Just heard back. Looks like it won't be coming back in stock.
Here's there response:
Hello,

The Nexus Maximus can be ordered directly from our website exclusively:
link

Thank you,
Wilson
Vixen Creations, Inc.
Worth Every Inch!

I asked Eden about this and here's the response

Hi Brian,

I just got more details. So it seems that Vixen is having some trouble with that item and they're not offering it for wholesale purchase (to us or any other retailer) however they are offering it for sale on their website.

Thanks,
Alicia

Thanks for following up for us! Looks like I will be buying it direct too.

The Mantric Sysil also looks non-realistic.

I think that Vixen is having some problems with the yield on certain toys right now. From the rumblings I hear it sounds like they're making some changes in production and marketing, so hopefully things will be sorted out over the next month, ideally with a few more new products.

hisandher, any update on your issues with that harness. I may have to rethink it if you can't figure out what the issue is. I know ScottA has it maybe asking him about it would be good. If you wanted to PM him but ask him to respond her that would be helpful to me and everyone else in this same position.

Harnesses for doubles can be touchy. Sometimes they just don't work with a particular body type, more often you need to mess with harness adjustments and partner positioning.

Make sure that your harness is securely attached to your (or your partner's) body and the mounting ring is low enough to be located over your (or your partner's) vulva so there isn't any force on the dildo when it's attached.

Secondly look at the positioning that you're using as a couple. It works best when the "getter" is positioned so there's some "downward" pressure (or pressure that would be the equivalent of downward if the position was translated into doggy-style) on the getter's end so the giver's end is held up inside. I'll try some "text art"


(getter's end) (harness) (giver's end)

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Hey Brian -
Sorry for the delay, we were out of town for the weekend. To follow up on your question, I meant to say it was more simulating mentally than a regular (one-side) dong. I am hoping that a different harness will make it more enjoyable on her end since our current harness probably isn't low enough on her. I am going to order the Spareparts Joque and see how that works.

Thanks for the advice Scott, I have read many of your posts and always found them very helpful. I thought that I read one of your posts that suggested that double-sided wasn't always the best and that two singles with a harness could be better. I purchased the Nexus Maximus hoping to find something that would be really pleasurable for her. Should I have gone the route of two singles? Or am I searching for something that doesn't exist... a pegging experience that she will enjoy?

Doubles are nice because they give more stimulation to the giver as well as being a bit more firmly attached and therefore easier to drive. The big downside with a double vs a single (or two singles) is that with the singles you can rotate them around to find the best stimulation for both parties, whereas with a double you're kind of stuck. I find this most noticeable with stiff toys such as the Feeldoe, where it is uncomfortable for me to use in certain positions. If we could rotate it so the curve pointed differently it would work better in all positions (for instance: Feeldoe + doggy style is uncomfortable for me. Missionary is great, but not doggy. Softer dildos, like the Share, do work better in all positions). The Nexus is pretty generic and fairly soft, so it's one of the ones that I find works in pretty much every position.

What you want to avoid is having the harness pulling on the dildo. Put the harness on with no dildo and see if you can adjust it so that you can slide a dildo through into her vagina without having to move the harness around. If you can do that then it should work much better with a double. Mounting the harness O-ring too high means that the harness is already trying to pull the dildo out before you even start. For a position choice try to set it up so your anus is slightly "lower" than her dildo so it helps to push the dildo in.

As I've said before somewhere the pleasure has two components, the physical (sensations of the thrusting against the vulva and clitoris, and if you have a double the internal sensations of the giver's end) and the psychological. If she's not comfortable with it mentally than she won't have as much fun. The mental comfort is not only being OK with having a dildo on, but also being comfortable enough with "driving" to be able to relax, and that takes experience.

Hmm looking at the pictures I can definitely see what you guys are talking about with the o-ring being much lower on the jaguar and spareparts. Out of curiousity, does anyone know if the jaguar can be used by a guy while using his penus for sex as well? I know the spareparts can't but I'm curious if the Jaguar can. If that's the case, then maybe I'll try to save up for it instead of getting the latigo harness. But if not, I'll get the latigo harness and then probably end up getting the spareparts instead.

We've had some success using the Latigo harness, but you have to use it "Differently".

Put it on, but don't cinch down the waist strap yet, leave some slack. After that, cinch down the leg straps so the O-ring is centered over her vulva and you can slide a dildo through into the vagina. Once you're done with that tighten the waist strap as much as you need to to tighten things up.

It might be more body-style specific, but we've found that you can have the waist strap hold OK using this method. Then, when you slide the dildo in (loosen the waist strap, pull off the harness, insert the dildo, put on the harness and tighten again so you don't mess with the leg straps) the harness isn't pulling up on the dildo at all.

Of course the SpareParts is probably a better choice if you can swing it. Not sure about the Aslan, but many harnesses can be worn by men as long as the dildo is over the penis. Sometimes there's a bit of rubbing, and I wouldn't be surprised if this happened with the Jaguar.

Can anyone with the Commando chime in on how well that works? Bare As You Dare?

The Latigo looks very, very similar the Bend Over Beginner (what the heck... lets call it BOB for short) that we have had some issues with. The clasps on the BOB are labeled Sportsheets so I can go out on a limb and guess that the BOB is the Latigo with Tantus dongs and a velvet patch. The BOB is great for single dongs but misses the mark on doubles like the Nexus Maximus.

Brian, were you asking about if the guy was wearing the harness instead of girl? I'm clueless about that but would appreciate it if you could put a link here to the thread you start. Thanks!

Sportsheets uses the same basic "strap setup" with different plates for several different harnesses - Latigo Leather, Buzz Me Tender (I think this is what's in "Bend Over Beginner"), and Ulti-Mate.

We'll forgive you this time Scott since you're so knowable in other areas. Out of curiosity, I'm wondering how good the Buzz Me Tender harness is. It looks like the o-ring is still a little too high and considering how expensive it is, I would guess that Jaguar or Spareparts are better choices.

Hey -
So the first experience with the Nexus Maximus + Spareparts Joque = Awesome. My girl really got into it. The ridge on the Maximus (with bullet vibrator on) was hitting her in just the right spot. I usually have to encourage her to keep going but not with this combo. She just kept going because it was really good for her. We eventually stopped and finished together. For us, this combo definitely lived up to our expectations Thanks for the advice guys!