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Originally posted by
LuvinIT
Thank you. I am checking them out with my husband, he thinks your ideas on modifications sound plausible, I'm excited that we have some ideas to consider. Again thank you, L
I know this post is a bit older, but if you still don't have something that has worked well, my first thought was something like a quality cock ring with a sturdy double penetrator attachment,
Like this one. It might also require a modification or being flipped around, or secured with a harness for more rigid support, but it may work as is. It's made for anal play but I see no reason why, if it was done in the right position, it couldn't work? You might shop around a bit and see what kind of similar items are out there, but the one I linked is the most similar one Eden has to what I was thinking!
He can also work on reducing his refractory period through good physical health, particularly cardiovascular health and exercise, but it's not a guarantee and there's no formula to know how much it might help. If he's already in top shape, then unfortunately it would be a matter of medications to try, but I wouldn't go there if he doesn't have trouble with erections in general. I feel very lucky, my ex-husband had a long refractory period but my current partner has virtually none. It takes all of a minute or two before he's good to go again. I honestly was shocked that was even possible, but it's a blessing for us!
I wish you the best of luck in your quest!