Realistic Dildo with or without?

Contributor: eri86 eri86
Do you prefer your realistic dildo with or without balls? Why?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
8  (15%)
5  (9%)
13  (24%)
3  (5%)
9  (16%)
17  (31%)
Total votes: 55
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04/17/2014
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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04/17/2014
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
At one point I disliked the dildos with balls. Not really sure why, as they make certain types of play easier. Over the years I have gotten used to them and now have a quite a few in my collection that have balls. Yeah some of them might not be able to fit into my harnesses but I can still have fun with them.
04/17/2014
Contributor: dv8 dv8
When I'm wearing a strapon harness, the dildo's balls will get in the way of my own cock. I have to turn the dildo around so that doesn't happen and it looks weird to have the balls above the dildo.
04/18/2014
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
I have both types and enjoy them both. My preference is based on how I am using the toy. For hand held use, I normally prefer dildos with balls. For harness use I normally prefer without balls.
04/19/2014
Contributor: Sincerely yours, N Sincerely yours, N
Realistic dildos actually freak me out a little. I'm not sure why, but I can't ever seem to get off with mine. Vaginas might be color blind, but my brain tells my vagina what the thing going into it looks like.

That being said, I really don't like balls on dildos.
04/19/2014
Contributor: dv8 dv8
Quote:
Originally posted by Sincerely yours, N
Realistic dildos actually freak me out a little. I'm not sure why, but I can't ever seem to get off with mine. Vaginas might be color blind, but my brain tells my vagina what the thing going into it looks like.

That being said, I ... more
So does that mean a RealDoll would be out of the question?
04/19/2014
Contributor: Sincerely yours, N Sincerely yours, N
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
So does that mean a RealDoll would be out of the question?
Very much so. It would creep me out.

Not even because they're supposed to look real... just because realistic things that look like body parts all creep me out. Masks with faces on them, big dolls, etc.
04/23/2014
Contributor: dv8 dv8
Quote:
Originally posted by Sincerely yours, N
Very much so. It would creep me out.

Not even because they're supposed to look real... just because realistic things that look like body parts all creep me out. Masks with faces on them, big dolls, etc.
Wax museums?
04/23/2014
Contributor: CaraLeigh CaraLeigh
I'm a fan of balls in general, so I enjoy the aesthetics of the dildo with balls. Without them, it just seems like something's...missing.

I haven't done a lot of strap-on play, though, so I've never considered the problem with them getting in the way of the harness. I'll keep that in mind for the future.
04/23/2014
Contributor: Dr Anal Dr Anal
I prefer without just because they can get deeper
04/25/2014
Contributor: PadoruLover PadoruLover
without
04/26/2014
Contributor: buckaroobanzaii buckaroobanzaii
I'm leaning towards without.
05/02/2014
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by Sincerely yours, N
Very much so. It would creep me out.

Not even because they're supposed to look real... just because realistic things that look like body parts all creep me out. Masks with faces on them, big dolls, etc.
Those realistic pussy and ass masturbators definitely freak me out - how can men use toys that look like cut up body parts?

I don't care for balls on a dildo because they're too far down the shaft, so they're a useless feature to me.
05/03/2014
Contributor: thebest thebest
WITH.
05/04/2014
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by Sincerely yours, N
Realistic dildos actually freak me out a little. I'm not sure why, but I can't ever seem to get off with mine. Vaginas might be color blind, but my brain tells my vagina what the thing going into it looks like.

That being said, I ... more
@ SYN: Ah, I think I've quipped about color blind vaginas one too many times, huh?

Obviously, you're not alone being turned off by realistic dildos. I just don't like how they tend to feel because the ridges from all that realistic sculpting are too hard and always feel like they're scraping me raw inside, whether it's a large or small VixSkin. I thought I hated a pronounced head on a dildo for that reason, until I got this dildo and it changed everything. I am in love with this silly looking dildo . Interestingly enough it comes with a creepy 'monoball' which looks weird, but turns out to be perfect for holding the thing. Balls, no balls, whatever...I could care less. I guess I like them for getting a comfortable grip if anything, but they have not proved to give me any wonderful sensations, so...meh.
05/04/2014
Contributor: GirlyGirlRed GirlyGirlRed
Depends on your preference. I've used both and like both ways.
05/09/2014
Contributor: Scarlette Scarlette
dont have much of a preference, but I think Im leaning towards without balls. Still figuring out which I like best.
05/14/2014
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
I love it with balls. So when I'm pegging my husband I feel like it's a real cock. Plus my hubby loves the feel!!
05/14/2014
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I've yet to find a dildo w/ balls that looks 'right'.
05/24/2014
Contributor: tturtle tturtle
Well, I'm not in either camp firmly, but the balls have always given me something to grip when I'm riding my dildos. I haven't used a harness, but I guess if I did then no balls would be my choice.
06/19/2014
Contributor: dv8 dv8
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
I've yet to find a dildo w/ balls that looks 'right'.
Have you looked at the dildos by Fleshjack or by Babes n Horny?
06/20/2014
Contributor: KeroWolf KeroWolf
With, but both are fine
08/23/2014
Contributor: Archery Archery
I prefer without just because they can get deeper too
08/30/2014
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
With. This may sound funny, but I actually like to flip mine around, and use the mushy balls for grinding. You have to have a nice, bendable dildo, or vibe (to get that G stimulation) for this to work well though.
02/22/2015
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by eri86
Do you prefer your realistic dildo with or without balls? Why?
I never really thought about it I guess I prefer either way really what ever gets the job done
03/08/2015
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We have both - but the ones without balls fit into the harness better for pegging. As for my wife, it doesn't matter.
08/10/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Balls make the dildo's more ergonomic. Just leave the hair off them please.
08/14/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
So does that mean a RealDoll would be out of the question?
They have such a thing?
08/15/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
To be honest, I've only ever used dildos without balls. I'm not sure how that would make me feel? That might be too close to home for me, then again, I'm not too sure who has a pink cotton candy colored penis or an ice blue colored penis either. I think that might be laughable and benign.
08/17/2015