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Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
Hello!
I am just wondering if anyone else has this problem: SIZE!
(TOO big, that is!)

I don't like big toys; They hurt me!

So I have to pass on a lot of interesting toys...sad

What about you?
When buying a toy, what concern do you usually have with size?
What size do you prefer?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Toy...Must...Be...HUGE!
potstickers
1  (2%)
I like them bigger, but nothing crazy.
solitudinarian , nikki0668 , kitty1949 , travelnurse , haley730 , tortilla , Nissa Nissa , lesglitter , null , PropertyOfPotter , Flower1 , leanright69 , Minamie
13  (24%)
I try to find "normal" or "average" sizes.
IvyFayette , Terri69 , Sweet-n-Playful , ARPKasso , Awux , Rossie , Kinkymama , Do-Re-Mi , panthercat23 , Lioncub , *Camoprincess* , pfoof , Bleu , Girly Juice , Martiniman , Gunsmoke , XxFallenAngelxX , K101 , Adriana Ravenlust , zombiegirl2013 , GirlOnGirl , Hummingbird , DeliciousB , Stagger13 , SecretKinksters , TrenchcoatHunters , padmeamidala , tunacan75 , donatello6789 , victorsummers , Real or memorex , ashboo32 , Lovely Jubblies , LavenderSkies , Cosmonaut
35  (64%)
Small; it's not the size, but how you use it!
chicmichiw , kdlt , deltalima , Arlinnae , noway , Geogeo
6  (11%)
Total votes: 55
Poll is closed
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Attention Size Queens
Were you always a size queen? Or did something or someone make you change and become someone who likes a bigger than average size. Share in...

Are you a "size queen"?
I am personally not, but I have seen this term all over and I'm curious about the ratios!
01/05/2013
Contributor: IvyFayette IvyFayette
I have problems with the larger toys hitting my cervix and causing lots of pain or I struggle for 10 minutes to get them in even with lube. The average or a little about average size toy is what I consider best.
01/05/2013
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
I like normal sizes
01/05/2013
Contributor: Miss Chemical Miss Chemical
I generally like variety, although normal size is just peachy. I have everything from HUGE to tiny, it really depends on the material the toy is made out of as to how much I can enjoy bigger-than-average toys.
01/05/2013
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Quote:
Originally posted by RedGlitter
Hello!
I am just wondering if anyone else has this problem: SIZE!
(TOO big, that is!)

I don't like big toys; They hurt me!

So I have to pass on a lot of interesting toys...sad

What about you?
When buying a toy, ... more
I like average best, but I will use a bigger toy occasionally
01/05/2013
Contributor: ARPKasso ARPKasso
Normal/average sizes
01/05/2013
Contributor: Awux Awux
Normal / Average
01/05/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
So true! I find that smaller toys are easier to get into whatever the mood, position, setting. Smaller is easier to hide and, in general, grip and use.
01/05/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I prefer normal/average girth.
01/05/2013
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
Normal/average is good to me.
01/05/2013
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Mostly average size, but I do have some bigger ones that I really enjoy.
01/05/2013
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
Just about any size will do for me. It's all in how I use the toy.
01/06/2013
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
1 1/2" is about the biggest girth I can handle right now. Anything bigger tends to hurt.
01/06/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Quote:
Originally posted by RedGlitter
Hello!
I am just wondering if anyone else has this problem: SIZE!
(TOO big, that is!)

I don't like big toys; They hurt me!

So I have to pass on a lot of interesting toys...sad

What about you?
When buying a toy, ... more
My wife feels the same exact way you do. If the toy is too big it's painful, causing her to only want average size toys. We just bought the G4 Big Boss and it took a lot of playtime until she was ready and wet enough for it. Then after a lot of lube and time I finally got it in. It took awhile for her to heat up with it, but once she did, she really enjoyed it. However, I've been told that the G4 Big Boss is the maximum size and she wouldn't want to use it everyday.
01/06/2013
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
Big, but not crazy big.
01/06/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Large, small and normal have no definition. If you want to learn something useful indicate specifically the sizes you assign to each.

1.5" use to be 'normal' - now we consider it small. Now 1.75" is 'our normal' - for us 2" is doable - but considered large.
01/06/2013
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I like 1.5 diameter and up, I like the textures also
01/06/2013
Contributor: Arlinnae Arlinnae
I prefer them on the small size, but average is ok too
01/06/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by RedGlitter
Hello!
I am just wondering if anyone else has this problem: SIZE!
(TOO big, that is!)

I don't like big toys; They hurt me!

So I have to pass on a lot of interesting toys...sad

What about you?
When buying a toy, ... more
I'm the same way! I can't insert toys over 1 1/2". They simply won't go in, and often really hurt trying. I have to stick with smaller. Sometimes average sized toys won't even work for me. I guess it's totally different when it comes to non-penile tissue! LOL. Because I can handle my partner's with little to no pain most of the times, but hardly ever without some serious tugging, occasionaly small, minor tears if we aren't careful. But when it comes to toys, even ones around his size are painful for me. I guess a penis has a lot more give. Lol.

I know how ya feel though. It sucks that so many nicer toys are made large.

I too have to be really careful about size before buying. I've bought a few toys and ended up never being able to get them inside me! They just sit in my box, unused.
01/06/2013
Contributor: KissTheSkyBaby KissTheSkyBaby
I didn't vote because I didn't find a good choice for me. I pick toys depending on the purpose. For clit vibes I prefer smaller ones, for gspot toys I like curved and slimmer toys with a bulbish tip, for regular no gspot penetration I like a pretty consistent medium thickness. As far as anal, well, we're still exploring.

I do find almost all rabbits to be painfully big though.
01/06/2013
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I have a range of sizes but I guess my preference is average or sometimes I'll go bigger.
01/06/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
I like to mix it up
01/06/2013
Contributor: john111 john111
My wife likes above average ones but we are having a tough time finding one that feels real for her. She thinks they all feel wierd. We just bought the shane diesl dildo and takes a while for her to adjust. I am 9x6.5 and 2.5"wideso she enjoys large but not to large
01/06/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
It really depends upon the toy. I love my Lelo Tiani 2 because its portable and a great couples toy. Then again I really enjoy my Jopen Intensity which I can inflate to fit my girth. For me the biggest issue are vibrating dildos with clitoral stimulators, we are each made uniquely and what might fit and work well on one person does not necessarily work for everyone.
01/06/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by RedGlitter
Hello!
I am just wondering if anyone else has this problem: SIZE!
(TOO big, that is!)

I don't like big toys; They hurt me!

So I have to pass on a lot of interesting toys...sad

What about you?
When buying a toy, ... more
Average to a little above average...Nothing huge.
01/06/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Quote:
Originally posted by Stagger13
Average to a little above average...Nothing huge.
Agreed.
01/06/2013
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by RedGlitter
Hello!
I am just wondering if anyone else has this problem: SIZE!
(TOO big, that is!)

I don't like big toys; They hurt me!

So I have to pass on a lot of interesting toys...sad

What about you?
When buying a toy, ... more
I tent to lean towards average ones.
01/06/2013
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
Big but not crazy big.. I'm a size queen in training..
01/06/2013
Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
Thanks, everyone! I stated this poll because I was thinking something must be wrong with me , because I always hear of women needing a "big size" So, I feel better now!
01/06/2013