Is size a big deal to you?

Contributor: SexyRayne SexyRayne
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Now i ask this because i have had relationships with guys from small(under average) to realy big (painfully so). My husband now really is just right for me, he is just at the larger end of average maybe a tiny bit bigger. I dated a guy who had length and girth and it was almost too much for me. I like big toys but only if they are on the softer side. I just wanted to know how do all of you feel about size.
02/11/2012
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I am absolutely convinced size matters. All of the toys we use with my wife are larger than me - that's OK because after I have brought her to orgasm with the toys - it's much easier for her to have #2 and sometimes #3 during intercourse with me. We both win!
02/11/2012
Contributor: SexyRayne SexyRayne
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I am absolutely convinced size matters. All of the toys we use with my wife are larger than me - that's OK because after I have brought her to orgasm with the toys - it's much easier for her to have #2 and sometimes #3 during intercourse with ... more
Now why cant my husband feel that way, he thinks i am trying to replace him! Lol he is very very wrong, he will always be #1 to me toys are just to add fun or for when he really isnt in the mood.
02/11/2012
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I really can't take long penises (and toys). I find it very painful, even when fully aroused, to take anything longer than 6 inches. However, I really prefer girthier penises.
02/12/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
The only size related problem I've ever had is too big. I am not a pain lover.
02/12/2012
Contributor: Wild Orchid Wild Orchid
I haven't experimented much with girth but as far as the length goes, I can take even the Acute to the base. I need to learn how to lift my cervix.
02/12/2012
Contributor: Positwist Positwist
Whether it's a body part or a toy, I find that girth is a big deal for me. Length, not so much.
02/12/2012
Contributor: Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
She enjoy's around 2" in girth in her toys, but no longer than 7". Thankfully those are my measurements exactly!!!
02/14/2012
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I am on the shallow side so the one experience I had with a huge cock was very uncomfortable. The dude was so proud of himself!
Girth is fine but I so have to be more aroused.
02/14/2012
Contributor: SexyRayne SexyRayne
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Originally posted by Boobs and Lubes
She enjoy's around 2" in girth in her toys, but no longer than 7". Thankfully those are my measurements exactly!!!
My hubby is not small, but not huge. The biggest guy i was with was 9" long and almost 3" in diameter. But i do not like really big guys at all. My hubby is just right for me.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Llewey Llewey
Coming from a male-bodied person, my answer may be a bit out of place, but:

I can't handle more than 7" in me, so length is generally not an issue. I am definitely more of a fan of girth, but average circumference (5"-ish) seems to be great for me. My sweet spot isn't very deep or hard-to-reach, so I'm really not too picky!
02/15/2012
Contributor: SexyRayne SexyRayne
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Originally posted by Llewey
Coming from a male-bodied person, my answer may be a bit out of place, but:

I can't handle more than 7" in me, so length is generally not an issue. I am definitely more of a fan of girth, but average circumference (5"-ish) seems ... more
Hey i wanted all honest answers so you are not out of place at all my friend!! And even as a female i enjoy anal. If i were to take too much that way id probably die. i like pain but not that much. My hubby is even a workout for my bum.
02/15/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
I don't like anything too big but too small isn't that good either. The problem is, I haven't figured out exactly what measurements I find "perfect," though that's only important for toy buying anyway.
02/15/2012
Contributor: SexyRayne SexyRayne
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Originally posted by GONE!
I don't like anything too big but too small isn't that good either. The problem is, I haven't figured out exactly what measurements I find "perfect," though that's only important for toy buying anyway.
i can understand that. My hubby is about 7 inches long when he is really rock hard on average about 6 1/2 which is great for me, he is not skinny but not crazy girthy id say about 1 1/2 inches which is nice. i have been with tiny guys and big guys. small is ok if they really know how to work it but i prefer a more filling sensation.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Well, I haven't had any experience with the gentlemen yet, but I do have enough experience with toys to know my comfort zone.

Since my vaginal canal is on the short side, a guy will have to either be 4-5" long at the most or accept the fact that he's not going to fit all the way without banging my cervix. I hear about ladies preferring 6-7" or longer and I cringe. At least my toys won't ever be disappointed if they're a bit too long to fit all the way.

As for girth, a diameter between 1.25" and 1.5" is preferable, but I'd be willing to work up if a guy was patient with me, or down if he didn't mind experimenting (though of course, a willingness to experiment would be good either way).
02/16/2012
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
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Originally posted by SexyRayne
Now i ask this because i have had relationships with guys from small(under average) to realy big (painfully so). My husband now really is just right for me, he is just at the larger end of average maybe a tiny bit bigger. I dated a guy who had length ... more
My first orgasm during sex/penetration was from a guy who was slightly under average size. I also dated someone who was almost 9" long and nearly 2" thick.. which did nothing for me in the bedroom.
02/16/2012
Contributor: darkkitty darkkitty
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Originally posted by SexyRayne
Now i ask this because i have had relationships with guys from small(under average) to realy big (painfully so). My husband now really is just right for me, he is just at the larger end of average maybe a tiny bit bigger. I dated a guy who had length ... more
There is de. too small and too large. I prefer larger but not insanely so.
02/16/2012
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by SexyRayne
Now i ask this because i have had relationships with guys from small(under average) to realy big (painfully so). My husband now really is just right for me, he is just at the larger end of average maybe a tiny bit bigger. I dated a guy who had length ... more
it's all how it's used
12/16/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
Size only matters to me in the sense that I can't handle anything too big. I'm not a masochist!
12/17/2012
Contributor: Bleu Bleu
Size matters because anything too big isn't able to be enjoyed fully and anything too small is just sad. But many toys are bigger than my boyfriend is and I think that makes him jealous.
12/17/2012