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Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
This has likely been asked before, but I'm curious as to what the populace prefers: dildos that are hard, soft, or somewhere in between? Or does it depend on certain factors?

For example, I like my G-spot toys to be firm, but when it comes to thrusting I like something squishy and soft.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I like my toys to be hard.
daniel and frances , null , js250 , - , Nothere , jc123 , Antipova , samjo , wrecklesswords , fifi , jenn g , SexyTabby , Missmarc , Eva Schwaltz , pleasurehunter , Beck , Girly Juice , Bethy Cassatt , glasskitten , BG529 , karenm , raffi , Pierced Blaqk Skies , BrittaniMaree , Creepellah , Tango8976 , Apple3192 , Dr. Curious
28  (13%)
Softies for me!
Vegan Silk , EndlessFrost , Angewin , JessCee , Vanille , Bignuf , Boobs and Lubes , 3d3n1 , LadyDarknezz , MK434 , tunacan75 , Ayogirl230 , kaylajoy89 , butts , caramilk
15  (7%)
It depends - use, mood, etc.
Rin (aka Nire) , MaryExy , Starrr , salaciousrex , DeliciousSurprise , NarcissisticLust , Gigi128 , Lady Venus , sarki , UnknownGirl , married with children , BBW Talks Toys , Dusk , Redboxbaby , jay28 , smile789 , kittychilla , link82 , Devz , Shellz31 , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , newlady , ToyBoy , padmeamidala , Anjulie , froggiemoma , Eucaly , Pinkhare , Waterfall , CafeSabroso , Kayla , dv8 , Drifter86 , Donord , GeekyLora , Rossie , cujo467 , The Curious Couple , CAKES , LavenderSkies , alliegator , Sammi , cherryredhead88 , ElleMNOP , ichwillwaffels , krisvida , Sexy Alex , CoffeeCup , Linga , Reyes , zracer , AlaskanBeauty , ScottA , kokopelli , potstickers , Steve of Eden , dezzydezire , Karen Affeldt , Jazz , Lucky21 , curmudgeoncat , vanillaSpice , lanky , She's Got The Jack , PassionQT , RuMaRo34 , SiNn , EnMH , NaturalWoman , aliceinthehole , PropertyOfPotter , CharmCity , Sohotdinosaur , fetishslave12 , emiliaa , PaleBeauty6 , angel142stx , Ciao. , unfulfilled , Neurogasm , DiscretionAdvised , Love Perpetua , Nissa Nissa , Mew , badk1tty , ily , bdvnt , Tasty Latina , emilia , haley730 , sweetart , Toys in Love , l'amour , zeb , Katastophy , Diabolical Kitty , Girly Girl , Hibangel , fromazoo , FemmeFlo , Oomph2687 , Gimme More , Stinkytofu10 , Sangsara , BoobCopter , AlianneCimorene , ToyGeek , TiffyPixie , GenderSexplorations , Ex-prude , KRD , SneakersAndPearls , icyqueen , bh253 , TheirPet , damnbul12 , charletnarouh , sXeVegan90 , Gone (LD29) , SMichelle , panthercat23 , kitty91 , Undecided , brian691986 , AliMc , roskat , novanovanova , Gdom , Chefbriapink , satinlady550 , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , woodsdragon , belowme228 , Piña Colada , geliebt , lacybutton , Hummingbird , Wicked Wahine , Leopard Kittie , sillylilkitten , MissAnna , ashboo32 , Akira , DawnStar , Alchemagician , Genderfree , Britt93 , Artur Sergachev , Stagger13 , Pumpk1nPatch , snowminx , Crystalline , Robespierrethecat , xDemonKittehx , doowop , LoneOokami , Septimus , sophia430 , wicked48 , alextge , TJtheMadHatter , ToyFiend12 , PurplePainter23 , Aishiteru , SickOnSin , Thumper Logic , KiraCat , GirlyGirlRed
168  (76%)
No preference, really.
Miss Anonymous , ToyGurl , Noelle , lilacviolet , NorthBayLady
5  (2%)
I don't even like dildos!
Rhazya
1  (0%)
Other.
Rawhide , edeneve , captainsgirl , Virgingasms , babybluez
5  (2%)
Total votes: 222
Poll is closed
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Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I like squishy for vaginal use and firmer for anal.
05/29/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Depends, I like both
05/29/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I like them firm, but not too ridged.
05/29/2011
Contributor: smile789 smile789
It really depends. It would be too hard for me to pick a favorite
05/30/2011
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
depends..but i really do like softish toys for thrusting.
05/30/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
I like flexibility for my g-spot & thrusting, but my new Lelo toy is firm and I like that too.
05/30/2011
Contributor: Devz Devz
I like it both
05/30/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I usually prefer softer, but sometimes I like the firm. But I'm not big on glass firm.
05/30/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I'm in the middle - a bit squishy, but not too much.
05/30/2011
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
Depends on the shape of the toy and the function. In general, I like something firm enough for easy anal insertion, but soft enough to bend with my body.
05/30/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
This has likely been asked before, but I'm curious as to what the populace prefers: dildos that are hard, soft, or somewhere in between? Or does it depend on certain factors?

