I usually feel terrible and don't do anything, but on heavy cramp days, when I'm heavy and using tampons anyway, I will use an external toy to have an orgasm and alleviate cramping.
Toys on Your Period
11/15/2010
It depends on how heavy a flow I have. If it's very light then maybe. I just don't usually get in the mood during my period.
01/27/2011
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I'm a guy, of course, and it really depends on her. It doesn't bother me at all. If she wants to, then lets go for it.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
There has been plenty of talk about sex on your period. But what about using toys while on a period (Forgive me if this was started before, but I have not seen it)? I bring this up because SIGH...I just got like 20 items and half of them are
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There has been plenty of talk about sex on your period. But what about using toys while on a period (Forgive me if this was started before, but I have not seen it)? I bring this up because SIGH...I just got like 20 items and half of them are insertable. I don't use insertable toys on my period. Women...do you? And if so, what kind?
Guys you can answer too...will you use toys on your partner if she is on her period? Which kind? less
Guys you can answer too...will you use toys on your partner if she is on her period? Which kind? less
01/28/2011
I don't mind doing it on my period but it has to be plastic and I like having a condom on it only to make clean up easier.
02/18/2011
I can clean my toys. It's not really a big deal. The only issue for me is that sometimes it's a little painful to insert anything when I have my period, which sucks.
02/18/2011
I'm not against using toys on my period, but I'm usually too lazy too. Taking a tampon out and then having to put a new one in after is a deterrent for insertables, hah. Still, it's happened.
02/18/2011
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Your a good guy for helping your wife
Originally posted by
ToyTimeTim
It hasn't happened a hole lot, but women have needs.
My wife only uses silicone or her plastic toys. On the plastic she will put a condom on it just to make it easier to clean.
We have a special old shirt of mine for the bed or just hop in ... more
My wife only uses silicone or her plastic toys. On the plastic she will put a condom on it just to make it easier to clean.
We have a special old shirt of mine for the bed or just hop in ... more
It hasn't happened a hole lot, but women have needs.
My wife only uses silicone or her plastic toys. On the plastic she will put a condom on it just to make it easier to clean.
We have a special old shirt of mine for the bed or just hop in the shower.
Also like AKAme said, an orgasm or two really helps the wife with cramps. It also helps with her mood. I am always ready to help out when I can. less
My wife only uses silicone or her plastic toys. On the plastic she will put a condom on it just to make it easier to clean.
We have a special old shirt of mine for the bed or just hop in the shower.
Also like AKAme said, an orgasm or two really helps the wife with cramps. It also helps with her mood. I am always ready to help out when I can. less
02/18/2011
I love to have orgasms (toys or not) during my monthly BUT I do not like sex during it. Dunno why LOL
02/18/2011
I only use external toys and I use a Diva cup so no mess!
I often find an orgasm can help relieve bad cramps.
I often find an orgasm can help relieve bad cramps.
02/19/2011
I only use externals while on my period. But, while I am on my period I have the same mantra when i am sick. I always say I am sick not dead. So being on my period does not deplete my sex drive.
02/19/2011
I will use toys either internally or externally, since for the most part all of my toys can be cleaned easily.
02/20/2011
I wouldn't say gross, just too damn messy. I mean masturbation/sex is messy enough as it is, why make it horrendously messy.
02/20/2011
havent had an insertable toy to actually use while on my period... just ordered my first dildo... excited to get it and test it out... not sure if i will use it on my period tho i dont think i would be a fan of the whole extra clean up
02/20/2011
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External vibes and orgasms help with cramps.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
There has been plenty of talk about sex on your period. But what about using toys while on a period (Forgive me if this was started before, but I have not seen it)? I bring this up because SIGH...I just got like 20 items and half of them are
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more
There has been plenty of talk about sex on your period. But what about using toys while on a period (Forgive me if this was started before, but I have not seen it)? I bring this up because SIGH...I just got like 20 items and half of them are insertable. I don't use insertable toys on my period. Women...do you? And if so, what kind?
Guys you can answer too...will you use toys on your partner if she is on her period? Which kind? less
Guys you can answer too...will you use toys on your partner if she is on her period? Which kind? less
02/20/2011
The Husband really doesn't care. We have sex while I'm on my period. I'll use toys as well. *shrugs*
02/20/2011
Yup, I use them... As long as I can clean them properly so nonporous ones but I definitely use them.
02/21/2011
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It's not really "extra" clean up. You clean your toys well anyway, regular cleaning (with a little checking to make sure they are completely clean visually) is all that is required.
Originally posted by
hisgirl61612
havent had an insertable toy to actually use while on my period... just ordered my first dildo... excited to get it and test it out... not sure if i will use it on my period tho i dont think i would be a fan of the whole extra clean up
I don't think "period toy cleaning" presents any bigger challenge than cleaning toys the rest of the month. I like my toys clean no matter what, so the process is the same.
02/21/2011
I mind cleaning toys a lot less than I do cleaning another person as well, so the toys get it fairly often.
02/21/2011
External only.
02/26/2011
I play any day of the month, I use Instead for my periods so I can play with myself and never have a mess. I love instead and have no idea why I never used it when I first had my period
03/17/2011
No internal toys whatsoever, just an external vibe.
