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Contributor: Playman Playman
Quote:
Originally posted by DancerKittyKat
Wow, that's such a pretty toy!!

I definitely think that it depends on the type of anal play. For my butt plugs, I prefer a wide tip and a long base. For dildos, I prefer toys that are longer than a plug and wider too. Though at a certain ... more
Very well put! I pretty much fall into that same category as you on plugs vs dildos. I do have quite a few glass dildos that I will be posting on here, even in use! So keep in touch!
I do have some pics posted of the plugs I really like on the post "plugs worn for long time wear". Go check it out. I hope you like!
04/17/2016
Contributor: Playman Playman
Quote:
Originally posted by DancerKittyKat
Wow, that's such a pretty toy!!

I definitely think that it depends on the type of anal play. For my butt plugs, I prefer a wide tip and a long base. For dildos, I prefer toys that are longer than a plug and wider too. Though at a certain ... more
Hi Kat, as you said the curve does make a big difference. Go to my profile, on there I have a glass dildo that is blue, smooth and curved, one thinner end and one thicker end. I prefer the thicker end. I use that one in the shower every morning. It slides in so easily when it's wet. I give my ass a quick fucking with it before I go to work. It just seems to make the day go better! I will take a pic of it and put it on here for you to see.
Btw, what you see on my profile is true, and my avatar and banner pics are 100% me.
One back shot of me and the banner is me in the shower washing my cock, can't help that it got a little hard!
04/18/2016
Contributor: Playman Playman

Here you go, this anal toy is great if you are into exercising. You strap your ankles in the ankle straps that are attached to the bottom spreader bar, adjust the height of the dildo, so it is right for your ass, then go to town doing some squats! Exercising never felt so good!
04/18/2016
Contributor: Playman Playman

Here's another fun thing to do with this toy. If you're into "Dom & Sub" playing, you can strap your sub's ankles into the straps, then make them stand on their tip toes, when they're on their tip toes you raise the dildlo and slide it in their ass, so it is in there nice and deep. Now they'll have to remain on there toes, even if they start getting tired of being on their toes, they won't be able to lower their heels , because the dildo will go in even farther, if there is any room to go deeper. While they're standing there on their toes with it in their ass, you are able to do other stimulating and arousing sexual acts to them. I think by the time you are done with them, you both will have had fantastic orgasms, and just think all this time they're standing on their tip toes with the dildo impaler still rocken their sweet ass, oh my!
04/18/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Playman
Different view. 1.5" diameter toy is great!
That is very nice. I got one similar but in blue glass.
04/25/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Playman

Here's another fun thing to do with this toy. If you're into "Dom & Sub" playing, you can strap your sub's ankles into the straps, then make them stand on their tip toes, when they're on their tip toes you raise the ... more
I can weld. May try this frame.
08/03/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I like them a little wide - about 2" but need a buildup for that. A tapered dildo like the Tantus Champ works great - but it's hard to find, most vendors carry the Chamlette - we have both but I like the Champ better. From there we move on ... more
We got the medium NOX few months ago. In one word FANTASTIC ! The shape of the head then the narrowing 3-4 inches down causes it to be pulled in. And Vixen stuff, now your talking !

Oh, sorry if I got a little carried away. aaah or excited ....
09/13/2016
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
We got the medium NOX few months ago. In one word FANTASTIC ! The shape of the head then the narrowing 3-4 inches down causes it to be pulled in. And Vixen stuff, now your talking !

Oh, sorry if I got a little carried away. aaah or ... more
lol...
11/28/2016
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I like them a little wide - about 2" but need a buildup for that. A tapered dildo like the Tantus Champ works great - but it's hard to find, most vendors carry the Chamlette - we have both but I like the Champ better. From there we move on ... more
We recently added Vamp Silicone's Gretta (7.5" x 2.3") and Carina (9" x 2.3")! Honestly I never thought I would be putting something that large in my ass - but the soft silicone is fabulous!

For all those guys out there trying to convince their wife to try pegging - I can honestly report that with careful cultivation and coaching my wife has warmed up to the role reversal - even flaunting her 'big dick'
11/30/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
We recently added Vamp Silicone's Gretta (7.5" x 2.3") and Carina (9" x 2.3")! Honestly I never thought I would be putting something that large in my ass - but the soft silicone is fabulous!

For all those guys out ... more
I'm sure she loves you very much to do that for you.

And congrats on getting two new fabulous weapons.

Flaunt? Oh my goodness ! I guess she's got the POWER
11/30/2016
Contributor: Madi2013 Madi2013
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
For you what is better a wider or a longer anal toy.
i love wider. but i also love stretching and seeing how far i can be stretched
02/10/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I'm sure she loves you very much to do that for you.

And congrats on getting two new fabulous weapons.

Flaunt? Oh my goodness ! I guess she's got the POWER
Yes indeed she has the power - I've recently purchased a collar and leash! This is going to be a hard one for her to adapt to - so I have to pick just the right moment to introduce it. History has shown that timing is everything.

