I can't decide on which dildo. Help!

Contributor: calliope calliope 02/08/2012

It will be my first.

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Contributor: calliope calliope
I'm having a hard time picking one. Even though they all seem about the same.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
G-spot pink
Bent graduate (Clear / Pink)
Beck , Taylor
2  (4%)
Amethyst (Purple)
switzerland , levellc09 , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Wild Orchid , CanadianChick , kawigrl , Highmaintenancegirl916 , EdenJP , OrangeKushBB , eeep , Coralbell , Stinkytofu10 , SJ88 , alliegator , Teacookie , ksparkles16 , MissCandyland , Ghost , GONE! , Jon S , Mr. E , Rawhide , Dr Anal , (k)InkyIvy , Sunshineamine , slynch
26  (51%)
Ella (Rose)
Curiouscat , Rin (aka Nire) , Ryuson , Gracie , aliceinthehole , Subbi , indiglo , Rossie , toxie m , ninja250 , Zombirella , Undead , SparklyGlitter , unfulfilled , karay123 , CoffeeCup , Breas , voenne , Greenleaf , Chirple , samanthalynn , married with children , wetone123
23  (45%)
Other (explain)
Total votes: 51
Poll is closed
02/08/2012
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Contributor: blacklodge blacklodge
Well the Amethyst is on sale until Monday. I would pick that one.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
I own and love the Ella. It's amazing.
Other than that the bent graduate is a very popular dildo. I don't own it, but thats what i'm getting next! Great to reach the g-spot or p-spot.
02/08/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
Quote:
Originally posted by blacklodge
Well the Amethyst is on sale until Monday. I would pick that one.
How did I miss that. I was going to use the 30% off coupon anyway.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
Well it really depends on if you've had any toys with that much curve before and if you know that you like a lot of g-spot curved pressure. I'd personally get the Ella.
02/08/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by calliope
I'm having a hard time picking one. Even though they all seem about the same.
for a first dildo, i wouldn't go with glass. g-spot curves are ideal, in my opinion, a dildo is just about useless without one. silicone is the perfect material, and i'd go with ella out of these 4. take it from a dildo queen. which i am.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Subbi Subbi
I personally don't like dildos but if I had to pick I would go with Ella
02/08/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I'm thinking that those really curved glass dildos are not ideal for a first toy. Something softer (and less curved) would probably be better for you to get used to dildo play. I prefer the Bent Graduate out of all those, but I think for a first timer I'd suggest the Ella instead.
02/08/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
the amethyst is on super sale if you're an edenfriend that shares
02/08/2012
Contributor: Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
Amethyst
02/08/2012
Contributor: eeep eeep
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Originally posted by kawigrl
the amethyst is on super sale if you're an edenfriend that shares
I think it is only the pink Amethyst on sale, but that's the one I would go with too.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I vote for Ella, although both are good materials, silicone is more ideal for a first timer since it's slightly softer than hard glass.
02/08/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by calliope
I'm having a hard time picking one. Even though they all seem about the same.
Purple
02/08/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Amethyst, it's got great reviews and a lot of people have tried it and loved it.
02/08/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
the amethyst and the bent graduate are the exact same shape just a different price. on one of the site pages someone does a video review and shows both of them and they are the same shape so I'd go with the pretty purple!
02/08/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I have the Amethyst and it is just a great toy to have!! Plus, they just added it in a green color!
02/09/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by calliope
I'm having a hard time picking one. Even though they all seem about the same.
I really want Ella!
02/09/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Ella because I like silicone better than glass
02/09/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Personally, I have to have vibrations but if I was trying one it would be ella although amethyst is on sale right now for a few days.
02/09/2012
Contributor: karay123 karay123
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
for a first dildo, i wouldn't go with glass. g-spot curves are ideal, in my opinion, a dildo is just about useless without one. silicone is the perfect material, and i'd go with ella out of these 4. take it from a dildo queen. which i am.
I agree. Ella. Don't start with glass.
02/09/2012
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
I'd definitely take advantage of the Eden Friends promo on the Amethyst, but we already have one. It's a great little toy at an incredible price.
02/09/2012
Contributor: voenne voenne
Quote:
Originally posted by karay123
I agree. Ella. Don't start with glass.
Ditto... even though the sale on the Amethyst is awesome.
02/09/2012
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
My vote goes to the Amethyst- great g-spotting and lowest price of the four
02/09/2012
Contributor: Dr Anal Dr Anal
Amethyst hits the spot. Get the amethyst.
02/10/2012
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
I would either go for the amethyst or ella but I chose amethyst. I am a glass lover myself. Just proceed with caution on your first go round.
02/10/2012
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
I'd get the Amethyst just because of the sale, but I'd throw in an Ella - especially if this is a first toy. If you haven't done anything penetrative before, I would actually not recommend any of those.

Ella's an okay size if you've had penetrative sex, but just throwing it out there since I don't know your background. Ella was my second dildo, but I wish she'd been my third. Awesome toy, but the hard silicone was very unforgiving at first.
02/10/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by calliope
I'm having a hard time picking one. Even though they all seem about the same.
Ella
02/10/2012