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Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
I was wondering if other people had ever wanted to see more toys in slightly smaller or larger toys than the usual 1 1/2"? I don't know about you, but 1 3/4" is the largest I can take easily, and I find that it's quite a step from a diameter of 1 1/2". So ideally, I'd like to see more toys between those two sizes.

Am I alone in wanting a little bit more variety in toy sizes?

(For the sake of this poll, consider 1 1/2 as the average size for toys)
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I like smaller toys in general.
Ryuson , - Kira - , wrmbreze , OhMy! , ily , Rin (aka Nire) , WhoopieDoo , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , married with children , llellsee , Apirka , Eucaly , sunkissedJess , pix , Bethy Cassatt , Double Analysis , edenx , Lady Bear , sweetpea12 , ejrbrndps , gloomybear , Clubbinseals , BG529 , bh253 , PassionCpl , unfulfilled , giftdgecko , Feisty , jr2012
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I like larger toys in general.
Rainbow Boy , Gunsmoke , potstickers , Apirka , aliceinthehole , Entropy , Bpmrn86 , kitty1949 , Bex1331 , sXeVegan90 , sixfootsexxx , solitudinarian , AlianneCimorene , KrissyNovacaine
14
I like medium sized toys.
Diabolical Kitty , Beck , Kitka , OrangeKushBB , Coralbell , DeliciousSurprise , Love Perpetua , married with children , ss143 , Apirka , padmeamidala , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , ghalik , MissManners , Clubbinseals , spiceboy , SadoMas , bh253 , PassionCpl , sXeVegan90 , panthercat23 , travelnurse , mpfm , AlianneCimorene , KrissyNovacaine , SubmissiveFeminist , Kynky Kytty , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , Feisty
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And I want...
Rainbow Boy , ily , Gunsmoke , Kitka , Rin (aka Nire) , WhoopieDoo , DeliciousSurprise , ss143 , Apirka , sunkissedJess , ghalik , Entropy , Bethy Cassatt , Double Analysis , sweetpea12 , Clubbinseals , sXeVegan90 , travelnurse , AlianneCimorene , SubmissiveFeminist
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More toys smaller than 1" in diameter.
ily , Chal , Bethy Cassatt , ejrbrndps , gloomybear
5
More toys between 1" and 1 1/4" in diameter.
- Kira - , ily , Chal , WhoopieDoo , DeliciousSurprise , married with children , llellsee , sunkissedJess , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , ghalik , Entropy , pix , Double Analysis , sweetpea12 , ejrbrndps , PassionCpl , giftdgecko , Kynky Kytty
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More toys between 1 1/4" and 1 1/2" in diameter.
- Kira - , Diabolical Kitty , ily , Rin (aka Nire) , WhoopieDoo , DeliciousSurprise , Love Perpetua , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , married with children , Eucaly , Rawhide , ghalik , Entropy , sweetpea12 , bh253 , giftdgecko , travelnurse , Kynky Kytty
18
More toys between 1 1/2" and 1 3/4" in diameter.
Diabolical Kitty , Rainbow Boy , Coralbell , Love Perpetua , ghalik , Entropy , Clubbinseals , bh253 , roskat , panthercat23 , travelnurse , solitudinarian , AlianneCimorene , KrissyNovacaine , SubmissiveFeminist
15
More toys between 1 3/4" and 2" in diameter.
Rainbow Boy , Gunsmoke , Apirka , Entropy , kitty1949 , sixfootsexxx , solitudinarian , AlianneCimorene , KrissyNovacaine , darkr
10
More toys above 2" in diameter.
aliceinthehole , Entropy , Bpmrn86 , kitty1949 , solitudinarian , KrissyNovacaine
6
I just want toys!
Ryuson , Antipova , - Kira - , wrmbreze , Diabolical Kitty , Clandestine , Beck , Kitka , OrangeKushBB , DeliciousSurprise , Love Perpetua , caligaliber , ss143 , Apirka , padmeamidala , sunkissedJess , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , aliceinthehole , Rawhide , ghalik , Lady Bear , spiceboy , Ukulele Guy , bh253 , roskat , Bex1331 , sXeVegan90 , travelnurse , AlianneCimorene , KrissyNovacaine , SubmissiveFeminist , Kynky Kytty , Feisty , jr2012
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In fun colors, pretty please.
Ryuson , Antipova , - Kira - , wrmbreze , Diabolical Kitty , Clandestine , Rainbow Boy , OhMy! , ily , Beck , Kitka , OrangeKushBB , aimtoplease , Chal , DeliciousSurprise , Love Perpetua , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Piña Colada , ss143 , potstickers , Apirka , sunkissedJess , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , aliceinthehole , ghalik , Bethy Cassatt , Double Analysis , Lady Bear , sweetpea12 , gloomybear , Clubbinseals , spiceboy , SadoMas , LavenderSkies , bh253 , roskat , Bex1331 , unfulfilled , giftdgecko , sXeVegan90 , panthercat23 , travelnurse , mpfm , sixfootsexxx , AlianneCimorene , KrissyNovacaine , SubmissiveFeminist , Kynky Kytty , Feisty
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*Unintelligible mumbling*
Ryuson , Antipova , wrmbreze , Diabolical Kitty , OhMy! , Beck , Kitka , WhoopieDoo , DeliciousSurprise , married with children , caligaliber , potstickers , Apirka , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Rawhide , ghalik , Lady Bear , Clubbinseals , bh253 , sXeVegan90 , mpfm , sixfootsexxx , AlianneCimorene , SubmissiveFeminist , Kynky Kytty
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Other.
Total votes: 272 (73 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I just want toys---kind of literally. I think 1.5" diameter was about the natural standard when I first started using sex toys...

