I have been playing with toys for about 3 years now. I got introduced to them by a woman that I was seeing and she had a powerful vibrator and ,well let's just say when she used it on me , I was hooked . I have been buying toys since. I started out with small ones but as the years went on I ended up with some really big dildos.
I love the way they stretch my insides but I go slow up in size , in other words , you don't want to use a 2" wide dildo and then go to a 3" wide . You have to step up in small increments.
I recently bought a dildo that has a 4" wide head on it , I haven't tried it yet but when I do , I'm not going to grab it first, I'm going to start out with a 3" first , then 3.25" then a 3.5" and then a 3.75" until I think I'm ready to take it.
I usually warm up with my Cockzilla dildo or my King Cock 12" black, those two are some of the best dildos on the market. Everyone should have a Cockzilla . Look it up, EF should sell it along with some larger dildos but I don't know why they haven't increased their inventory in the large dildos. People would buy them , I'm not the only one who likes big toys , I'm sure of that , some women can handle larger size dildos too, I know a few who love riding huge toys )