Njoy Pure Wand techniques

Contributor: rowdy7766 rowdy7766
Can anyone offer some tips on how best to use the pure wand? I have tried to use it on my wife only once and she did not enjoy it. Base on the reviews I think it was my technique. Any tips/suggestions would be most appreciated. It will be an expensive paper weight if she does not warm up to it.

Thanks in advance.

Rowdy
01/19/2009
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Contributor: PhoenixBlue PhoenixBlue
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Originally posted by rowdy7766
Can anyone offer some tips on how best to use the pure wand? I have tried to use it on my wife only once and she did not enjoy it. Base on the reviews I think it was my technique. Any tips/suggestions would be most appreciated. It will be an ... more
Have her learn to play with it first on her own. I love it, but I still won't let my husband touch me with it yet. (Actually, I won't let him touch me with any toy right now! But especially that one, he muffed it pretty badly once!) First she needs to understand it, then she has to be willing to show you about it. That's a combination of sexuality and relaxation.

It's not a direct thrusting toy because of the curves, weight and angles.

Also, read the reviews on it because everyone offers different perspectives, and tips in their own reviews.
01/19/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I love the NJoy Pure Wand, one of my favorites but it is a toy I use by myself. My b/f tried but I felt I was being impaled and no pleasure. The Pure Wand takes solo practice and then so easy to find the right spots...the smooth stainless steel and the weight and angle...does it for me.
01/20/2009
Contributor: Oggins Oggins
Ah yes.... Because it is so hard and unforgiving, it makes partner play rather difficult. She should practice with it alone to start with and then show you what she likes and what angle works best. Just remember to be careful when using it on her! Just a slight angle in the wrong direction can lead to discomfort! Also, you could try warming it up in warm water if it's too cold for her! Sometimes when it's cold it can be a bit of a shock unless you're expecting it!
01/20/2009
Contributor: rowdy7766 rowdy7766
Thank you so much for all the replies...does anyone know if there is a video of someone using the pure wand?

Thank you,
01/21/2009
Contributor: iLashe iLashe
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Originally posted by rowdy7766
Thank you so much for all the replies...does anyone know if there is a video of someone using the pure wand?

Thank you,
a wonderful video that might be sort of informative since they use the njoy fun want half way through; madison young, roxy deville and aurora all beautiful, and knowledgeable individuals. beautiful funn
04/26/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
I find that the angle of insertion is VERY important. If my partner pulls downward too much on it, it actually can be painful. Tilting it up so the curve matches my body seems to work for me. Also, less is more (motion-wise) as this toy is firm and unforgiving.
04/30/2011
Contributor: Pinkhare Pinkhare
It took my partner a few tries but seemed to work best when ..
we were laying side by side that way his hands and arms were level with mine
and he used a rocking motion not so much a thrusting one .
04/30/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Warm it up, move very slow and small movements. If you're open to anal play using it on yourself definitely helps you to see very quickly how to use it.
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