No intercourse in a LONG time...

Contributor: Floral Floral
Hello all,
I haven't had intercourse in about 7 years and am interested in getting some sex toys (I am creating quite a wish list of vibrators and dildos). Here's the thing-- my vagina and opening have gotten very small and I want them to stay that way. Do you think that if I use something that is between 3-4" circumference that it will stretch me out? (Also, I have resumed kegel exercises).
I really appreciate any ideas anyone has about this.
Thanks!
07/06/2011
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Contributor: VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
Why not get something 1"-2" in width? I really like the velvet touch vibrator. It's really simple and not very wide. It's a velvety coated toy. It might be a little boring... If you don't want to stretch yourself out then stick with the smaller width toys for sure. Good luck finding something!
07/08/2011
Contributor: Floral Floral
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Originally posted by VioletMoonstone
Why not get something 1"-2" in width? I really like the velvet touch vibrator. It's really simple and not very wide. It's a velvety coated toy. It might be a little boring... If you don't want to stretch yourself out then ... more
Thanks VioletMoonstone
07/10/2011
Contributor: v23 v23
Quote:
Originally posted by Floral
Hello all,
I haven't had intercourse in about 7 years and am interested in getting some sex toys (I am creating quite a wish list of vibrators and dildos). Here's the thing-- my vagina and opening have gotten very small and I want them to ... more
You might want to try just external stimulation or something small, like a bullet, with a lot of variety. Try something like this! It has a lot of variety and if you choose to insert it, it has g-spot stimulation as well. =]
07/12/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
look into traditional vibes (1-2 inches). and your vag shouldn't widen because you're using bigger toys; usually that only happens after a traumatic incident like birthing, so that shouldn't be a huge concern. Eden sells nice kegel balls to keep you tight; look into Fun Factory Smart Balls or SinFive Emigi. Good luck!
07/16/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
Quote:
Originally posted by Floral
Hello all,
I haven't had intercourse in about 7 years and am interested in getting some sex toys (I am creating quite a wish list of vibrators and dildos). Here's the thing-- my vagina and opening have gotten very small and I want them to ... more
I'm the same way but I've found that if I use it a few days a week then take a couple weeks break I go back to being small. I'm kinda OCD about saving my "tightness" for the next guy I find awesome enough to date in a long term situation. I'd say as long as its not nightly and you take a few nights off you should be ok.

Also. Do you have a hitachi? I know internal stimulation is amazing and preferred for some people but a good corded massager like the magic wand is an asset if you are looking for something special.

Last point :x If i were you I'd also just consider maybe getting a dildo for external uses, something soft and realistic feeling and just have it "tease". For some reason that really does it for me and I don't need anything else for a while!


Also, thanks, I was just about to post something similar lol.
07/24/2011