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Contributor: Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
I'm looking for a gift for a partner. He would like a harness that can be used for both packing and then (after switching dildos) for penetration. (Actually, in the perfect world the Mr. Man would be fit for both purposes...)

The problem I see is that most "standard" o-ring harnesses are much too bulky to wear in public under clothing, even though he wears pretty baggy pants.

I saw this one link

And thought it could work - especially since it also allows the wearer to be penetrated (which he would love), but it only has one review.

Anyone else use this? Or have any other suggestions?

Thanks
01/10/2009
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Contributor: CaptainBunnyKilla CaptainBunnyKilla
Quote:
Originally posted by Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
I'm looking for a gift for a partner. He would like a harness that can be used for both packing and then (after switching dildos) for penetration. (Actually, in the perfect world the Mr. Man would be fit for both purposes...)

The problem ... more
I don't know about the one you linked, but I've heard that this one is supposedly great for packing as well as play.
01/10/2009
Contributor: Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
Oh and while you're thinking of it... please also recommend a dildo that isn't too bulky, but can be used for packing & play. Thanks.
01/10/2009
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
I think the most popular dildo sold here at EdenFantasys for pack to play is the Silky by Vibratex. There is a futurotic flexi-dong that might work as well, but the Silky is well known for it's ability in this instance. I am not speaking from personal experience, just from what I have read. Good luck!
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Contributor: Sir Sir
Honestly, there aren't that many that are good for packing and playing anywhere (in my opinion, at least). I currently, if I plan to do that, just wear my penis to the side (even though that does look a little weird, considering the fact that most of my cocks reach mid-thigh on me). Edenfantasys has some great new harnesses out currently, actually, that are really discreet and not bulky whatsoever.

Though you really shouldn't, I've used the Mr. Right for packing and playing. He worked just fine for me, so maybe use a condom to keep it in good shape (though it's still soft, keep that in mind).
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