Heya,


So, my girl loves to change roles at times and bring out the harness.
Currently we have a skin-like strapon for this and it works ok.
The thing is a bit too short tho for this kind of play and also a bit too thin to really get to that P spot.

Since then, I've tried the Tantus VIP "SuperSoft". I couldn't fit this thing at all. While it is stated that this is one of the softest Dildos out there, the head especially feels quite rigid to me and the attempt just too painful.

I love the girth , Shape and curve and am looking for that filling feeling but at the same time the material needs to be as forgiving as possible, trul SUPER soft.

When i was a teen I tired a girthy jelly once and that was the most amazing one up to date, was extremely soft as I recall and offered much fun without the pain. I do not know which brand or whatsoever this one was made of, I stole it from my sis back then :-/ (no i didnt give it back)


I think from size and shape the VIP SuperSoft is great but especially for Anal there have to be softer alternatives ?

i was looking at the Vixskin Jhonny, how soft are these? I am not sure I am even looking for a firm core at all.

/edit ok i reposted this in the anal forum but hey maybe I can catch some good advice here anyhow.