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Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
I was wondering what people's first penetration experiences were (for both male and female). Was it a penis? A dildo? Your finger? A household object (spoon handle, toothbrush)? A tampon?

The first thing I used for penetration was during solo exploration, and it was the rounded thin cap on a nail polish bottle.
04/22/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: Raigne Raigne
I think it was a ballpoint pen knotted inside a condom. It was over ten years ago, so if there was something before that I don't remember it.
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Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
my finger, i was young and wanted to explore. known where my gspot is for 12 years now.
04/22/2012
Contributor: pasdechat pasdechat
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetDragon
I was wondering what people's first penetration experiences were (for both male and female). Was it a penis? A dildo? Your finger? A household object (spoon handle, toothbrush)? A tampon?

The first thing I used for penetration was during ... more
I'm guessing my finger, when I was 12/13, but it's possible I had done some exploring before that I don't remember.
04/22/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
It was my finger definitely, did plenty of exploring with it long before discovering toys or anything else.
04/22/2012
Contributor: spiceboy spiceboy
I masturbated from the time I was in 2nd grade but only externally, and I never used tampons growing up. I didn't have a penetration experience of any kind until college and I think it was a sharpie, paint brush handle, then an over-sized plastic crochet hook. I was disappointed that I couldn't feel anything from the smooth plastic so I bought a really small jelly vibrator. Soon after that I had my first pap smear. The pap smear was extremely painful for me, but it opened my eyes to the possibilities of my vagina, haha. Haven't had any problems with toy size or insertion since then.
04/22/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Finger, followed by found/improvised toys, followed by real toys.
04/22/2012
Contributor: asphyxia asphyxia
The first thing I remember is a Sharpie from when I was ~7 years old, but I was a very curious child so I had been masturbating for quite a while before that.
04/22/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Most likely my own finger. The first time it was with an other person it was My Man's finger (nope, I never let an other man or boy get that far until I met him. )

I had had several lovers (we had an open relationship for several years when I was in college) and certainly had penetration, but I didn't try toys until just a few years ago.
04/22/2012
Contributor: Calla Calla
First would be my finger, then tampons, then a partners fingers, then a penis. I never tried using household objects and didn't get a toy til after I'd had sex.
04/22/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
My fingers. I was young, maybe 11 or 12. I don't remember the first time I did it. I started using tampons the third time I got my period when I was around 13. Nothing other than tampons and fingers til I had sex when I was 18.
04/23/2012
Contributor: Liz123 Liz123
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetDragon
I was wondering what people's first penetration experiences were (for both male and female). Was it a penis? A dildo? Your finger? A household object (spoon handle, toothbrush)? A tampon?

The first thing I used for penetration was during ... more
Vibrator!
04/27/2012
Contributor: sawyer sawyer
Quote:
Originally posted by VelvetDragon
I was wondering what people's first penetration experiences were (for both male and female). Was it a penis? A dildo? Your finger? A household object (spoon handle, toothbrush)? A tampon?

The first thing I used for penetration was during ... more
toothbrush!
04/28/2012
Contributor: sawyer sawyer
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
my finger, i was young and wanted to explore. known where my gspot is for 12 years now.
i know what you mean
04/28/2012
Contributor: sawyer sawyer
Quote:
Originally posted by Ciao.
It was my finger definitely, did plenty of exploring with it long before discovering toys or anything else.
good for you
04/28/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
First my fingers, then various household objects, then a glass rippled dildo, then a standard silicone dildo strapped to my girlfriend, then a flesh-and-blood penis. I can confidently say that I like penetration more and more, the more that I experiment with it!
04/28/2012
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
Finger when I was 13.
04/28/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Mine was a speculum at the doctor's office when I was 7. That sparked a massive curiosity to which I began using my fingers for a long time. It wasn't long after becoming an adult that I started using dildos.
04/29/2012
Contributor: BeepBop BeepBop
Is it terrible that I don't remember?

It may have been mine or my ex's finger, or the end of a vibrating razor I owned.
04/29/2012
Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
speculum at a pap smear. it was a very weird experience for me. I'd tried a tampon before, but couldn't "relax" enough to get it in!
04/29/2012
Contributor: Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
I really don't remember, to be honest! I think my finger or the end of a glass soda bottle I washed out.
04/29/2012
Contributor: Double Analysis Double Analysis
Someone else's finger followed by penis! lol
04/29/2012
Contributor: BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
I didn't experiment with any penetration until I started having sex. The first thing I used for penetration was a tampon but it wasn't sexual and it got stuck. O.o
04/30/2012
Contributor: Liz123 Liz123
pap test.
05/04/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
probably a tampon, or my finger, don't know which was first...
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