I got my husband a fleshlight for Christmas.

That's hard. No pun intended. My husband refuses to go anywhere near a fleshlight. They're huge and bulky. And word on the street is they are really difficult to clean, which I would assume raises your risks of vaginal infections.

Whenever I ask my husband if he wants something his reply is:

Whatever you get is for me, so just think about it that way.

Is he into porn or anything like that? Maybe you could surprise him with a nice, big dildo and some new lingerie and give him one hell of a show. Or get things you like and make a video of you using them and give that as the present?

Lingerie for you? It really depends.

My first sex toy was a fleshlight, and I have no regrets at all. Have tried a few other masturbators, all of which have ended in the trash, with the exception of another fleshlight with a different texture.

Fleshlights tend to be pretty common gifts. If he's into anything kinky a nice set of handcuffs for him to cuff you up. Lingerie is always hot.

I second the idea of lingerie for you.

Unless you know your guy would actually be open to using toys on himself, I would stick to more "traditional" things.

Most guys would be perfectly happy for their gal to play dress up for them.

If you want something other than that, choose something else you can do together or that he can do to you. Cuffs for him to restrain you with.

I considered getting my guy the Bourbon afterglow candle and nice bottle of whisky so my guy could get his drink on while I gave him a massage. Still might do that, actually lol