleep in some though, lol.
03/24/2012
I purchase some lingerie with the purpose of keeping it on for a while, mostly for my own happiness, although it's not normally the most comfy thing I own. Some of it won't really work under clothes for one reason or another, but is too hot not to buy anyway, so I guess I own a balance. Sleeping is non-negotiable though. I sleep naked.
03/25/2012
My purpose is to look sexy for my partner.
07/04/2012
My purpose it to find something sexy most of the time, but occasionally I want something comfortable. I wear lingerie to feel sexy for myself which in turn is sexy for my partner.
07/04/2012
to look different
07/04/2012
I sleep nude. I also prefer comfy and sexy lingerie, but for a special occasion I will go all out.
07/05/2012
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i wear it for a short amount of time, so no need to be comfy i wear it for both of us, and i wear something comfy, no need to be sexy in my sleep
Originally posted by
Silverdrop
Do you purchase your lingerie to ornament your body (and probably not to stay on for long?) or to wear for an extended period?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
07/06/2012
I wear it to look sexy. Although if the material is itchy or irritates my skin I will not wear it, so it least has to be somewhat comfortable.
07/12/2012
First off, I sleep nude because it's more comfortable. But when it comes to using lingerie during sex, I go for appearance more than comfort because it usually doesn't stay on very long. I recently bought a pair of crotchless panties that aren't very comfortable but I forgot all about that when I realized how sexy they made me feel!
07/12/2012
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I sleep naked but wear lingerie for fourplay.
Originally posted by
Silverdrop
Do you purchase your lingerie to ornament your body (and probably not to stay on for long?) or to wear for an extended period?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
Do you wear it for yourself, or for your partner?
Do you sleep in sexy lingerie or something comfy but unsexy?
07/12/2012
Mainly to ornament my body, but it helps sometimes when I keep it on longer.
My partner. Andy likes it when I randomly surprise him with a new item or outfit.
Nothing. I sleep next to a man whose body heat heats up the bed to 90% I swear...
My partner. Andy likes it when I randomly surprise him with a new item or outfit.
Nothing. I sleep next to a man whose body heat heats up the bed to 90% I swear...
07/12/2012
I like to look and feel sexy.
07/12/2012
The purpose of lingerie is to look sexy. Its not all completely about comfort. Im pretty sure your partner wouldnt wanna see you in a nightgown or pajamas when your gonna have sex. You should look good and wear a corset or a babydoll. Those are confortable and theres even costumes out there that are confortable as well.
07/17/2012
Total posts: 29
Unique posters: 27
Is it to make yourself feel sexy, or to make your partner's jaw drop?
12/06/2011
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I suppose I'm rather odd, but I like to just have things. I like different textures and I'm the kind of person who can't leave a fabric store until she's touched everything. I do like to wear things for myself (I'll wear it all alone under a bathrobe just to flash myself in the mirror every now and then.) I also like things I can wear under my clothes. It's like having a pretty pair of shoes on, only no one else gets to see.
12/09/2011
I am looking into buying some but it is for me.
12/10/2011
I absolutely love how I look and feel in corsets, so I buy them for myself - but I like getting extra attention from my partner too. ;]
01/13/2012
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I buy things I like, and my partners seem to like them too...
Originally posted by
Silverdrop
Is it to make yourself feel sexy, or to make your partner's jaw drop?
03/22/2012
Both. I love wearing it and he loves seeing me in it, haha.
03/23/2012
Both
03/24/2012
he would have no idea what to buy
03/24/2012
I buy more lingerie when I'm single... something about looking sexy under bland work/day clothes just makes me happy.
Of course, having a huge single-girl lingerie collection does have pleasant side-effects when I do end up in a relationship ^_^
Of course, having a huge single-girl lingerie collection does have pleasant side-effects when I do end up in a relationship ^_^
03/25/2012
Other, I do tell my Baby what I want to see on her, she loves getting those pieces.
07/04/2012
I love getting new pieces to surprise the hubby.
07/04/2012
for both of us
07/04/2012
both
07/06/2012
I love how it makes me feel, and part of that is from his response of me wearing it for him...so I usually pick something that he is really going to like.
07/06/2012
I could care less if it's for me (because I know no matter what I wear, hubby will like it) But I love seeing how he responds. I just recently find out he has a thing for maids, so the next costume~ I think we know what I'm getting~
07/12/2012
I buy lingerie for myself mostly.
