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I am looking to buy a dildo and I don't know which one I should get...any suggestions?

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What was the best dildo you ever had? Why, and what about it makes it your favorite dildo to date?

Best dildo for a novice
I am wanting to get a dildo to use by myself and with my partner, what would everyone suggest.

Best dildo to practice blowjobs on?
I want to know what the best dildo to practice bjs on is for me. I'm a beginner and i've tried sucking on O2 Cush which was fun but i'm just way too.

What is the best dildo material - silicone or glass?
which is better, silicone dildos or glass one?

Hmm... I would guess something close to a size she's used to (medium sized if you're unsure on that), with a nice curve, easy to clean, perhaps some texture. The Throb would be a great choice.

I think it depends on a couple of things:

--what she wants to do with a dildo (e.g., g-spot vs. thrusting) ... what her hopes and dreams are sexually (cue violin music)

--what she likes and doesn't about material/texture, and I'd guess that lots of people don't know for sure, but they do have an idea

--what your relationship is to her

--how she feels about penises (also, if she has a partner, how they feel about these things. Nothing worse than a sex toy you feel like you can only use behind someone's back because their jealous of your dildo.

So, for example, I like my penises to come attached to human bodies, with the whole, y'know, alive thing going on there. That means that I don't particularly like penis-y looking dildos. I'd rather have something like one of the following:

1. Ella, who is stunningly beautiful but intended to excel at one thing, though she can also thrust from the other end.
2. Something glass that shows off a range of what glass can do, so like texture on one part but not another; maybe 2 different sized ends. Maybe something like the Silenzio? Or one of those double-ended ones that have different stuff going on at each end.

--something silicone that seemed just ideal for me and was aiming for a perfect shape to pleasure me but wasn't creating (additional) insecurities in my partner. Like .. God I have been sounding like a broken-record ad for these dildos, but the Tantus O2 Flurry, Cush, or revolution. Revolution is maybe big for a new user; Cush might be too, but lots of people love it. Flurry is more slender.

I would suggest the slim jim. It is made for a woman of a smaller size and does not hurt! Great for beginners!

Great points, it's person specific. We love O2, going to try Vixskin.

I'd suggest getting her one made of pure silicone and that is about 1 1/4" in diameter.