For example, I like my G-spot toys to be firm, but when it comes ... more
I like both
05/30/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Depends on my mood, but if i had to choose just one, it would be soft.
05/30/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
both, just depends
05/30/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
This has likely been asked before, but I'm curious as to what the populace prefers: dildos that are hard, soft, or somewhere in between? Or does it depend on certain factors?

For example, I like my G-spot toys to be firm, but when it comes ... more
It depends. One of the best dildos I ever had was an extremely squishy one the size of my forearm. It was only possible to use at all because it compressed nicely.
05/30/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I like both, it just depends. I love glass and that's pretty firm, especially for g-spotting!
05/30/2011
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
I used to think I liked soft. Then I had my 1st G-Spot orgasm with a glass toy! Things about my toy preferences are changing rapidly!
05/30/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by wetone123
I used to think I liked soft. Then I had my 1st G-Spot orgasm with a glass toy! Things about my toy preferences are changing rapidly!
Funny how that happens.

Thrusting, silicone for sure, but g-spotting... mmmmmm glass, steel... NOM NOM
05/30/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I guess i can say it doesnt really matter for me. I do have a soft one that i like very much, but i do like harder ones for more hard thrusting. You cant really do that with a soft one.
05/31/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
This has likely been asked before, but I'm curious as to what the populace prefers: dildos that are hard, soft, or somewhere in between? Or does it depend on certain factors?

For example, I like my G-spot toys to be firm, but when it comes ... more
Depends on my mood, but mostly hard.
05/31/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Definitely depends on the mood. Mostly hard, but sometimes soft.
05/31/2011
Contributor: CAKES CAKES
Not too hard cause it can hurt, but not too soft cause then it's like a limp penis!
05/31/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
This has likely been asked before, but I'm curious as to what the populace prefers: dildos that are hard, soft, or somewhere in between? Or does it depend on certain factors?

For example, I like my G-spot toys to be firm, but when it comes ... more
Depends, but usually really hard.
06/02/2011
Contributor: alliegator alliegator
Firm enough to thrust without it slipping out, soft enough to not injure me with vigorous thrusting.
06/03/2011
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
This has likely been asked before, but I'm curious as to what the populace prefers: dildos that are hard, soft, or somewhere in between? Or does it depend on certain factors?

For example, I like my G-spot toys to be firm, but when it comes ... more
I guess I could have gone with other because I like a little of both. I like mine to have a firm core, yet have some give and be soft on the outside. Guess I like them the same as cock
06/03/2011
Contributor: null null
I like them very hard, I only use softer toys occasionally.
06/03/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
This has likely been asked before, but I'm curious as to what the populace prefers: dildos that are hard, soft, or somewhere in between? Or does it depend on certain factors?

For example, I like my G-spot toys to be firm, but when it comes ... more
The soft toys seem to cause small rips in me.
06/03/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
This has likely been asked before, but I'm curious as to what the populace prefers: dildos that are hard, soft, or somewhere in between? Or does it depend on certain factors?

For example, I like my G-spot toys to be firm, but when it comes ... more
It really depends on my mood.
06/05/2011
Contributor: krisvida krisvida
Of course it depends!
06/06/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
Both, it depends really.
06/14/2011