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What would give to another couple as a gift?

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Contributor: Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
My circle is very tame so I'd go for items that could be used for naughty stuff, but also have practical functions:

Sliquid Splash Splash intimate body wash, good for cleaning or freshening before the big event

Liberator Heart Wedge A sexual position aid and a lovely decoration

Fascinator Posh Throe Something to keep them warm when watching TV or something to keep them dry when engaging in other entertainment
08/01/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Like a sensual kit with oils and what nots.
08/01/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
Can't go wrong with massage oil or bondage gear
08/01/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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I think that I'd get them a small, waterproof vibrator, some bubble bath, some lube, some cleaner, some scented oils, some whipped cream, and maybe a gift card so that they can expand on that!
08/01/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I'm going with massage oil, because that's the safest route
12/05/2011
Contributor: voenne voenne
I would say massage oil/candles would be the best bet. I wouldn't want to make assumptions of what they would enjoy in the bedroom otherwise, or if anything would offend them, since that is a personal matter.
12/05/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
Cock ring, massage oil and lube
12/15/2011
Contributor: Valentinka Valentinka
This poll is pretty old, but actually pretty informative. Interesting to know what other people think on this matter. Massage Oil scores the most and it's what I would pick myself. Not too personal and not intimidating
12/15/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by Eden C.
Which items would you be willing to give another couple as a gift? Assume that you think they would be interested and that price isn't a factor.

Discuss your answers! What do you think would be inappropriate to give to another ... more
I think massage oil would make a nice gift
12/15/2011
Contributor: jedent jedent
i have given bondage gear, and i have also given a glass juicer for her and a glass plug for him.
12/15/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
Probably massage oil
12/15/2011
Contributor: CS2012 CS2012
I voted that I would give a cock ring, lingerie, and lubricant. In fact I plan on giving my step-father a vibrating cock ring, lubricant and a piece of lingerie for Christmas. Obviously, the lingerie is for my Mom to wear but I am including it in his present since he will get enjoyment seeing her wear it.

Naturally, I am giving it to them before Christmas next week in private.
12/15/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
How well do you know them? If you know them well, go for a flexible cock ring (so it can accommodate many sizes in case you don't know exact penis size) or a couple's vibrator, like a We-Vibe 2 or 3.

If it's more distant, go for a GC or massage oil.
12/23/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Something like lube, massage oil or sex toy cleaner. I wouldn't want to get them something TOO specific that they might not like or use, unless I knew them very very well.
12/23/2011
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
MASSAGE OIL for any couple. The closer friends you are with them the more intimate you can get away with. The longer that you know them the easier it is to decide how comfortable you will be in this type of gift.
02/17/2012
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by Eden C.
Which items would you be willing to give another couple as a gift? Assume that you think they would be interested and that price isn't a factor.

Discuss your answers! What do you think would be inappropriate to give to another ... more
Lingerie
02/21/2012
Contributor: LacyRogue LacyRogue
Quote:
Originally posted by Eden C.
Which items would you be willing to give another couple as a gift? Assume that you think they would be interested and that price isn't a factor.

Discuss your answers! What do you think would be inappropriate to give to another ... more
It's hard to say or tell what other couples are into so massage oil is always a safe bet!
02/21/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
It really depends on how much I know about their interests. I mean, if I know they're into serious s&m, then I'll get them whips or bats or whatever. If they're into light and fluffy sex, I might get massage oils or lube. I don't think I'd ever buy someone lingerie because I'd be unsure about their personal preferences and fit. And vibrators/dildos can be tricky, because they may not like the size/design/power of what they get.
02/21/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I think massage oil and candles are definitely a good gift. If I knew for a fact that they were into specific things, I would get that.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
The Wii vibe would be a cool gift but massage oils is a safe one. Guess it depends on the friend and what type of event.
02/27/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
The only item out of that list I would give would be massage oil.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Kind of embarassing to give them toys or dvds XD
03/05/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by Eden C.
Which items would you be willing to give another couple as a gift? Assume that you think they would be interested and that price isn't a factor.

Discuss your answers! What do you think would be inappropriate to give to another ... more
Massage Oil
03/06/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
Yup, depends on the couple!
03/06/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Condoms of some sort! Safe sex is good sex!
03/10/2012
Contributor: Hibangel Hibangel
Depends on the couple. I would usually just say massage oil and other for most couples, except for this one couple I know, who judging by their interests it's safe to assume they would happily accept bondage gear, whips, nipple clamps, etc.
03/16/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
Out of these options...massage oil
03/16/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I'd make a gift basket of some small less pricey items mixed with a couple higher end vibes/dildos and some bondage gear. Most of our friends are quite kinky just like us
03/16/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
If money were no object, then I'd suggest a Liberator.
03/16/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
Gift card, candles, oils.
03/16/2012