Our first experience with sex toys was with an ugly beige vibrator that came to a pointed tip that we got from Spencer's Gifts. This was about 30 years ago and made of plastic. We didn't use it long (it HURT me cause of the tip) and never looked at toys again until recently because of that.
Fast forward to 2 years ago when a girlfriend tells me I NEED to get a bullet...that I'll get off so fast with it, etc.
I didn't get one - till recently.
But of our current five toys - one is a vibrating jelly o-right which I can't stand - and the other four are vibrators of various shapes and textures. Once again, we've learned that I need a bulb-shaped head.
I look at dildos and they look so neat - but I don't understand what is so great about them compared to a vibrator. Using the bullet to get me going and then others to hit my G-spot, my husband can give me multiple orgasms and playtimes that last an hour or more (with me collapsing afterward).
We used to play 20 minutes once a week - now its about 45 minutes to an hour twice a day - and its the vibrator that gets me off.
So can someone explain to me about why folks like dildos and if we should try one (or more) which ones? Is there something about thrusting with one that does more than a vibrator?
I'm not trying to knock dildos - Gunsmoke did a review of one that is large and mentioned another one which looks very interesting. But before I spend that type of money on something that doesn't vibrate - I'd like to understand what makes them so great.
Fast forward to 2 years ago when a girlfriend tells me I NEED to get a bullet...that I'll get off so fast with it, etc.
I didn't get one - till recently.
But of our current five toys - one is a vibrating jelly o-right which I can't stand - and the other four are vibrators of various shapes and textures. Once again, we've learned that I need a bulb-shaped head.
I look at dildos and they look so neat - but I don't understand what is so great about them compared to a vibrator. Using the bullet to get me going and then others to hit my G-spot, my husband can give me multiple orgasms and playtimes that last an hour or more (with me collapsing afterward).
We used to play 20 minutes once a week - now its about 45 minutes to an hour twice a day - and its the vibrator that gets me off.
So can someone explain to me about why folks like dildos and if we should try one (or more) which ones? Is there something about thrusting with one that does more than a vibrator?
I'm not trying to knock dildos - Gunsmoke did a review of one that is large and mentioned another one which looks very interesting. But before I spend that type of money on something that doesn't vibrate - I'd like to understand what makes them so great.