07/12/2012
Mainly for him but I recently bought a leopard piece for myself to sleep in
07/17/2012
mainly for him, but sometimes I sleep in them so me too I guess
09/01/2012
Really for all the reasons listed
09/17/2012
Total posts: 19
Unique posters: 19
If you have to sacrifice appearance or comfort, which do you go for?
12/06/2011
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I value sexy lingerie but if it's itchy or scratchy I'm not going to want to ever wear it again.
12/10/2011
It HAS to have both for me. I want my cake and eat it too...hehe.
12/10/2011
It has to be comfortable as well as look nice.
12/10/2011
Yeah, I agree. It should be both.
03/21/2012
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Sexy lingerie isn't sexy if the person is visually uncomfortable.
Originally posted by
Silverdrop
If you have to sacrifice appearance or comfort, which do you go for?
03/22/2012
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It cant be uncomfortable to the point that I dont want to wear it!
Originally posted by
Silverdrop
If you have to sacrifice appearance or comfort, which do you go for?
03/22/2012
I go for the looks in lingerie, but comfort is good too.
03/23/2012
i always think my gf looks great, but i feel that comfort is very important in lingerie for her sake.
03/23/2012
Looks are more important. I won't be wearing it for too long anyways.
03/24/2012
looks are the main part for me, but it really depends on the day
03/24/2012
It must be sexy on me or I'm not buying it! Comfort is an afterthought, or a way to decide between two equally sexy pieces.
03/25/2012
Smoking hot, it's not going to stay on long enough to matter about comfort.
07/04/2012
if it looks good but is uncomfortable i won't keep it on for long
07/04/2012
Looking sexy is more important for me. I can deal with a little discomfort for awhile. I hate itchy things though!
07/05/2012
looks and comfort
07/06/2012
Looks and comfort. I want both, but if its hot enough I will sacrifice the comfort!
07/06/2012
Other, I am a male, not wearing lingerie...
07/12/2012
I'm a big girl, even if I wasn't overweight, I'm still big boned and tall so it's a little hard to find plus size lingerie that's comfy for me.
I rather be comfy. I don't feel sexy if I'm trying my damnest to get out of a uncomfy piece of clothing.
I rather be comfy. I don't feel sexy if I'm trying my damnest to get out of a uncomfy piece of clothing.
07/12/2012
If it's not comfortable, there's no way I can feel sexy. I'll just be cranky :p
07/12/2012
both
09/01/2012
Total posts: 21
Unique posters: 21
Is it only there to be removed? Or do you sleep in it? Do you wear it around the house, even when your partner isn't around? Do you wear sexy things under your clothes?
12/06/2011
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I haven't ever worn lingerie, I sleep in comfortable unsexy things.
12/10/2011
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I like to enjoy it as much as I can!
Originally posted by
Silverdrop
Is it only there to be removed? Or do you sleep in it? Do you wear it around the house, even when your partner isn't around? Do you wear sexy things under your clothes?
03/22/2012
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Not very long at all, although there are times I end up falling asleep in my lingerie after sex.
Originally posted by
Silverdrop
Is it only there to be removed? Or do you sleep in it? Do you wear it around the house, even when your partner isn't around? Do you wear sexy things under your clothes?
03/24/2012
not for too long
03/24/2012
All day if I'm in the mood, although I never sleep in it. I didn't vote for sleeping in "unsexy but comfy things" though, because I don't really want to consider my bare skin unsexy.
03/25/2012
Unwrapped, only worn to get his attention. I sleep nude.
07/04/2012
generally just for sex, or to feel sexy
07/04/2012
Mostly for sex. I never sleep in lingerie, always nude.
07/06/2012
Other, like said before, am a male, no lingerie for me.
07/12/2012
I'm more or less likely to wear my body stocking under clothing, or put on a new outfit and wait for hubby to get home, but as for sleeping. Just give me hubby's shirt or nothing at all. I'm good.
07/12/2012
I just wear it for the bedroom then usually when I go to sleep I'll change into something else.
07/17/2012
Sleeping and other lingerie wearing times are totally different for me
09/01/2012
usually not too long
09/01/2012
Total posts: 14
Unique posters: 14