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Contributor: Taylor Taylor
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Originally posted by paralax
is getting dressed up worth it? does it just end up on the floor? or is it a turn on doing it while wearing it?
I love dressing up but I do it more for me than for him. I know he likes it but I think I get more turned on by it than he does.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Taylor
I love dressing up but I do it more for me than for him. I know he likes it but I think I get more turned on by it than he does.
I' glad to hear that at least one woman out there also gets pleasure from it! It seems 99% do it for the guy.

I think your point is right on - when you spend time on mental and physical preparation for your SO, you become the beneficiary because - as I've written in many posts - the brain is your biggest sex organ. Get that baby cranked up and you're going to have some fun!

Putting on something sexy - is way more engaging than just laying on the bed naked and waiting to see if you can get you off.

Plan - plan to please and you'll always enjoy!
10/27/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Liz
It's worth it for me. My partner is very visual, and sexy lingerie/outfits really turn him on, so I love getting dressed up for that purpose. And it doesn't always end up on the floor!
Ditto. I love wearing costumes and lingerie. I spend a lot of time primping and prepping and I feel waaaay sexier.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I love getting all sexy and dolled up and he's doing some emailing on his computer andI bring him a drink and he says "Thanks" and then turns in shock. Just his eyes sliding over my body makes me tingle. It's nice to have my efforts and body apperciated.
10/27/2010
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
My favorite is when I come home from being gone for 4 days at work, and she opens the door for me but she is dressed up.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by leatherlover
My favorite is when I come home from being gone for 4 days at work, and she opens the door for me but she is dressed up.
I travel a lot too - unfortunately that doesn't happen for me - but the welcome home sex is always great
10/27/2010
Contributor: caribeguy caribeguy
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
is getting dressed up worth it? does it just end up on the floor? or is it a turn on doing it while wearing it?
Absolutely worth it ladies! It makes it so hot!
10/29/2010
Contributor: Raggedy Andie Raggedy Andie
I love dressing up! I love to try on and buy lingerie that my husband finds sexy. It doesn't stay on long though.
12/28/2010
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
So far, when I put on thigh highs that is even enough to turn him on and make me feel sexy.
I've worn them during sex, but I get worried I'll tear nice lingerie or get the fabric soiled or stained!
02/12/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Showing off is part of the fun!
02/12/2011
Contributor: Moein Moein
We are human like things to be creative and spicy.

If she doesn't dress up what is the addition for sex!!!

Dressing mkes women so hot, so beautiful, and so amazing. I can't realize women just come naked to hot nights.. it is not human way to deal with things.
02/12/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
It's definitely worth it to spice things up with your partner. Sometimes dressing up can be a fun kickstart and freshens a relationship up. You don't have to spend a fortune either... keep it simple and fun.
02/13/2011
Contributor: girl next door girl next door
I love putting on my naughty school girl outfit or bustier. It makes me feel very sexy and desirable, so even if it ends up on the floor it is totally worth it for me, since it turns me on a lot.
02/13/2011
Contributor: al16 al16
Depends on the day
02/20/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
It's fun, and men are visual.

I know my boyfriend doesn't complain about the little collection I've gotten since finding EdenFantasys.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I love getting dressed up for him. He loves it too. It makes for a wild night of fun, lol...
02/20/2011
Contributor: Eorwyn Eorwyn
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Originally posted by Alicia
I didn't answer the poll because nothing really fit for me. If my partner was turned on by it I would think it was worth it. However he likes absolute nakedness, so not only would it end up on the floor but there wouldn't even be the ... more
I wear lingerie because I enjoy the look of it, but I think my husband prefers nakedness. He only pays attention to the lingerie because I like it haha
02/20/2011
Contributor: kl89 kl89
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Originally posted by paralax
is getting dressed up worth it? does it just end up on the floor? or is it a turn on doing it while wearing it?
Getting dressed up is soooo worth it, although it does most often end up on the floor. I suppose it would be a turn on for him if I wore it during, but in my experience, whatever im wearing is too uncomfortable for me too fully enjoy myself...
02/20/2011
Contributor: teeny <3 teeny <3
I'm all for wearing sexy lingerie and makeup!

I don't always have the greatest self esteem, but when I feel sexy and confident I'm a much better lover. And I love seeing the surprised look on his face when he discovers I'm wearing something special just for him under my clothes. Some couples cook eachother dinner or give foot rubs as a gesture of affection, I choose to wear naughty panites
02/20/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Dressing up is really fun! And the results are definitely worth it
02/26/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by teeny <3
I'm all for wearing sexy lingerie and makeup!

I don't always have the greatest self esteem, but when I feel sexy and confident I'm a much better lover. And I love seeing the surprised look on his face when he discovers I'm ... more
^_^ I love wearing something nice and cute out on a date, and then telling him I have no panties on.
02/26/2011
Contributor: SapphirexIce SapphirexIce
I'm not sure, I guess the guy would be more turned on but I never bothered asking any guy I dated when I wore my corset or school girl outfit how they felt, so I can't really say.
02/26/2011
Contributor: Amy Snookum Amy Snookum
Totally worth it! Like to undrees my GF and just luv when she undress me. Lingeries, panties, skirts, all the way!
03/29/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Whenever I dress up he always gets so much more into it even though it usually only stays on for a few minutes, so it's totally worth it!
04/05/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by paralax
is getting dressed up worth it? does it just end up on the floor? or is it a turn on doing it while wearing it?
I always like getting dressed up even if it winds up on the floor
04/10/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
I used to get dressed up all the time. I have finally curbed my addiction to Victoria Secret. However, I struggle with a lot of body image issues and got really frustrated with getting dressed up and immediatly it would come off. It would come off before he could enjoy it. So I stopped wearing lingerie. I know that he likes it and that it totally turns him on. One day, I hope to be comfortable in wearing lingerie.
04/10/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I love dressing up. It always makes me feel sexier, and he enjoys it a lot too.
04/11/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
It's worth it for me too, my man loves some of my sexy gowns. In fact, I'll actually put them back on after sex while we flirt and chat, that way he gets to enjoy it longer, and it usually leads to round 2 and 3. lol
04/11/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by paralax
is getting dressed up worth it? does it just end up on the floor? or is it a turn on doing it while wearing it?
Absolutely he loves it...and it shows!
04/11/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by paralax
is getting dressed up worth it? does it just end up on the floor? or is it a turn on doing it while wearing it?
Absolutely he loves it...and it shows!
04/11/2011