Help me pick a dildo

Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
I don't own any realistic dildos, mainly because I think penises are ugly BUT that doesn't stop me from wanting one. A 13" Cock is NOT realistic LOL. I don't want something huge and money is no issue, show mw what you love.
11/20/2011
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Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Willow Wand
I don't own any realistic dildos, mainly because I think penises are ugly BUT that doesn't stop me from wanting one. A 13" Cock is NOT realistic LOL. I don't want something huge and money is no issue, show mw what you love.
What size are you comfortable with, something in the 1 1/2" diameter range, smaller, bigger?

Any of these would be pretty nice.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
What size are you comfortable with, something in the 1 1/2" diameter range, smaller, bigger?

Any of these would be pretty nice.
I have been RELLY interested in the Feeldoe! I have a HUGE fantasy about penetrating my husband. He isn't digging it, but I haven't even tried a finger yet. I WILL someday, but I do droll every time I see that thing.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
In the realistic dildo department, I'm kind of like you: I prefer colorful and fancy textured, but I do want a realistic one, which I have not purchased yet. If my toy is to be 1 1/2 in diameter, I'd go with the Vixskin Mustang, and there is more selection of good realistic toys for a diameter of 1 3/4, like the Bandit and the Goodfella (they have balls and both in Vixskin).

I highly suggest toys from Vixen creations if you want a more realistic look, but when it comes to dual density silicone, the O2 ones from Tantus are just as fun and look slightly less real, which you might find interesting.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Clandestine Clandestine
If you want something realistic, hygienic and comfortable, the flesh-toned O2 silicone toys from Tantus (Mark, Adam and Mikey) all fit the bill in their own ways. Mark is probably the most averagely sized of the bunch. Having tried the Adam for myself, he may be a bit big, and Mikey is rather girthy. Just saying.

They are a tad pricey, of course, but they have a lovely smooth texture and come in three great tasting humanoid colours.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
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Originally posted by Clandestine
If you want something realistic, hygienic and comfortable, the flesh-toned O2 silicone toys from Tantus (Mark, Adam and Mikey) all fit the bill in their own ways. Mark is probably the most averagely sized of the bunch. Having tried the Adam for ... more
HAHA, my hubands' name is Mark. How cool would that be to fuck him with a Mark!
11/20/2011
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
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Originally posted by Clandestine
If you want something realistic, hygienic and comfortable, the flesh-toned O2 silicone toys from Tantus (Mark, Adam and Mikey) all fit the bill in their own ways. Mark is probably the most averagely sized of the bunch. Having tried the Adam for ... more
I agree with Clandestine here. I highly suggest the Mark--he's the perfect size if you like more "normal" sized dildos.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
If this is for pegging your husband, I would actually wait to get one until you know what he likes.

Some people prefer softer toys anally because they're kinder on the inner walls, but others (I'm in this camp) generally prefer harder toys because they're easier to insert. (Once you get into bigger diameters, being soft is a-okay because the girth means the softer toy can stand up to your muscles---but you're not going to start with a bigger diameter!)

I would recommend:

1st---work on digital play. You don't need to spend any money until he's comfortable with a finger.

2nd---get two small probes---the Tantus Small Silk, which is finger-sized and soft silicone, and the WHK Pleasure Pearls, which is a little bigger than finger-sized, and made of glass. See which he prefers.

3rd---if he likes soft, the VixSkin Spur is going to be a good option. If he likes it a little more firm... I'm not sure what anal-sized, realistic-shape-and-co lor but firmer dildos are. The Vixen Mistress (not VixSkin) is good option, if you don't mind it being blue, or silvery-glittery.

So, this is going to be "your" dildo, and you're going to be wearing it---but it's going in his butt. So it's important that you get just as much input from him about what his favorite sensations are, otherwise you're not going to have very many opportunities to use it!

One other thing, it's discontinued on Eden but still available some other places---if you're interested in the Realdoe but you have to be realistic about the size he's willing/able to accept, you could look into the Share XS. It's only an option if you're both on the slender side due to short length, but it's a good way to get the strapless-strap-on experience without forcing him past his limits.

Good luck, have fun

If the pegging thing is only a fantasy you don't really see ever happening, though, and you just want one to wear around, Mark's great for that!
11/20/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
Yup, I'd say something made of O2 or VixSkin would suit you well, all you have to do is pick your size range
11/20/2011