My niece who is about ten years younger than me recently married. We have fallen out of touch over the past few years and I've never met her husband. But I do want to send them both a nice gift that they could enjoy together.
She is registered at a couple of home stores (like Bed Bath & Beyond), but I was thinking it might be nice to get them something more indulgent, like a massage candle by JimmyJane and a couple of JimmyJane's massage stones.
Instead of two massage stones and a massage candle, I also considered getting her the Afterglow massage candle, the M massage stone, and an Iconic Bullet, Iconic Smoothie, or Indulgences kit (though, unfortunately, it seems as though the kit has some quality-control issues). But I am not sure if that would be crossing some invisible "inappropriate" line or not to actually include a vibrator with my gift. (Also, I don't want it to seem like I am gearing the gift more toward my niece, though I envisioned any toy being used more for fun couple's play.)
Do you think this might be a little weird for an aunt to send her niece and her new husband more intimate gifts, such as the ones I described? My extended family is extremely vanilla, but I have no idea what interests my niece has (though I think she definitely has a fun side).
Should I instead just go the boring route and pick something from Bed Bath & Beyond or send them a gift certificate from a vanilla home store? Or should I be bold and send her something she may have never tried, may love, and may enhance time spent with her new husband?
To me, part of the fun of receiving a gift is to receive something that you would not normally splurge on for yourself. For example, I'd love to try the massage candles and massage stones, but I keep telling myself that they are simply too much of a splurge when I should put my money toward something more practical.
So, these types of things are my idea of a most indulgent and welcome gift.
I keep dragging my feet in making a selection for them and I am determined to finally get a gift on its way to them before the end of this week.
Opinions? Suggestions? Either or both would be greatly appreciated.
She is registered at a couple of home stores (like Bed Bath & Beyond), but I was thinking it might be nice to get them something more indulgent, like a massage candle by JimmyJane and a couple of JimmyJane's massage stones.
Instead of two massage stones and a massage candle, I also considered getting her the Afterglow massage candle, the M massage stone, and an Iconic Bullet, Iconic Smoothie, or Indulgences kit (though, unfortunately, it seems as though the kit has some quality-control issues). But I am not sure if that would be crossing some invisible "inappropriate" line or not to actually include a vibrator with my gift. (Also, I don't want it to seem like I am gearing the gift more toward my niece, though I envisioned any toy being used more for fun couple's play.)
Do you think this might be a little weird for an aunt to send her niece and her new husband more intimate gifts, such as the ones I described? My extended family is extremely vanilla, but I have no idea what interests my niece has (though I think she definitely has a fun side).
Should I instead just go the boring route and pick something from Bed Bath & Beyond or send them a gift certificate from a vanilla home store? Or should I be bold and send her something she may have never tried, may love, and may enhance time spent with her new husband?
To me, part of the fun of receiving a gift is to receive something that you would not normally splurge on for yourself. For example, I'd love to try the massage candles and massage stones, but I keep telling myself that they are simply too much of a splurge when I should put my money toward something more practical.
So, these types of things are my idea of a most indulgent and welcome gift.
I keep dragging my feet in making a selection for them and I am determined to finally get a gift on its way to them before the end of this week.
Opinions? Suggestions? Either or both would be greatly appreciated.