but as I saw other interesting shapes of new sex toys, I always was like "well, it looks kind of big, but I can make it fit!" and kind of actively made myself stretch up in order to see what, for example, the 2" end of the Eleven felt like, and now even the Hottie Extra.

I was realizing, as I took out my collection to take a picture for the "show your stash" thread, I realized that most of my toys are pretty big.

But I don't need them to be! I still really love my 1" diameter Gold Laced G. I just accept different sizes as a way to try different shapes... and all the fun shapes seem to exist in bigger sizes.

It would be fine if more were smaller, frankly... but I'm flexible, in any case!
11/21/2011
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I use toys that are 1", 1.25", and every now and again 1.5". I'd love to see some sizes in between those measurements, though it would make it harder for me to measure them accurately for reviews since I can't always figure if something is exactly 1.5" or not.

I also clicked "more toys!" because who doesn't want more toys! Of course, in pretty colors!
11/21/2011
Contributor: Rainbow Boy Rainbow Boy
I've found (and have) a couple of toys that are in between the 1.25'' and 1.5'' size, but I haven't really seen many toys that are between 1.5'' and 1.75''. However, I'm much more eager to try out toys a little larger than 1.75'' but smaller than 2'', since 1.75'' is currently my max.

Also, if you try softer toys that are 1.5'', you'll find that they're much, much easier to take than harder toys at the same size. That's somewhat of a solution, I guess. It's really worked for me.
11/21/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I just want fun colored toys! I hate pink and there's so damn many pink ones, what the hell is up with that I ask.
11/22/2011
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
Quote:
Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
I was wondering if other people had ever wanted to see more toys in slightly smaller or larger toys than the usual 1 1/2"? I don't know about you, but 1 3/4" is the largest I can take easily, and I find that it's quite a step from a ... more
Most sizes seem good for us. Its the colors that need to change, a lot! The first thing I can think of the penis rings section. Most of them are pink or purple, really!?! But all sections need better colors in general
11/22/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I'm in the same boat as you - 1 3/4" is my limit, but sometimes I want a bit more than 1 1/2", so it would be nice to see a few more toys in that middle range.
11/22/2011
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Most of my toys are between 1" and 1.25", with a couple being 1.5" in diameter. Those are very soft, though, and my body still takes about a minute to get used to them, or in the case of vibes I use them externally. I often find myself looking at a toy and thinking it's cool, only to feel bummed when I see the diameter's too big for me to handle.

