Is bigger really better?

Contributor: southernhawtie southernhawtie
So who here thinks that bigger is really better?
12/03/2010
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12/03/2010
Contributor: Qliq Qliq
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Originally posted by southernhawtie
So who here thinks that bigger is really better?
Material is a big factor, as well!
12/10/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
theres more to it than just hte size. so no, bigger isnt better
12/10/2010
Contributor: Fun Lover Fun Lover
Its about the motion of the ocean. Quality is always better than quanity.
12/10/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I have both and I like both. Sometimes there's nothing like a huge toy that overloads everything down there, and other times a (perfect) little toy precisely applied is better.

However a poorly designed little toy isn't much fun.
12/10/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Girth bigger is better. But length wise - no.
12/11/2010
Contributor: Vexed Vexed
Motion of the ocean...blah blah blah... Come on, we are talking about dildos people. Not life partners. You can pick any size you like. Yes, bigger is better, up to a point. Where that point is will vary from person to person, and also day to day.

I had lots of fun exploring with huge hole stretching toys that were 3" thick in diameter. I may do that again some day, but not I like thrusting with toys that are 6.5" in girth up to 8" in girth.

-When it comes to penetration, thicker = more intense.
12/13/2010
Contributor: Booty Boop Booty Boop
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Originally posted by Vexed
Motion of the ocean...blah blah blah... Come on, we are talking about dildos people. Not life partners. You can pick any size you like. Yes, bigger is better, up to a point. Where that point is will vary from person to person, and also day to ... more
I agree Vexed. Varying day by day of course. if you get to choose who wouldn't go bigger if they can. Bigger can be better but if you just want clit pleasure then go small. But yes thicker does equal more intensity!
12/15/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Many times "it's not how big it is but how you (or I) use it", but there are also times when size counts - up to a point.
12/15/2010
Contributor: Intertwining Intertwining
I actually prefer smaller toys. My body simply CANNOT accomodate toys that are even 1 1/2" in diameter even if I'm extremely turned-on- it's very uncomfortable to the point of pain. It's probably because I'm a fun-sized Asian (lol) though.

I once had sex with a very well-endowed partner, and the entrance of my vagina actually felt like it was slightly ripped at the bottom! No blood or anything, but I was hurting for days. Ouch!
12/16/2010
Contributor: dchubby dchubby
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Originally posted by southernhawtie
So who here thinks that bigger is really better?
I started using bigger and bigger dildos on my wife until we reached the point where it was too much. We had to scale back for her full enjoyment. I guess every woman has her ideal length and texture.
01/07/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by dchubby
I started using bigger and bigger dildos on my wife until we reached the point where it was too much. We had to scale back for her full enjoyment. I guess every woman has her ideal length and texture.
Absolutely - there is an optimum. My girl has settled on 1.75 as being about average - but some days she prefers something smaller like 1.5 - but some days she wants the full 2" of our biggest toys. I always have a selection at the ready - you never know when a woman is going to change her mind!

On second thought maybe we do - every few minutes!
01/07/2011
Contributor: CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
So far, I have noticed that bigger is better with my wife. Each time we move up she says that she doesn't like it very much, but her body absolutely explodes on the new bigger toy. Sometimes actions speak louder than words. As long as she is having mind blowing orgasms, I'm the happiest man in the world. But we haven't gotten to anything too crazy yet. The most she has done is 6 1/2 insertable with 2 in thickness.
01/21/2011
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
preference, for me no bigger is not better
01/21/2011
Contributor: Free Free
I like fatter lol.
01/22/2011
Contributor: Blu Blu
I've wondered this too. All things the same, length, texture, hardness, etc., is bigger better? Obviously there is a point when it won't fit, so assuming it fits, is bigger better? As a man, it's impossible for me to know, but I would suspect so because it would increase the feeling.
01/27/2011
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by southernhawtie
So who here thinks that bigger is really better?
I don't think bigger is really better. In my opinion, it's not the size, it's what you do with it. Personally I prefer smaller above anything. Besides, it doesn't hurt.
01/29/2011
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
That would depend on the individual, the situation, the mood, and the other features of the toy. A poorly designed big toy isn't any fun at all, while plenty of really nice, effective toys are tiny. Like the Little Chroma, for example.
01/29/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I like a variety of sizes in my toys. But as far as size goes, I much prefer girth to length!
01/29/2011
Contributor: V.T.T V.T.T
When it comes to toys...yes! But this is a personal preference of course. Cocks are a different story...it does matter how much talent and style they have in the sack. But I do like big.
01/29/2011
Contributor: CS2012 CS2012
Bigger is not always better I think it depends on what the toy is intended for and if it vibrates or not.
01/29/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Girth is more important than length. That being said, however, I can still have mind blowing orgasms from small toys. It's all about how you use them.
01/29/2011
Contributor: tinyguy tinyguy
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Originally posted by UnknownGirl
Girth is more important than length. That being said, however, I can still have mind blowing orgasms from small toys. It's all about how you use them.
My wife is same about girth, oxygen. She deals with me being smaller and hence used to smaller. But when it comes to dildos, she likes very thick. She likes them fairly average length...no more than 6.5, but really fat at 2" or more in diameter. Those are her best orgasms, by far. She has them with me also and using a small 5 inch dildo which is similar to my size and thickness. So, you're right....I think both are just different experiences for her, and me. Fun either way, but if you asked her, she can't deny the huge orgasms from huge toys....she seems to want those more and more lately. You're experience about the same?
02/27/2011