I'm not grossed out by the mess. I just feel like sometimes my body needs a break.
I'm not grossed out by the mess. I just feel like sometimes my body needs a break.
03/17/2011
Seconding what Airen Wolf said. Using easily cleaned insertables (e.g. glass, silicone or metal) toys are worth the mess to help the cramp-y tenderness -- and extra appreciated when my partner helps out.
03/17/2011
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not Vaginal insertables. Wouldn't it be messy? I'm not into messy. Hmm But I will use other type of toys during my period. Interesting question.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
We use toys when I have my period. I don't see what the big deal is, if the toy is either a nonporous material (like glass or silicone or steel) or you cover it with a condom. If we can get a good round of orgasms in before the cramping start
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We use toys when I have my period. I don't see what the big deal is, if the toy is either a nonporous material (like glass or silicone or steel) or you cover it with a condom. If we can get a good round of orgasms in before the cramping start badly, we can offset the pain quite a bit. I've suffered from endometriosis, so the cramps can be phenomenal, and I when I first had the endo, about 15 years ago, I used to NOT want to have sex during the first few days,(after always having sex during my period before that) and now we are back to usually daily sex play and the cramps are MUCH better. If I don't come, however, the cramps are awful, as I get "Girl Blue Balls" on top of the cramps, so orgasm is pretty important then.
We lay down a maroon sheet and towel on the bed, My Man resigns himself to an after sex shower, that "second day" (The Deluge) and I to a before sex hot bath, and our sexual activities change little, unless I have bad cramps, then we may actually skip a day, but not usually. But, I am usually more horny than usual when I have my period. I couldn't imagine going my 4 to 7 days with no sex, or with no toys.
Like Nina Hartley says, "There's nothing that doesn't wash off."
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We lay down a maroon sheet and towel on the bed, My Man resigns himself to an after sex shower, that "second day" (The Deluge) and I to a before sex hot bath, and our sexual activities change little, unless I have bad cramps, then we may actually skip a day, but not usually. But, I am usually more horny than usual when I have my period. I couldn't imagine going my 4 to 7 days with no sex, or with no toys.
Like Nina Hartley says, "There's nothing that doesn't wash off."
Your mileage may certainly vary. less
03/17/2011
I tend not to toy when my flow is heaviest, because I bleed like none other. But usually, at the tail end of my period I will become really... aroused and sensitive. Then, as long as there isn't too much mess, I use both external and internal toys.
03/17/2011
I just use external ones but mostly just because a) I'm lazy and don't want to deal with the mess and b) I share my shower with roommates so I can't really relax enough to enjoy myself in it.
I'm glad I use Nuva rings now, only have my period every 3 months, thank goodness!
I'm glad I use Nuva rings now, only have my period every 3 months, thank goodness!
03/17/2011
No, lord no. No way. I refuse to masturbate when I'm on my period, point blank. I want absolutely nothing to do with my vagina/menstrual cycles beyond changing a tampon and hoping it ends soon. I just feel unsexy/unattractive/ju st plain old uncomfortable at that time and just want to wait it out.
03/17/2011
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Sometimes it gets a little messy. Sex is messy. It doesn't bother either of us. And going the week or so without sex would not be good for either of us.
Originally posted by
naughtyjo
not Vaginal insertables. Wouldn't it be messy? I'm not into messy. Hmm But I will use other type of toys during my period. Interesting question.
Yeah. Insertables, usually silicone, with the Wahl or whatever. We don't find it a problem. You have to clean them anyway.
As I've said before, I put down a maroon sheet, doubled over and a maroon towel and if it gets messy we go into the shower afterward.
03/19/2011
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Everybody's different.
Originally posted by
jfree
No, lord no. No way. I refuse to masturbate when I'm on my period, point blank. I want absolutely nothing to do with my vagina/menstrual cycles beyond changing a tampon and hoping it ends soon. I just feel unsexy/unattractive/ju st plain old
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No, lord no. No way. I refuse to masturbate when I'm on my period, point blank. I want absolutely nothing to do with my vagina/menstrual cycles beyond changing a tampon and hoping it ends soon. I just feel unsexy/unattractive/ju st plain old uncomfortable at that time and just want to wait it out.
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My period reminds me I'm a woman. So, in addition to that and the added sensitivity and arousal from pelvic congestion, I get horny during my period.
Doesn't bother some people in the least. My Man doesn't mind, in fact, he's the one who talked ME into it years ago. One of the many joys he's taught me over the years.
03/19/2011
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I wont do anything sexual while on my period. Plus it tends to hurt when I have tried in the past.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
There has been plenty of talk about sex on your period. But what about using toys while on a period (Forgive me if this was started before, but I have not seen it)? I bring this up because SIGH...I just got like 20 items and half of them are
...
more
There has been plenty of talk about sex on your period. But what about using toys while on a period (Forgive me if this was started before, but I have not seen it)? I bring this up because SIGH...I just got like 20 items and half of them are insertable. I don't use insertable toys on my period. Women...do you? And if so, what kind?
Guys you can answer too...will you use toys on your partner if she is on her period? Which kind? less
Guys you can answer too...will you use toys on your partner if she is on her period? Which kind? less
03/22/2011
i use toys when im on my period--only nonporous ones though like silicone or glass
03/23/2011