I wouldn't mind seeing some more toys between 1.25" and 1.5", since that seems to be where I'm most comfortable.
11/22/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
Most of my toys are between 1" and 1.25", with a couple being 1.5" in diameter. Those are very soft, though, and my body still takes about a minute to get used to them, or in the case of vibes I use them externally. I often find myself ... more
This is me, except I'm most comfortable with 1.25".....my biggest toy is the Vixskin Mustang and that's pushing it....even though it's squishy.
11/23/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
So far, the most I can take is 1 5/8, although it requires warm up. I want to get a variety of sizes - really I just want more!
11/23/2011
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Quote:
Originally posted by WhoopieDoo
This is me, except I'm most comfortable with 1.25".....my biggest toy is the Vixskin Mustang and that's pushing it....even though it's squishy.
Hehe, yeah, any toy above 1.25" has to be soft. My VixSkin Tex (1.5") is my favorite, but it's one of the ones my body has to adjust to when it's first inserted. If it were a harder material, it just wouldn't work. 1.25" is comfortable, but I find my orgasms are more intense if I go a little above that.
11/23/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I like all sizes of toys! Though I have just purchased my first anal toys (the Pleasure #1 and The Big End). I was planning on going with The Little End, but I liked the shape of the Pleasure #1 better. I haven't REALLY searched all the other toys, but I would have liked to see a medium sized toy between the Little and Big Ends because I'm going to need to work my way up to The Big End.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
There need to be more toys at slightly less than an inch and a half.
04/11/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I like all sizes as long as it can get me off lol.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
I'd like to see more options between 1.25 and 1.5

But I'd also like to see Vixen try a Vixskin cock in the 2.5 range
04/11/2012
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
I don't use my Severin Large often, and I own the A-bomb but have not yet been able to fully insert it. I'd like to use glass/steel/silicone toys to enable me to accept the bomb, but there are few toys in this material and size that would stretch me out enough to make it possible. At this point the only choice would be to use rubber toys to bridge the gap, so to speak, to stretch myself that wide. I'm not willing to do that...yet.
04/11/2012
Contributor: pix pix
I'd actually appreciate some smaller selections.
04/13/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Smaller would be pleasant!
04/14/2012
Contributor: Double Analysis Double Analysis
Thin ones don't normally look terribly interesting. I've been lusting over the Compact. Snatching that bad boy up when it's in stock!
04/15/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
I was wondering if other people had ever wanted to see more toys in slightly smaller or larger toys than the usual 1 1/2"? I don't know about you, but 1 3/4" is the largest I can take easily, and I find that it's quite a step from a ... more
I like smaller toys because I'm super tight and big toys are just really painful. But I like smaller to medium sized toys. I wish there were more dual density dildos that were smaller. ..
04/18/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
im so sick of trying to find a smaller toy to the point if given up on penetration toys
04/18/2012
Contributor: Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
I'm a small toy person, and i want to see more variety and colors on the smaller end of the dildo spectrum.
04/18/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
medium and coooolorrrrs
06/07/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
I was wondering if other people had ever wanted to see more toys in slightly smaller or larger toys than the usual 1 1/2"? I don't know about you, but 1 3/4" is the largest I can take easily, and I find that it's quite a step from a ... more
I require smaller toys. I'd like more variety for those who want it.
06/07/2012
Contributor: Ukulele Guy Ukulele Guy
I just want toys (as long as they're decent quality and I can use them).
06/07/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I want toys that aren't too big or too small, but the main requirement is POWER!
07/19/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
Smaller toys I tend to enjoy more and colors are tons of fun. Half the reason I enjoy looking at the glass toys
07/19/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
As for size I can typically find what I want, but color is another problem. Every company wants to make all of their toys the same colors. We need more variety.
07/22/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Cool colored toys, no more fricken pink!!!!!!
07/22/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I want all kinds of toys although I do prefer githier ones.
07/23/2012