Keeping my antennae probing - maybe this weekend - maybe next. If I do this right - it'll be another interesting chapter to explore!
02/11/2017
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Wow! You all have had quite some fun in this thread. I prefer wider only because I'm still new to anal masturbation. I guess my next step up is length.
02/19/2017
Contributor: Devz Devz
Wider for sure, I like the feeling when it streches
02/21/2017
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by Devz
Wider for sure, I like the feeling when it streches
Do you like your toy to be rigid (as glass) or more squishy & flexible?
02/22/2017
Contributor: AnalArtist AnalArtist
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
For you what is better a wider or a longer anal toy.
One of my goals is to get to the next level of toys. I have a toy that is 7 1/4" in circumference. For the life of me, I can't get past. Also, been doing anal off and on (more off than on but want to change that.) I love the feeling of fullness and a total size queen. Anyone have some tips for not only wider toys but longer toys? I really want to stretch that hole, in a 100% safe way of course.
05/07/2017
Contributor: LoveUKnot LoveUKnot
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Depends which play at the time.
At first I said wider, which is most of the time, but you're right too, depends on the situation.
08/05/2017
Contributor: LoveUKnot LoveUKnot
Quote:
Originally posted by Roy
For those with experience in anal please tell me
How do you get an orgasm from anal I never had one
Want to
I love it, one of the best things I've discovered. I recommend starting off small, something you can handle and eventually work your way up. Use plenty of lube and avoid anything too big or pain.
08/05/2017
Contributor: LoveUKnot LoveUKnot
Quote:
Originally posted by Roy
For those with experience in anal please tell me
How do you get an orgasm from anal I never had one
Want to
Oh and I forgot I eventually masturbate with something I've worked up to and ten have a huge orgasm.
08/06/2017
Contributor: DaveMal DaveMal
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
For you what is better a wider or a longer anal toy.
Personally I prefer a toy that would suit myself. A toy that is not too long until it causes intense pain deep inside my bowels. And a toy that is not too wide that I had major trouble inserting in even after some slight bleeding around my anal opening. I have phobias of anal prolapse! Therefore I would never go for monster wide sized dildos. As for the length, I would prefer softer silicone at the top part of the anal toy before gradually stiffening down towards the wider end of the anal toy
08/16/2017
Contributor: DaveMal DaveMal
Quote:
Originally posted by AnalArtist
One of my goals is to get to the next level of toys. I have a toy that is 7 1/4" in circumference. For the life of me, I can't get past. Also, been doing anal off and on (more off than on but want to change that.) I love the feeling of ... more
If i can recall correctly, there was a article in the internet on how to achieve a next size up, but truth to be told, " Rome was not built in a day" and you have to build up to size. Last and not least, you need to be totally relaxed and tons of good lasting lube both inside and outside.
Personally, I wouldn't go past my expected limits though there were times I tried but my logic mind convinces me not to go too far and risk tearing my anal muscles around the anal opening. I had seen pictures of those inserting big sized articles up their anal hole and afterwards, their opening looks like a wreck and I don't want to be part of this. Remember, torn muscles will not regain their original elasticity. Those guys holes shows signs of rectal prolapse of the anal opening lips.
My personal sized max is a the large anal plug of 2.4" width (7.79" circumference) but that takes some time warming up with other toys and dildos.
Good Luck
08/16/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Imo, stretch gradually w a dildo, then larger dildo. However ones got to know their limitations.
And I don't get why someone wants to keep going bigger and bigger.
Why risk your health for a few moments of gratification? What's the glory in having a large open butt hole
08/18/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Imo, stretch gradually w a dildo, then larger dildo. However ones got to know their limitations.
And I don't get why someone wants to keep going bigger and bigger.
Why risk your health for a few moments of gratification? What's the ... more
I agree - I imagine my max will be 2.4" to 2.5" like DaveMal
08/18/2017
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by Devz
Wider for sure, I like the feeling when it streches
The first moment or when fully in?
08/19/2017
Contributor: Iluvgirth69 Iluvgirth69
Quote:
Originally posted by Roy
For those with experience in anal please tell me
How do you get an orgasm from anal I never had one
Want to
It’s hard to explain but it’s mind blowing. I love girthy dildos. I like playing around and for a while. When I’m ready I am laying on my back with it inside me and thrusting and masturbating. I can feel it everywhere from my knees to my chest. I have huge dildos. I can’t use the whole length it’s the stretch I like. Just got my biggest one yesterday and already thinking about an even bigger one lol
08/23/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
I voted girth, because length doesn't do it for me, either it's anal or vaginal penetration. But in reality, I'm a big fan of textures myself - the bumpier and nubbier is the toy, the more it works for me.
08/24/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
As a male who enjoys be pegged, we found that longer dildos worked better for my wife - it was kind of an alignment issue. The Vixskin Outlaw is 2" x 9" long - and we've used it a lot. However, now that she has gotten the hang of the technique, I find that I cannot take the full length - this prevents her from being able to thrust hard.

I also like the BD soft silicone formulation - so I'm looking for one in the 2.25" x about 7.5" to try out.
08/27/2018
Contributor: Nightstalkerlove Nightstalkerlove
I voted neither because Ive never really tried anal before because I didnt have a reason to try it. The person I was with never mentioned it and I never mentioned it to her so until now it has not really been even more than something that other people did on porn movies. Im not sure Im ready for something like this. Especially looking at some of the other posts. But I will think about it some more and maybe look at some stuff online.
11/14/2019
Contributor: Shark09 Shark09
I would have to say wider. I love the feel of my ass getting stretched.
01/23/2021
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
I can give or take it.
hmmm If only you were local...
05/17/2021