Constructive discussions on Pegging:

Can you cum when pegging someone else?
Just curious as to how many folks here who engage in pegging can also cum from the act itself.

Help Choosing a First Dildo and Harness Set
DH and I would like to explore pegging as a way of spicing up our sex life. I have no experience whatsoever with dildos. I have compared several...

Did your guy seem reluctant at first?
My guy is very protective of his ass, but I'm so into pegging. After some very slow and very gradual anal play he finally agreed to let me peg and he.

New Tantus Toys for Beginners
My favorite toy is the Tantus Compact but it's not the best for pegging because it's too short. The Tantus Charmer seems a bit much for beginners, so...

Ladies who enjoy pegging your boyfriend/husband: do you ever take the lead and initiate strap-on sex with your partner, or do you wait for him to ask?
I enjoy being pegged by my wife and she enjoys pegging me! But--she NEVER initiates it; I asked her if she would take the lead sometimes and she said.

I recommend against Sil-a-Gel wholeheartedly. I do not recommend buying that. They have it in blue right here, the silicone version:

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Sil-a-Gel is a sturdy material, but it smells awful and cannot be sterilized.

Although Sil-a-Gel is descent for the money, Silicone is definitely worth the extra bucks. I feel safer knowing that I can boil my silicone toys. And, the no-smell thing is a huge plus!

I've heard of people having a reaction (pain, not anaphylaxis) to something in Sil-A-Gel, too (probably the antibacterial additive).

wow thank for the info did not realize they use a antibacterial additive i think we will stay a way from it we already have problems with latex. I think we will stick to the silicone.
Thanks