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Contributor: v loves c v loves c
hi guys! first time poster here.

so my gf and i use strap-on dildos, and for myself i prefer thickness over length, especially since the long toy we currently use (insertable is 6.5) becomes slightly painful and uncomfortable when pushed all the way.

am planning on buying a new one, that is hopefully thick but short. so, would i feel a noticeable difference between:

- a 6.5 inch insertable to a 5.5 or 4.75 (though i'm assuming i will with 4.75). i just want to be cautious and not buy a new toy when it will still be painful, as i would love for my gf to be rough and pound away.

- a 5 inch circumference to a 6 inch cir. would i feel a noticeable difference? i've only been using this 5 inch girth one, and another a couple of times which was a little bigger (though idk how much bigger)



those were my main questions, but i would like to ask if anyone knows of any site or toy in particular that fits these measurements? i have honestly only found 2 that are 6 inch girth, and 5.5 inch or 4.75 insertable. would ideally want a larger girth, but the larger you go, the longer the insertable length, and i don't want longer :-(. any ideas? thanks so much!
04/21/2019
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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
There's difference between 5& 6. The flexibility and stiffness also make a difference. Edenfantasys carries its own line and has lots and lots. You need to read up on each one and the reviews.Vixen Creations has good ones and some are thick yet shorter. Eden sells them also.

Also I'm not understanding about your concerns of being too long. Can't she just not go so deep? Perhaps ask her to do short thrusts and slowly work it in 1/4 to1/2" at a time? What's the hurry? Is she trying to imitate your techniques? Buying a longer one might come in handy in the future. You may want or be able to take it deeper in the future. For now she should just stop when hits bottom.

In our profile we have some reviews/ comments on some the dildos purchased here. The Outlaw is made of great material and long. We enjoy it although neither of us can take it's entire length. Both Caesar and Mega are shorter and feels great when balls deep or less.
04/21/2019
Contributor: v loves c v loves c
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
There's difference between 5& 6. The flexibility and stiffness also make a difference. Edenfantasys carries its own line and has lots and lots. You need to read up on each one and the reviews.Vixen Creations has good ones and some are thick ... more
hi, thanks for the reply. also, i dont think i specified this but we are both girls.

i have done some research already and found a couple toys around 5.5inch and less in length, and 6inch in circumference. i'll do some more research however.

And while she can do that (and she has done it when she's holding the toy instead of using a harness) i personally want the feel of her being completely inside me without worrying about the tip hitting... whatever it hits. the wall? i'm not too sure what it is haha. but yeah, would love a thick toy, but on the shorter side.

thank you again. i'll have a look through your profile.
04/21/2019
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
(EdenFantasys)
You are right, to find strap-on dildo of small length and large circumference is utterly hard. And I tirelessly repeat that density and texture do matter! If you prefer girthier toys, firm dildos with intricate texture may work great for you!

Also, you may consider Stout. It's quite short but thick. Dancer either can be a good option for you.
One touch dildo is at the edge of appropriate length, but can be worth a shot.
And if you're fond of glass toys or only intend to try them, this one may fit you well. Glass toys are pretty heavy, and weight might feel incredible. In addition, glass gives you an opportunity for temperature play. The one drawback - you cannot use it as a strap-on.

I hope it was helpful!
04/23/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
There's quite a few 1 3/4 or so and like Leil@ mentioned the Stouts. On any item I suggest reading reviews. If material is an issue ( non silicone) you can always use a condom.

You may want to checkout Lone star, Johnny, Uptown boyfriend, Goodfella andEden Dreamer.
04/23/2019
Contributor: cathenira cathenira
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Originally posted by v loves c
hi guys! first time poster here.

so my gf and i use strap-on dildos, and for myself i prefer thickness over length, especially since the long toy we currently use (insertable is 6.5) becomes slightly painful and uncomfortable when pushed all ... more
I am first time to here to read these stories. Awesome thought to discuss with each other.
04/28/2019
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
I'm surprised no one had mentioned the Girthy Giant - this bad boy is really girthy, but not at all too long.
04/30/2019