It's this guy here: link

I've had a few people recommend it to me for first-timers.

That's a nice size and I particularly like that it is silicone.

Please don't put something inside yourself that might poison you... no jelly's no pvc... there are lots of crazy things that adult toys are made of that really shouldn't be made at all. You made a good choice with this one.

Oh one other thing, if you want to use it anally as well as vaginally, consider using female condoms. One in your butt to keep the toy clean if you would switch back and forth. (as a versatile bi guy myself I can attest that the female condom works fine for receptive anal sex)

Use plenty of lube and Have Fun!

Cool. So I take it you know the basics, right? Get yourself aroused so you have some natural lube going, then start playing with it. Don't try to just jam it all in right away lol, maybe first plop it down on the outside of your lips and nuzzle your clit with it, run it up and down vertically so it splits your lips without going in and always nudges your clit on the upstroke, and repeat as desired. Then go from there ....there's a whole lot more fun to be had inside. Seriously, women's vaginas are god's greatest gift to mankind based on what they can do and the kind of pleasure they're capable of giving and having.

I can go on if you like lol.

Congratulations on getting the Bendable Buddy. It can be used as dildo and/or vibe.

We did a review and video demo on it 2 yrs ago. It is still in her rotation. She bent it to suit her anatomy. She normally starts with fingers, mine or hers then positions the buddy sideways on her clit. She likes a lot of buzzing and leaves it there for a long time. Then when aroused and wet slips it in slowly.

The multiple settings are great on that as you probably found out. Strong too !

I like the light show when it is on.