Which strapless strap on is best for female/female sex?

Contributor: Madeira Madeira 09/18/2010

I was wondering which strapless strap on is best for female/female sex?

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Contributor: Madeira Madeira
Which dildo is easiest to hold in without a harness? (due to factors like weight, shape, etc)
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Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Share is probably the easiest, followed by Feeldoe
09/19/2010
Contributor: ButchAndFemme ButchAndFemme
My lady and I have had the Share for over 2 years and we use it almost everyday. It feels great on both ends and is quite easy to get the hang of. The material is wonderfully soft and it has just the right amount of flexibility.
10/10/2010
Contributor: Greta Greta
Share - the regular one- is easier to keep in. I have reviews on both dildo. I haven't tried the XL, yet.

Share: link
Feeldoe: link
10/29/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I have never been successful with a strapless strap-on. Beyond the distraction of trying to keep it in place, I expel it just prior to orgasm w/o a harness.
I heave used all the above doubles (different models) except the Mantric and using a quality harness such as the Aslan Jaguar or the Spare Parts with them gives me an enjoyable experience.
10/29/2010
Contributor: mnc5051 mnc5051
I want one very bad!
11/06/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
I don't actually have a reason to buy one yet, (no lady friend to play with ) but I am also interested in one of these. I figure I can always just use it for masturbation until I get to play with a girl again!
11/06/2010
Contributor: kermi91 kermi91
I've never tried, but every lesbian I know raves about the nexus. they say it's comfortable and easy to maneuver.
11/11/2010
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I'd pick Share XL because of its texture.
02/06/2011
Contributor: Herp Herp
None are really that easy, but they are pretty easy with practice.
02/10/2011
Contributor: MMMARY MMMARY
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Share is probably the easiest, followed by Feeldoe
The Share does not have a vibrator, and the Feeldoe is tough silicone. Looking for a strapless strap-on for two beginner females w/ vibe. My GF is on the smaller side, and will be the receiver (most times) me on the other hand, can handle something w/ much more girth, and I will be the giver. Your thoughts?
03/02/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by MMMARY
The Share does not have a vibrator, and the Feeldoe is tough silicone. Looking for a strapless strap-on for two beginner females w/ vibe. My GF is on the smaller side, and will be the receiver (most times) me on the other hand, can handle something ... more
If you can deal with stiff silicone you might want to look at the Mantric Sysil:Edge. The vibrator "horn" can stimulate two women, it's curved to hit the G-spot, and it's pretty slim.

If that doesn't work you might look at the Nexus Maximus. The downside there is length, but it does vibrate, is a moderate width, and is soft.
03/02/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I was wondering this as well. Over all I think the share XL would be the "Easiest" for the sheer fact that it is larger, but that also means its heavier.
03/02/2011
Contributor: jankit jankit
The Feeldoe is great for blowjobs and handjobs, but is tricky to hold in or position for mutual pleasure on insertion without a harness. Haven't tried the Share yet, but it looks like the head and the curve of the thing might be better for penetration purposes.
03/17/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
all the same to me
07/21/2011
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
I've heard great things about the feeldoe, and we're considering one for ourselves....
08/26/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Share XL... I love the color and the shape of this one.
08/28/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
I feel like they're all about the same. I really want a feeldoe though.
08/28/2011
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
I have the original Share and the Realdoe Feeldoe which is the same as the original Feeldoe, just with a realistic texture. I primarily have sex with my male-bodied partner currently, but do have sex with female-bodied folks as well. I think which one will be right for you depends on what you and your girlfriend are like in terms of anatomy.

First off, ALL of these are really heavy with the exception with the Share XS, which I honestly think is useless for anything except mild anal stimulation. So if you want to use this without a strap-on, even the smallest vagina with the strongest PC muscles will need a hand or two to help support things. That kind of ties of your movement in some ways during sex, so I highly recommend a harness in addition to any of these - just makes things easier. Both the Share and the Feeldoe work great in a harness, but I do like my Share better just because it's a bit more flexible at the neck between the bulb and the shaft, which lets it move more with you when you fuck.

Overall, they're both great quality. I prefer the Share because even the Realdoe Feeldoe is just too firm for my tastes - too hard and inhuman. Plus, the Share comes in that nice matte texture that lube clings nicely too. Just be warned that the bulb of the Share is HUGE. Seriously. The pictures on the site cannot properly communicate how big this thing is. I always, always, always have to warm up quite a lot before I can use it comfortably, although when I do it is REALLY stimulating and gives me a lot of AWESOME G-spot stimulation. I can cum with it in while I'm thrusting just because the pressure is so intense. The Feeldoe is smaller, but less stimulating to me due to the shape and size. However, if you don't want to feel REALLY full during your play then I wouldn't go for the Share.

If you have any questions or want to see pictures, just shoot me a private message or comment here
08/28/2011
Contributor: Dr Anal Dr Anal
feeldoe more all the way
08/30/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
I def think the share is
09/18/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Which dildo is easiest to hold in without a harness? (due to factors like weight, shape, etc)
Share EL (Fuchsia)
09/18/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
A lot depends on your anatomy. I love my share to bits, but if you're a tighter woman you're going to find it uncomfortable. the feeldoe more is good for a wide range of body types, but not for everyone.
09/19/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
Personally I've never used one, never saw the point in investing the cash because of all the people I know who have used them, everyone recommends using a harness. Not one said they regularly use it without one.

It seems like a nice idea, but I don't want to be worrying about keeping my muscles clenched around a bulb when I'm trying to fuck someone. And anyway, I love the feel of a leather harness.
10/07/2011
Contributor: WhiskeyHot WhiskeyHot
Quote:
Originally posted by Owl Identified
I have the original Share and the Realdoe Feeldoe which is the same as the original Feeldoe, just with a realistic texture. I primarily have sex with my male-bodied partner currently, but do have sex with female-bodied folks as well. I think which ... more
Thank you for the informative post. My girl and I are excited to get our first double, but all of the givers ends look like they may be too small for her liking. She wants as much as possible on her end while staying with the 'strapless strapon' style(although we will be using a harness) We realize that it is hard to judge based on pics, so here I am, begging for your opinion......it is so jard to wait!
02/01/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Madeira
Which dildo is easiest to hold in without a harness? (due to factors like weight, shape, etc)
Honestly they all seem really difficult to manipulate.
02/14/2012
Contributor: icelandia icelandia
Share XL
09/14/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
The Share XL.
09/16/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I'm not sure, but the Share XL looks good.
09/16/2012
Contributor: Aussie Girl Aussie Girl
Quote:
Originally posted by Owl Identified
I have the original Share and the Realdoe Feeldoe which is the same as the original Feeldoe, just with a realistic texture. I primarily have sex with my male-bodied partner currently, but do have sex with female-bodied folks as well. I think which ... more
Can i ask you something?
I really want to buy one... i was really going for the feldoe..
two questions:
does look realistic wearing it, or look way too weird?
and the vibration is good, if doensnt is it possible to insert another bullet???
Thanks.. really! =)
11/05/2013
Contributor: PadoruLover PadoruLover
nexus sir
04/26/2014