Please forgive my ignorance, but, would that be comfortable? I know that body parts stretch and what not and I also understand how both items work. I'm just thinking that might be uncomfortable. It just seems like anyone doing this would be, forgive the expression, "Cramming 10 lbs of crap into a 5lbs can."

Please understand that I am in no way drawing a parallel between women and fecal matter or anything like that. It is not meant to be demeaning nor degrading to anyone. It is only an expression.

I also know what DP and Airtight mean. I understand that some women enjoy the sensation with both activities. I'm not judging anyone, I'm just curious. less

Please forgive my ignorance, but, would that be comfortable? I know that body parts stretch and what not and I also understand how both items work. I'm just thinking that might be uncomfortable. It just seems like anyone doing this would be, forgive the expression, "Cramming 10 lbs of crap into a 5lbs can."

Please understand that I am in no way drawing a parallel between women and fecal matter or anything like that. It is not meant to be demeaning nor degrading to anyone. It is only an expression.

I also know what DP and Airtight mean. I understand that some women enjoy the sensation with both activities. I'm not judging anyone, I'm just curious. less

No worries and take your time. The last thing you want is a sore ass all because you rushed it. I own both the Njoy small and Medium and I can tell you that neither of these will fall out accidentally. If for some reason they do, you are ready for the next size up.

Like SexScienceandFood originally said, "Wearing a butt plug out in public is one such thing and is done for both the physical and mental pleasure of it..." and the only person that knows is you and whomever you've told.

It's funny. I had never before thought about using a plug before until I took a Human Sexuality class in college and the topic of anal sex was presented. I had seen it in porn before and thought the actresses were only acting as if they enjoyed it. At the time, I was positive they were faking that, but I was wrong. Next thing I know, I'm talking to the partner about it and watching educational videos about the subject. Before I did it to the partner, I decided to see what I would be subjecting her to, so I plugged myself and that's how it all started. less

I like that you wanted to see what you'd be subjecting her to first. In my opinion that's one of the signs of a good Dom/Top. Talking to her is great to insure she's ok with it on an emotional level, but testing things out on yourself gives you info in regards to if it's something that you'd actually be ok with doing to her, how hard/big is too hard/big. less

No need to be Sorry for anything , we are good! I just didn't understand. I fully expect to be briefly ridiculed for anything stupid I will probably say or do. In my book, that's how you know you have good friends. They care enough to make fun of you. A little bit of irreverence at the right time can be a good thing, at least that's the way I see it. less

Thanks! That is why I'm here. Most of the time I need a woman's opinion or a consensus of opinions from everyone that is willing to participate in the discussion and it seems like I can get that here.

Anyway... Do you go out in public while wearing a butt plug in? (back on topic) less

For some, all things sexual are for the bedroom only. For others, it crosses over into everyday life. Wearing a butt plug out in public is one such thing and is done for both the physical and mental pleasure of it (or because your Dom told you to!). Where do you stand on wearing plugs in public? I happen to be one who does enjoy doing this sort of thing in public. In fact, I'm plugged in right now as I type this while at work less

I wear mine when out shopping and often to special occasion dinners. Between that and wearing no undies under some formal clothing (very prim and proper on the outside, very naughty on the inside), and with my hubby knowing I am wearing a toy, just to be replaced by him later that evening, it keeps us both steaming hot all evening and actually hotter as the night wears on. We may be surrounded by beautiful woman sometimes, but I know his eyes, mind and heart are totally with me, and he cannot wait to "jump my bones"...and I am good with that! *FYI, I do keep lube in my purse and do add it at least once per hour in the ladies room, to avoid soreness or other issues. less

I have a small one and a fat one. I use the small one first thing in the morning and then the fat one once a week. I have gone shopping once with it when the wife was out of town. Plus done chores with it in. Feels really great. When its gone I miss it. less

I know its not a plug and I'm just boring vanilla and have not done anything to/with that part of my body still but I've gone out with kegel balls in. I actually used to wear them all day at work one place I used to work. I worked in a kitchen briefly and I would wear them to work. I was on my feet up moving around all day cooking and serving. Feeling weights move around made the monotony of flipping pancakes and filling grouchy orders more exciting. less