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Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
OK, so I have this friend and she's EXTREMELY shy, she is dating this VERY nice guy who's just as perverted as I am. ^^ I want to get her a sensual sex kit or small for for her and her boyfriend to use. We are pretty good friends and also roommates, she knows I have a suitable collection myself.
She's pretty shy so do you think even something simple would be too much?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Too Much
4
She wont mind
6
Only if it isn't a large honkin dildo
18
Maybe something simple like edible candle?
26
Other
3
Total votes: 57 (43 voters)
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03/12/2011
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Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
For someone that is super shy, I would start out with a nice massage set, like this one or this one, or even a very simple, discreet, but high quality and classy clitoral stimulator, like the Mimi or Lily/Nea. I wouldn't go for a dildo, or anything insertable, as it really is the person's preference on size, shape, texture, etc, but, clitoral stimulators are sure to be enjoyed by everyone.
03/13/2011
Contributor: ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
OK, so I have this friend and she's EXTREMELY shy, she is dating this VERY nice guy who's just as perverted as I am. ^^ I want to get her a sensual sex kit or small for for her and her boyfriend to use. We are pretty good friends and also ... more
i would go for a kit wit varity and than she can try out a lil of this and a lil of that and see what she likes than she might be more open to what she likes too
03/13/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
If you're getting something that the two of them can do together, I would suggest a game, like Cosmo's Truth or Dare game. I think this is essential for new couples who are starting to experiment into their sexuality.

If you're getting something for her to play with solo, get her a small vibe for beginners. She may be too shy to say that she'd actually like to get something like this one day.
04/15/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
Something small or romantic, just to introduce her to the items.
Maybe a game or oils set.
06/12/2011
Contributor: TheHardOne TheHardOne
I agree, something small or romantic, just to introduce her to the items.
That way they won't take it the wrong way.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
I suggest something that includes some toy-like items but seems focused on the romance part. This would work wonderfully:
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09/02/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
it's ok to give
09/02/2011
Contributor: emilia emilia
something like a candle or oil
10/09/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
Something small. No dildos or huge vibrators. Maybe a vibrating cock ring? It would be nice for a couple.
12/15/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I'd probably go with something more sensual and romantic, unless you find out for sure she'd be interested in something more serious. But something tame would be a great gift
12/23/2011
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
yea give her something small
12/23/2011
Contributor: Hibangel Hibangel
Give something that focuses on the romantic.. like a making a kit with massage oil, shower gel, candles, lotions.. that just happens to have a vibrating cock ring and discreet bullet vibe in there, for a mild introduction.
03/16/2012
Contributor: tinadice tinadice
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
OK, so I have this friend and she's EXTREMELY shy, she is dating this VERY nice guy who's just as perverted as I am. ^^ I want to get her a sensual sex kit or small for for her and her boyfriend to use. We are pretty good friends and also ... more
Maybe something simple
03/16/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Quote:
Originally posted by Kayla
I suggest something that includes some toy-like items but seems focused on the romance part. This would work wonderfully:
link
link ... more
Great suggestions! I'd go for something like those or maybe some edible massage candles, something simple but nice.
03/16/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
id get her a bullet or something
03/17/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Something simple
03/17/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
Something small, simple, and cute that they can use together if nothing else.
04/02/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
something small and simple is a good idea so shes not to overwhelmed
06/10/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
A massage candle would be nice.
06/10/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I seem shy to people but would be a total freak in bed, so i don't know. Maybe she's hiding her freaky side like me.
06/25/2012