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Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Okay, so, between free reviews and giftcards and splurging, my partner and I have tried a lot of toys. For his birthday after I got all the vanilla gift (check) I wanted to get him a naughty one. A toy that would be just his, and not part of our shared collection. He's never really had an interest in taking any of the prostate massagers or dildos or anything to his place; he prefers we just keep them in my chests for playtime. But I think it would be nice to get him a particularly lovely toy for him to have all to himself, you know for uh, quality alone time?

So what can I get that won't make him yawn, with him having seen and done a lot of this already? What do you get for a boy's butt (or penis) when it is so jaded!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Tenga Flip Hole
Carrie Ann , sophie2229 , El-Jaro , Splendwhore , BrokeNHorny , Airen Wolf , kck , Sir , sexyhellokitty , Envy , NightNight , MuffysPinguLove , Kayla , null , nolongerhere , Unconventional , Selective Sensualist , The Nakanas , Pandahb , Penguin , DeliciousSurprise , Trashley , Kindred , Kiskis2 , Mr. E , Naughty Student , CanMan , Taylor , Kestrel , northstar , potstickers , rdytogo , Jenniae09 , Lummox , hjtee , sexygoddess , ellejay , Devz , Eucaly , B8trDude , big b , Scott Ghost , Redboxbaby , blazingshadow08 , newfoundlust , emilia , Ghost , The Curious Couple , Stinkytofu10 , NewBystader , MistressDandelion , Kitka , dks210 , hall5885 , P3ngu1n78 , Stagger13 , sexykiss , Grellopop , amenti , Missmarc , sexytileena / absolutely love sex , karenm , mpfm , Ayogirl230
64  (81%)
Vixen Outlaw
trios , XXXXXXXXXXXXX , Research , Phoenix713 , noofbat , dv8 , slynch , TheHardOne , ghalik
9  (11%)
Njoy Fun Wand
ToyTimeTim , Gunsmoke , Beck , MissCandyland , FHeemz , CamelliaGirl
6  (8%)
Total votes: 79
Poll is closed
07/16/2010
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Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
The Njoy is at the top of my list. Something about stainless, ahhh.
07/16/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I found the fun wand to be kind of pokey and hard to use alone so my vote went to the Tenga. Chomp chomp!
07/16/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
I found the fun wand to be kind of pokey and hard to use alone so my vote went to the Tenga. Chomp chomp!
It's funny that you said that because when I was creating this list I actually was thinking of your review of this and how you ended up trading (I think?) the Fun Wand because you found it uncomfortable. I also know you have pretty much all the other Njoy stuff so it's not that you don't like Njoy, just this Fun wand. I was hesitant but decided to get some feedback, although I might be leaning toward the Tenga just because he's never used anything like that.
07/16/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
The Njoy is at the top of my list. Something about stainless, ahhh.
I have two Njoy toys, and I love them both. Definitely get one if the opportunity ever presents itself, they really are unlike anything else.
07/16/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
I got the fliphole for Sigel for being such a good sport and actually trying out all the blow up dolls and other strokers that didn't go over very well. He LOVES the fliphole and says it is one of the best gifts he's ever received. They ever have a hole warmer link to make sure it's just the right temperature. What a pampering gift, no?
07/17/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I got the fliphole for Sigel for being such a good sport and actually trying out all the blow up dolls and other strokers that didn't go over very well. He LOVES the fliphole and says it is one of the best gifts he's ever received. They ever ... more
That. is. awesome. I didn't know that about the Tenga, Airen! Thanks for pointing it out

My man has a Fleshlight (which he *loves*), but I really want him to try out a Tenga... I think some of the textures are pretty kinky and sexy
07/17/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Looks like people definitely prefer the Fliphole! I also had no idea about the warmer! Part of me is like "WTF" and the other part is like "DO WANT." I'm going to wait and see if others vote, but it looks like you guys helped me make my decision
07/17/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
The Tenga is on my list for my boy right now, lol
11/01/2010
Contributor: Pandahb Pandahb
The tenga looks pretty cool. I also really like the fleshlight.
11/02/2010
Contributor: The Nakanas The Nakanas
I've heard a ton of good things about the Flip Hole. Hopefully I get a chance to try it soon!
11/02/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I'd find out why he doesn't want to take any of your anal (or double-use) toys before buying him one. It could be that that's something special he saves for when you're together.

The Fun Wand looks a bit busy for anal use. The Pure Wand might be better.

Outlaw's pretty big.
11/02/2010
Contributor: Research Research
The Outlaw could be good to have around or to work up to.
11/03/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
I've heard great things about the Tenga, so I went with that. Good luck in your search! That's such a sweet gift idea :]
11/03/2010
Contributor: Phoenix713 Phoenix713
Quote:
Originally posted by Owl Identified
Okay, so, between free reviews and giftcards and splurging, my partner and I have tried a lot of toys. For his birthday after I got all the vanilla gift (check) I wanted to get him a naughty one. A toy that would be just his, and not part of our ... more
The Vixen Outlaw>? I'm not one who participates in anal sex, but hey, this one could work.
11/05/2010
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
@ Sex & Lies,

Did you end up getting the Tenga Flip hole?

...if so, did he like it?
11/11/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Damn jaded penis's, they're so hard to surprise, right?! LOL
11/11/2010
Contributor: northstar northstar
Definitely a fliphole, or a well-reviewed stroker like the head honchos
12/22/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
I would go with the flip hole since it looks like it has gotten some great reviews.
12/22/2010
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
Which did you end up getting?
04/07/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
Outlaw is large, but it's awesome!
04/08/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Tenga! I find that guys think the idea is weird until they try it.
07/01/2011
Contributor: big b big b
get mine tomarrow
07/01/2011
Contributor: TheHardOne TheHardOne
I like the Vixen Outlaw.
09/02/2011
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Quote:
Originally posted by Mr. E
@ Sex & Lies,

Did you end up getting the Tenga Flip hole?

...if so, did he like it?
Sorry I never saw this! For anyone reading now, I did get the Tenga Flip Hole and he liked it a lot. He found it slightly overstimulating, and the outside (TPR) got dingy very quickly, but he enjoyed it a lot while it lasted. Since then he's played with the Flip Air White and likes that a lot better. Less stimulating and more durable!
10/09/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
If he doesn't want dildos or prostate massagers, the Fun Wand and Outlaw are kind of in those categories for him. Flip Hole would be the toy to get.
02/10/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Tengas are supposed to be really good
03/05/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Tenga.. I got one for the hubby and he loves it. He wasn't too keen on using a toy before but tried it because I earned the points to get it for him and he found out that he really enjoyed it. So now he has something to use while I'm on my period (we don't have period sex).
04/05/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I think the Njoy products are such high quality. They will last forever.
04/05/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
Tenga...I hear it has good reviews.
04/10/2012