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Contributor: Perish Perish
I was looking at a post earlier on someone asking if a Fleshlight felt like the real thing and a person said it felt really close but it doesn't feel as real as the real thing and that nothing could actually replicate the real deal feel of a real vagina. Well, this brought me to wonder if there is any dildo or just any female toy in general that puts real cocks to shame, which i am pretty sure there is...? Also, is there any toy for guys that is just as good as or better than a real pussy?

I've seen some toy called the Venus something and i heard that is like the male Sybian...
04/27/2009
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Captivating topic discussions on Realistic dildos:

Looking for realistic dildo
Looking for a realistic dildo not more than 1 5/16 inch diameter-7 inches long with balls.

What is more realistic feeling?
Vixskin dildos or dildos like the Sean Michaels dong?

Which realistic vibrating dildo is better?
Which is the best that you've had?

Realistic Dildo with or without?
Do you prefer your realistic dildo with or without balls? Why?

Realistic silicone dildos: is there one bigger or the same size as the outlaw?
just out of interest... does anyone know if a realistic silicone dildo bigger than the vixskin outlaw exists, or another one in the same size range? i
04/27/2009
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
There's a lot of dildos/vibrators etc that I've tried, but for me nothing beats a real tongue or a real cock. In part it's the feeling, and in part it's just the act with a real person.
04/27/2009
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
The only things that a toy could ever have over a human partner:

1. Vibration
2. No emotional attachment (though some users who are in love with certain toys may disagree)

That said, neither of these are good enough reason for me to choose a toy over a human partner. I love the surprises you get with real people, and the goofy things that happen in bed, as well as the closeness.
04/27/2009
Contributor: Cinnamon Chambers Cinnamon Chambers
The Jellyfish it pretty darn close to feeling as good as the real thing, but it is different. I need eyes, hands,arms and legs....lips and tongue too much to chose a toy over my hubby poo.
04/27/2009
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
The Jellyfish?!?! That's odd to find out.
As far as masturbators, I would say that none of the ones I have tried really could substitute for the real thing in my book. I think the Fleshlight feels the best of the ones I have tried, but I wouldn't say that it feels like the real thing. The thing is, there are so many different sensations there that I don't know how a masturbator would be able mimic it all that well. Plus, I imagine that different women feel different from each other to some degree, so if it felt like one it might not feel like another. Plus you always have vaginal vs. anal sex which each have their own unique feel. Masturbators and real sex will always be separate matters in my mind.
04/27/2009
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Nothing is better then the real thing but not being male, my b/f tells me a masturbation sleeve is better then just his hand. Says it just "reminds" him of my vagina.
04/27/2009
Contributor: Gary Gary
This is a great and potentially very helpful thread! To date, I have tried out a few random jelly sleeves, as well as the Tenga Air Cushion Cup, the Tenga Flip Hole, the Fleshlight STU Mouth, and the Tera’s Ultra Erotic Love Doll.

Let me start this off by saying that none of these have felt like the vagina of a real living and breathing human woman, though a few of these did feel really amazing. My epic review of the Tera Patrick Doll will hopefully go up on EF tonight, as it is finally finished, so I won't go into the details of how that doll feels.

To me, all of the various jelly sleeves that I tried only felt ok. I used them all one time and that was about it. My experience with the Tenga Air Cushion was similar, and since this cup was designed to be a one-time-use disposable masturbator, I never used it again either.

So... now we are getting to the good stuff! The Fleshlight and the Tenga Flip Hole are both fucking awesome! Yes it’s true, they do not feel like a woman, but who cares? I do plan on eventually writing reviews for both of these when I get some free time; but trust me, they are both masturbatorically fantastico!

I bought both the Fleshlight and the Flip Hole within the last few weeks. I have used each a few times; and though they do have some very significant differences, I still cannot decide which one I like better. As for both of these toys - yes your penis will be able to tell it’s not a woman, but trust me - it won’t care!

I know that this information is not very helpful on the topic of trying to find a male toy that feels like a woman, but I figured relating my experiences may be helpful if you’re just looking for something that feels really good.
04/27/2009
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
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Originally posted by Gary
This is a great and potentially very helpful thread! To date, I have tried out a few random jelly sleeves, as well as the Tenga Air Cushion Cup, the Tenga Flip Hole, the Fleshlight STU Mouth, and the Tera’s Ultra Erotic Love Doll.

Let me start ... more
Well, then do they feel better than a real vagina?
04/27/2009
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
In a psychology class I took the professor said that women can climax faster and better by themselves but prefer a man. This is completely true for me. A g-spot dildo or a vibrator can bring on an orgasm much better than anything a man can do for me but I'd still chose the real deal. Dildos/vibrators don't come with male bodies attached. They can't give you a feeling of closeness.
04/27/2009
Contributor: Gary Gary
Quote:
Originally posted by Lithaewyn
Well, then do they feel better than a real vagina?
As far as physical sensation is concerned I would not say they feel better or worse, only different. However, I personally do prefer being with a woman over a glorified flashlight whenever possible!
04/28/2009
Contributor: Gary Gary
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
In a psychology class I took the professor said that women can climax faster and better by themselves but prefer a man. This is completely true for me. A g-spot dildo or a vibrator can bring on an orgasm much better than anything a man can do for ... more
I totally agree with this! There is often a lot more involved than direct physical stimulation.
04/28/2009
Contributor: DreamyLove DreamyLove
Since my boyfriend and I are currently in a long distance relationship, I've found that a Vixskin dildo is as close as you can get in my opinion. They feel amazing. Perfect "stand in" until the next time my boyfriend visits. :p
04/28/2009
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
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Originally posted by Lithaewyn
Well, then do they feel better than a real vagina?
I guess I didn't truly answer the question.
For me, I don't see how a masturbator will ever feel better than the real thing. Some of it is definitely mental, and a good masturbator can definitely get the job done if my partner is unavailable, but they will never replace her. I like masturbators better than my hand though.
04/28/2009
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
@Yeti & Jimbo Jones: Gotcha. Like the other ladies that posted, I definitely prefer my man over a toy. The Ella, for example, touches me in a way that he simply can't, but toys will always be second best.

Even after getting toys of my own and experiencing first hand that they are only second best, I still had worries about being replaced. This thread makes me feel more at ease. Additionally, the more I participate and read material in sex positive places, the more I feel that such an idea is just plain silly.
04/28/2009
Contributor: Perish Perish
This thread has brought me some great closure on my quest for a toy that is better or just as good as the real deal. So when i hear ladies telling guys on Jerry Springer that they have something under their bed that can exactly what men can do if not better is a lie total lie lol...
04/28/2009
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
My guess is that anything said on Jerry Springer is only being said to insult the other person while making them angry. It is possible that they actually believe it in which case I feel sorrow that they are not able to connect with another human being better than that, but my guess is that they are just blowing smoke.
04/29/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
I know this thread hasn't been posted on for 2 months but I have to say I don't see how any toy for any gender could be better than the "real deal." There are way too many factors that make having sexual intercourse/relations/ whatever with a partner amazing and wonderful.
07/07/2009