Smaller than Leo, big enough to be happy?

Contributor: Jellyfeltz Jellyfeltz
I'm in the market for a new dildo. My girlfriend is not very experienced, and I've only used two dildos in my life, one of which was not mine so I have no way of accessing it. Hoping to get an opinion from those more experienced with penetration.

The Leo is what I have now, and my girl has complained in the past of it being a bit too big, so I want to get another one that we can use more frequently. She can take the Leo 50% of the time and loves it; but the other 50% it's just a little too much. The problem is that she isn't sure what size to recommend. I don't want to get something too small, because then it's just as useless.

The Leo is 1 5/8" diameter.
I'm looking into getting the Sedeux Skyn, which is 1 3/8" diameter.
Is that going to be very much smaller? It's hard for me to tell with just a ruler and the picture.

If 1 5/8" is a little too big, is 1 3/8" going to be comfortable but still pleasurable?
08/11/2010
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Contributor: Envy Envy
Quote:
Originally posted by Jellyfeltz
I'm in the market for a new dildo. My girlfriend is not very experienced, and I've only used two dildos in my life, one of which was not mine so I have no way of accessing it. Hoping to get an opinion from those more experienced with ... more
I have the Skyn and I like it, it came in the chest harness set I purchased: link

You say it's too much for her, but you never specified what exactly is 'too much.' Is it the girth of the toy? Or the length? Some women like really fat dildos, some like thing ones, some like lone skinny ones, and some like long fat ones.

The Leo insertable length is 7 inches.
The Skyn insertable length is 6 inches.

It's also smooth and has no head ridge, which might also be uncomfy to some women, too. But with 7 inches maybe it's hitting her cervix?
08/11/2010
Contributor: Jellyfeltz Jellyfeltz
Quote:
Originally posted by Envy
I have the Skyn and I like it, it came in the chest harness set I purchased: link

You say it's too much for her, but you never specified what exactly is 'too much.' Is it the girth of the toy? Or the length? Some women like really ... more
I don't think she'd be disappointed with a shorter length. So, the fact that the Skyn is shorter is nice, too, I think.

But the girth is the main problem. We don't want to go too thin, because the Leo was almost perfect (and sometimes is perfect) but it's definitely on the bigger side and so a decrease from 1 5/8 to 1 3/8 sounds good to me but I just wanted to check in with others to see what the opinion was.

Good to hear that you like the Skyn! I'm a big fan of it already from the site.
08/11/2010
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
You could try the Mistress. It's also a Vixen dildo, but it's only 4" in circumference instead of 5.25" or whatever the Leo is. Also, if you want to spend a little more, the Raquel is 5" instead of 5.25". It's also squishier, I hear.

I agree, the Leo is JUST a little too big for regular use.
08/11/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Quote:
Originally posted by Jellyfeltz
I'm in the market for a new dildo. My girlfriend is not very experienced, and I've only used two dildos in my life, one of which was not mine so I have no way of accessing it. Hoping to get an opinion from those more experienced with ... more
I think that would be about perfect. The suggestion about the Raquel is a good one, too, though the Raquel is a bit on the long side.
08/11/2010
Contributor: Jellyfeltz Jellyfeltz
Thanks, everyone! I'm definitely going to go with the Sedeux Skyn. The Raquel looks terrifyingly long--I'd be afraid of impaling her!*

*I know that's not actually possible, but, you know...

Thanks again, EF!
08/12/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Not a problem, be sure to do a follow up and tell us how she likes it, will ya? Maybe even talk her into reviewing it.
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