What position is best for anal sex?

Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
We usually have me lie on my belly and he enters with his legs wrapped on the outside of mine. We also use side lying sometimes, but that usually is from turning while having sex. I find I can get good leverage pushing against the side board of the bed (we have a water bed) in a side lying position and help control the depth etc.
05/14/2011
Contributor: ajwonder ajwonder
laying on your back for receiving...
06/03/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Missionary tho we have found on my side works and doggie isn't bad providing you have an understanding gentle partner because it gives him more control and its more intense in this position
06/18/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
Doggie is the most fun!
06/18/2011
Contributor: phunkyphreak phunkyphreak
doggie style
06/19/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I love doggie style!
07/09/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
on the back is not an option. it's just more comfortable for me
07/12/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Now seeing this thread again is getting me in the mood.
07/12/2011
Contributor: Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
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Originally posted by A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Actually I found the the missionary position is very comfortable for anal sex for me. Probably, because I can relax more easily that way.
I prefer anal on my back too - I get some incredibly intense orgasms that way due to the way my partner's and my anatomy seems to fit together in that position. But(t), I also like doggy, on my stomach, bending over the couch, whatever - most positions are fine (as in, comfort wise) for me in terms of anal sex, that's just the one I come hardest from
07/12/2011
Contributor: Pixie5 Pixie5
Thank you for this topic. My hubby and I have not tryed anal yet but have been talking about it for some time now. What do you think is the best way for someone who had never done anal?
07/12/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
If you haven't done anal yet then you should do several things. The first is try different positions in a "dry run". You want to make sure that everything lines up while you're relaxed, since it can be harder to relax your anus if you're having to work to hold yourself in position.

The second thing is to try other forms of anal play first to learn how to relax and enjoy anal play before trying to take a penis or penis-sized object. Fingers and small toys are great here, and expect to take some time here to make sure you're ready.
07/12/2011
Contributor: Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
Doggy style... or on your stomach legs slightly spread...
07/22/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Doggie
07/22/2011
Contributor: Karen Affeldt Karen Affeldt
I like most all positions but doggie works best for me. I can set the pace after I'm stretched and comfortable with it.
07/23/2011
Contributor: moose1120 moose1120
I like laying on my back to receive but doggy to give...my wife likes anything but her on top...
07/23/2011
Contributor: kinksters kinksters
doggy, by far. have recently started mish, with relative success lol
07/24/2011
Contributor: Lady Nina Lady Nina
doggie
07/24/2011
Contributor: ladyred ladyred
Doggie the best also depends on the type of anal toy as well
07/26/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Doggie or mission.
07/27/2011
Contributor: Trillian Trillian
Lying on your stomache with your butt up. A pillow under you helps a lot.
07/27/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I like doggie, or lying on my stomach with a pillow under my hips.
09/07/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by deviant
my roommates and i were discussing which anal sex position is more comfortable, we would like feedback!
Laying Down on your back!!
09/07/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
doggie style
09/09/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
For a long time, the only position me and my boyfriend had success with was first spooning, then moving into him on top, me on my stomach. That's still the easiest way and results in the least discomfort usually, but quite recently we had really successful anal sex in missionary and doggy style, which really pleasantly surprised me!
09/11/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I definitely recommend a position where it is easy for the receiver to spread their legs. For me that is key in comfort... If I can't spread my legs I definitely can't stretch enough to accommodate a cock in my butt. My favorite is doggie style, but another is spooning, so he can take my leg and lift it up to spread me open a little more comfortably. Experiment and communicate! ^_^
09/16/2011
Contributor: Dr Anal Dr Anal
I personally love getting anal in all those positions, but some are a little trickier than others, but you just need some concentration from the giver to work it out, but all of the positions are great for receiving anal
09/17/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
I tend to be the giving partner in anal, and my partner goes pretty boneless, so on her stomach is best. If we start in doggy style, she ends up collapsing anyway. I'm just that good.
09/17/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Liz2
Doggie but for greater intensity, I enjoy lying on my back at the edge of the bed with my guy standing. It gives him more thrusting power and I can very comfortably use a vibe on my clit.
Good call!
We tried her lying on her back at the edge of the bed ankles on my shoulders. WOW! The view is outstanding and the angle pulling my cock downward contributed to quite a memorable session.
09/25/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I'd say crouching above the man would be the most natural.
I agree! However, for those of us who aren't as athletic as we were thirty years ago, that one is rather difficult to maintain anymore.
09/25/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
Doggie for sure!
09/27/2011