This Lifescript article: How to Find Your G-Spot provides thorough instruction on how to find the spot. Since guys have longer fingers, have you tried locating the spot for her? My husband was the one who found mine for me. It's easier to discover the G-spot with a middle finger, rather than relying on the Pure wand to do so.

When you guys figured out where the G-spot is, it's ideal to use the large bulb for G-spot play; the larger end provides better pressure, and also stimulates a broader area than the smaller bulb.

When using the wand for pinpoint stimulation on the G-spot, I like to do the rocking motion when I'm playing by myself, while the in and out thrusting works well during couples play. less

Excellent answer! We didn't use the Pure Wand to find mine - hubby did that for himself some time ago. The way we use our wand is also with the larger end (we use the smaller end on hubby for P-spot play). I've also found that a slight rocking motion works best. Another thing to bear in mind is that we haven't tried to use the wand for prolonged play, but tend to use it when there has already been a fair amount of stimulation. I've found that it works best for internal pressure while I'm playing with my clit (i.e. I wouldn't be able to get off using the wand alone). less

Hi ppl,
So the wife was interesting in Gspot/squirting and naturally i looked into it and found "the best" or at least somethig everyone said YES u have to try this: Njoy pure wand.

We have it now however are still failing miserably with getting a reaction.
In reality since my wife doesnt think she ca "feel" where her gspot is, we are having issues how far in to place it.
We are using the small end and i would say probably a few inches o the shaft.


This is a basic idea, where i show the opening as well as the orangy circle is a crappy idea of a public bone "for navigation!!!"

Also curious on movement, from experience
A: up and down
B: in and out
C: Rocking

I would assume rocking, but its not really getting us anywhere but i think that is because of placing!!

Any help is really really appreciated we want this to wrk! less

Excellent answer! We didn't use the Pure Wand to find mine - hubby did that for himself some time ago. The way we use our wand is also with the larger end (we use the smaller end on hubby for P-spot play). I've also found that a slight rocking motion works best. Another thing to bear in mind is that we haven't tried to use the wand for prolonged play, but tend to use it when there has already been a fair amount of stimulation. I've found that it works best for internal pressure while I'm playing with my clit (i.e. I wouldn't be able to get off using the wand alone). less