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Sportsheets thigh harness
I've been reading the reviews for the Sportsheets thigh harness, and I've noticed several contradictions in regards to the range of dildos it can...

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The Feeldoe is another option as well as the Nexus Maximus, but the Tango seems to be getting the higher marks at this point. They all use one small bullet vibrator which means the vibration is not overly strong, but it could be swapped out for a stronger bullet as long as it was about the same size. I don't know of one that has a separate vibrator for each end.

thanks for the suggestions but i am looking for one with a harness

I've used both the Nexus Maximus and the Tango with a harness, and the Tango does a good job of vibrating both ends, whereas the Nexus vibrations are more for the giver. Both are designed to work well with a harness.

Another possibility is getting one of the Outlaw Leather harnesses, which I have heard work very well with two individual dildos, or something such as the Aslan Double Up Cuff, which Eden doesn't carry (link) (you can put two dildos in Aslan's harnesses without the cuff, but it seems to work better with the cuff). With this, you can choose any two vibrating dildos and mount them on one harness - check out link for a list. I'd recommend choosing only silicone dildos for safety and easy clean-up, and if you will be taking the dildo anally I'd recommend a dildo of 5-1/2" or more length so it doesn't slip out unexpectedly.

You're almost guaranteed to get a better setup if you buy the harness separately from the dildos. Also make sure to get some good lube if you're taking it anally - then enjoy.

The Spareparts Joque harness (link) is almost certainly your best bet, though it's a bit pricey. You can put in whatever two dildos you want (I'd echo ScottA, saying you're always better off buying separately from the harness) so that you and your partner can each choose the style, size and intensity of vibration you're each looking for. The Joque is incredibly popular, because of this feature and because folks say it's damn comfortable.

I would be receiving it anally and she would be receiving it vaginally. i am looking for something solid that wont move around to much. i know that can be a problem with harnesses sometimes.

There are two approaches to getting a dildo and harness that doesn't move around too much. If pegging is something that you think you'll be doing for a while I'd definitely encourage you to look into a double such as the Nexus series or the Tango, as the combination of the harness with the vaginal end works wonders at stiffening things up.

If you're going with single ended dildos get a harness that can be adjusted to fit snugly and get an O-ring that's sized to hold your dildo. I have a Wonder Woman, which is pretty good but the built-in O-ring is a bit large sometimes, and the two point attachment makes it difficult to effectively use a smaller one. Putting the dildo through the whole harness works well, though (especially with doubles), and Eden's running a "40% off dildo" deal on the Aslan Wonder Woman/Prince/Bionic series (they're the same cut), as well as the Outlaw Leather series and the Cherry Jaguar. I've heard very good things about the Terra Firma harness, Aslan Jaguar series, the Outlaw Leather harnesses, and the SpareParts Jocque. Definitely go with a two-strap (or "jockstrap") type harness - they're a bit more supportive than the G-string types.

There are also some 15% off harness/dildo/lube packages that should be either on the site or coming up soon.

I agree with ScottA, the Aslan Jaguar is very supportive and stable. With the cuff, which I have it is awesome. I hope EF carries it soon. For me I use the Tex internally or the little hottie which has a vibe. Externally, the Rachel or Leo both work well to penetrate my b/f.
The Tango, to me ,anyway seems to have the best of everything, not floppy like the Share or overly stiff and unbending like the Feeldoe but I have never used the Nexus. I do use the Jaguar with the Tango. I did review the Tango recently.

so pretty much what you all are telling me is to get a double ended dildo and put it through the harness or did i miss read?

A double is a great option because the giver's end acts as an anchor and allows for quite a bit of control. There are other options, though - if you get a good harness (2-strap with plenty of adjustments), an O-ring that fits your dildo, and a good way of securing the giver's dildo (depends on the harness you choose) that can be an excellent option as well. The only thing I would not recommend would be getting most of the dildo and harness kits - often the harness can't be adjusted to fit well and the dildo isn't the greatest (there are a few that look like they use the Terra Firma harness, which is a pretty good model).

If you're going for separate dildos, I'd recommend looking for something with over 5" insertable length for your dildo - it makes it much easier to use. For her dildo sometimes something with a pronounced bend, such as the Acute, works well given the geometry if you don't have something like a Double Up Cuff that mounts her dildo lower down.

In short, doubles are great in a harness (too bad Eden's still out of the Tango), but separate dildos also work well in a good harness (you can get away with a bit more play in the harness with a double). Look around for some dildos you like the look of, both doubles and singles, and harnesses.

I seem to be not proofreading today.

Look for the dildo(s) and harnesses you like and then put together something that looks irresistable. If a double is on your list, do strongly consider it, even though it costs a bit more (and it might even cost less than two singles). If you decide to go with a pair of singles and a good harness, that will work too. The thing to keep in mind for singles is that harness fit is important - if you're not sure about a harness you might want to go to a store and check them out in the flesh even if it does wind up being a bit more expensive.

so if i am reading correctly you are saying to stay away from a harness that has a his/hers dildo already attached?

I've been talking with flcruiser on e-mail, and I'm strongly considering recommending the Sportsheets Latigo Leather harness to try first because it's so much cheaper than the other options, but looks like it would be secure (he wants one that won't flop around). What do people think?

Also, what does everybody think of the Vibrating Leo and Mistress?