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Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
What's better in your opinion A strapless double dildo or one that needs to be worn with a harness?
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2  (2%)
69  (70%)
3  (3%)
Total votes: 98
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10/24/2010
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Insightful breakdown of Strapless Dildo:

Rope vs. straps and cuffs etc...Both are great but which do you prefer?
We have recently discovered the joys of Japanese rope binding. While we are still getting good at it we both find it very hot! It does take some...

Leather Wrist Straps or Fuzzy Handcuffs?
I have never used either before and am curious as to what would be the better investment?

Would this type of ball gag strap work?
I have several problems with my current gags. One is that my head is too small and the collar style do not tighten enough to fit my head. The second..

Do Jockstraps cover the vagina?
I want to feel like everything's still secure down there!

Do you like jockstraps?
I know some men are into them, but what about women?
10/24/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Many posts similar to this.

My take: Strapless are nice because there's more of a connection and more stimulation for the giver, but it's best to have a harness anyway because it's sometimes hard to hold a strapless in.

The big downside is that your "configuration" is fixed, so with a strapless you usually can't have it bend down if you want.

Personally we have and use both.
10/24/2010
Contributor: Vexed Vexed
The best would be one of Vixen or Vamp's thick dildos in combo with a sturdy harness made by Spareparts. That setup could handle some vigorous humping.
11/03/2010
Contributor: Greta Greta
I much prefer a strapless double dildo (Share or Feeldoe) worn with a harness when needed.
11/03/2010
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Quote:
Originally posted by Greta
I much prefer a strapless double dildo (Share or Feeldoe) worn with a harness when needed.
That would probably be my preference as well. : ) I just need to find a crotchless harness for that. X3
11/03/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
That would probably be my preference as well. : ) I just need to find a crotchless harness for that. X3
There are many. Aslan Commando, SpareParts Jocque (it does work), Aslan Jaguar, Bare as You Dare, or most Sportsheets harnesses work.
11/03/2010
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
Haha, I dont know how to quote someone...

I am with MaryJane239 as well.

I have a Feeldoe and have a harness on hand for when I need it.
11/04/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
Feeldoe's work best with a harness, in my experience. I don't know, I like the extra support. And who doesn't want to be fucked while their fucking? I mean COMEON.
11/06/2010
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Our feeldoe is so heavy that without a harness it has the tendancy to move or fall out (especially if my wife is really wet) so we have to use both for control. At slow, steady speeds, it probably wouldn't matter though...
11/15/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I love the concept of a strapless double dil and I have used the Feeldoe, Share and the Tango but unfortunately despite decent Kegals, they let go, just prior to orgasm so I use a harness..Aslan Jaguar or the Spare Parts Jock.
The sense of security and stability of a harness makes strap-on play so much more pleasurable for me as well as my partner.
11/18/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
I love the concept of a strapless double dil and I have used the Feeldoe, Share and the Tango but unfortunately despite decent Kegals, they let go, just prior to orgasm so I use a harness..Aslan Jaguar or the Spare Parts Jock.
The sense of ... more
And you still get many benefits from the "Strapless" dildo. Improved stimulation, better control, and the like.
12/16/2010
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Same thought as many other people in this thread. We use the feeldoe with a harness as it seems to work out a lot better that way.
12/17/2010
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
What's better in your opinion A strapless double dildo or one that needs to be worn with a harness?
all is good!
04/15/2011
Contributor: MunkyGirl1 MunkyGirl1
I'm looking for a good strap on that will be able to use interchangeable dildos. This will be my first one. I would like to also be able to use it in the shower, so I'm not sure if it needs to be waterproof. I am looking at the Fetish Fantasy Series silicone strap-on – harness and dildo set. Can anyone tell me if this is a good one to start off with?
11/26/2011
Contributor: Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
feeldoe with a harness, i def agree!
11/28/2011
Contributor: NightKat NightKat
I gotta agree on using a feeldoe with the harness, it gives you so much more maneuverability.
11/30/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I also agree with the Feeldoe + harness, and I can't recommend the Joque harness highly enough. This way you get stability from the harness, and the internal and external stimulation while you perform the deeeeeed XD
11/30/2011
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I personally adore the idea of feeldoe with a harness. I've never tried it myself but my partner and I are thinking of purchasing one from Eden and trying it out both ways. I like harnesses, myself, just because I like the way they look but feeldoes and shares are quite interesting. I voted both
11/30/2011
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
switch it up!
11/30/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
I actually don't like to get fucked while I'm fucking... that's a whole extra set of angles you've got to work with, make for far less carefree humping.

As far as I'm concerned, the true strapless dildo hasn't been invented yet. Everyone who uses the Feeldoe or the Share seems to prefer using it with a harness. I like harnesses myself, but I'd be willing to try something double ended if it was actually secure.
12/01/2011
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
I said both, for stability and ability to feel a bit of feedback from what you're doing.
12/01/2011
Contributor: Kendrir Kendrir
The answer's always "both" if you can afford it But I'd have to say the harness option just because I'd think it would be the more versatile of the two.
12/03/2011
Contributor: paige09nicole paige09nicole
Whatever you are in the mood for, its a personal choice I think.
12/08/2011
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
I feel like all dildos can be used without a harness.
11/26/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I prefer the stability of a harness.
11/27/2012
Contributor: ne1469694u ne1469694u
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
What's better in your opinion A strapless double dildo or one that needs to be worn with a harness?
harness then they can still use hands
11/27/2012
Contributor: Arlinnae Arlinnae
i like harness compatible better, simply because i enjoy wearing the harness. Its kinky!
11/28/2012
Contributor: Winifred Winifred
harness =]
11/28/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I love strapless used in conjunction with a harness cause I can actually feel what I'm doing with the bulb inserted.
11/28/2012