It's a myth that women 'stretch out' after a single childbirth. Having a child doesn't do anything but cause the pelvic arch to spread which doesn't affect vaginal size or shape. The only time you have permanent stretching of the vaginal canal is if you don't wait for your body to properly heal after you give birth to become pregnant again. Repeated doses of the childbirth cocktail CAN cause some permant laxness of the muscles which might be aided by a reshaping of the area surgically but if you wait at least 2 years between children (3 to be totally healed) and you exercise the vaginal muscles you will be back to your pre-pregnancy elasticity.
You also cannot get permanently stretched out from having lots of sex or be unable to retain waste after repeated anal sex. These are muscles and you can exercise them.

That being said I do guess that after childbirth a person's preferences could change but it is unlikely caused by childbirth alone. Perhaps the person is more relaxed and confident with themselves? Maybe the women is more interested in different sensations?

Personally, I have always liked a very girthy toy and even when I was a young woman slimline toys did nothing for me. I should also mention that my doctor uses a very small speculum when he does my yearly so no I don't like them because I am lax...I just like the feeling of being full!

Sorry if my post seems aggressive it's not meant to be. It's just that I have had people claim all sorts of just plain HORRIBLE things because I have had kids. I was even asked if sex with me was like "A golden pencil in a mineshaft"!!??!! To which I replied "I dunno are you shaped like a pencil?" I hate the shaming way women are taught about their bodies and all the myths surrounding sex. less

It's a myth that women 'stretch out' after a single childbirth. Having a child doesn't do anything but cause the pelvic arch to spread which doesn't affect vaginal size or shape. The only time you have permanent stretching of the vaginal canal is if you don't wait for your body to properly heal after you give birth to become pregnant again. Repeated doses of the childbirth cocktail CAN cause some permant laxness of the muscles which might be aided by a reshaping of the area surgically but if you wait at least 2 years between children (3 to be totally healed) and you exercise the vaginal muscles you will be back to your pre-pregnancy elasticity.
You also cannot get permanently stretched out from having lots of sex or be unable to retain waste after repeated anal sex. These are muscles and you can exercise them.

That being said I do guess that after childbirth a person's preferences could change but it is unlikely caused by childbirth alone. Perhaps the person is more relaxed and confident with themselves? Maybe the women is more interested in different sensations?

Personally, I have always liked a very girthy toy and even when I was a young woman slimline toys did nothing for me. I should also mention that my doctor uses a very small speculum when he does my yearly so no I don't like them because I am lax...I just like the feeling of being full!

Sorry if my post seems aggressive it's not meant to be. It's just that I have had people claim all sorts of just plain HORRIBLE things because I have had kids. I was even asked if sex with me was like "A golden pencil in a mineshaft"!!??!! To which I replied "I dunno are you shaped like a pencil?" I hate the shaming way women are taught about their bodies and all the myths surrounding sex. less

I've wondered sometimes while writing my reviews how much having been pregnant and/or having a vaginal birth affects what type of dildos women prefer and how revelant that might be when we are stating who these are best suited for... sooo... lets here what you ladies have to say.
Fella's... if you have a lady, you can ask her and vote for her please. less