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New to anal play, which plug should I get?

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Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I'm really new to anal play. I've never successfully had anal sex because when we tried it was quite uncomfortable. Obviously because of this, I want to start with something small.

What butt plug should I go for?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Njoy Pure Plug (small)
Chou Wang , Terri69 , deltalima , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Mikemanz , MzGreenEyedLady , Tork48309 , Danneh , married with children , panthercat23 , MrWishyWashy , damnbul12 , SecretKinksters , LavenderSkies , TheSinDoll , ksparkles16 , kitty1949 , Andrey2052 , Why Not? , BrittaniMaree , Shadoria , Kappa8564 , malantha , Kipperanne , Huff , ichwillwaffels , SepZet , MidnightStorm , Tango8976 , LuckyLady , HisLittleFiend , Arlinnae , Bignuf
33  (69%)
Njoy Pure Plug (medium)
Rossie , Augustxsins , ToyGeek , Pixel , Zandrock , Anne , Girly Juice , thesquaredeific , Trysexual , moose1120 , JackRaiden , potstickers
12  (25%)
Beginner Anal Kit (NMC ltd)
bratofthekitties , BlooJay , Eva Schwaltz
3  (6%)
Total votes: 48
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10/08/2012
Contributor: Chou Wang Chou Wang
Hi, I'd suggest the Pure plug small if you want to limit yourself to the items described in the Poll. However if you want to get more comfort with anal play you might consider some solo penetration to get used to the feeling and figure out how you actually like it. So a small dildo like the Compact and/or a bit bigger VIP Super Soft will defenetely help you moving into the right direction. From the plugs I'd also advise to extend the collection with the best plug ever - Ryder That one will be in your toy chest way after you pass even intermediate stage, it's also really great to have inserted during the intercourse. The main advice is to take as much time as you need to find out what and how you like it. Have fun
10/08/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
I'm really new to anal play. I've never successfully had anal sex because when we tried it was quite uncomfortable. Obviously because of this, I want to start with something small.

What butt plug should I go for?
small is a better way to start and graduate up.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Even though you're new to anal play, I still suggest getting the Pure plug medium, because you'll outgrow the small in no time and you'll regret why you didn't get a medium instead. The most important thing is to start anal play with fingers (with smoothly trimmed nails) and lots of lube, let your behind get used to fingers and you should be ready for the size medium - just remember to do it nice and slow with lots of lube.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
The Mood Naughty plugs are a good place to start.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Augustxsins Augustxsins
I vote the pure plug medium. It's appropriate for beginners and will also still feel wonderful once you've graduated to intermediate.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
fingers are a good start
10/08/2012
Contributor: MzGreenEyedLady MzGreenEyedLady
Small! Unless you've had anal sex, then medium.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
Quote:
Originally posted by Augustxsins
I vote the pure plug medium. It's appropriate for beginners and will also still feel wonderful once you've graduated to intermediate.
I agree, especially for the higher price.
10/08/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
the pure plug small is a very nice starter plug.
10/08/2012
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
The Pure Plug Medium is really easy to insert and very comfortable.
10/08/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
Stick with something small, or get a kit that will allow you to move up in size.
10/08/2012
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Njoy plugs are wonderful, go with the small and work your way up.
10/08/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Njoy Pure Plug
10/08/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Start small
10/08/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I'd say get an inexpensive silicone plug if you want a small plug and save your Pure Plug dollars for a medium.
10/08/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
I'm really new to anal play. I've never successfully had anal sex because when we tried it was quite uncomfortable. Obviously because of this, I want to start with something small.

What butt plug should I go for?
Njoy Pure Plug!
10/09/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Njoy medium
10/09/2012
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I'm a big fan of the Pure Plug series. There's just nothing quite like the weight and feel. I've got all three and I'm testing them now. I should be writing my review for the small, but I'm running behind on reviews!
10/09/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
the Njoy plug
10/09/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
I'd go with the small Njoy plug. I'd also recommend Doc Johnson's Mood Naughty plugs if you're looking for a material that's a bit more forgiving.
10/09/2012
Contributor: Andrey2052 Andrey2052
Njoy Pure Plug (small)
10/09/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Smaller is better for firsts.
10/09/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Beginner anal kit because it's silicone
10/09/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
The medium Pure Plug is small and tapered enough that I don't think it should be a big deal for a beginner, especially if you warm up with a finger first. And you won't outgrow it as soon as the others.
10/09/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
The Pure plug is great, but a little unyielding. If you are starting with that toy definitely warm the toy up to body temp first.
10/09/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
need something that is not gonna scare you away from the experience go slow and relax if its a first time
10/09/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Neither. I love my Pure Plug, but I'd suggest a material with more 'give', like silicone, to start.
10/09/2012
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
I'd go with a different choice. Although my wife and I are into pegging and anal-play for both of us, I'm still really tight. I picked up the Bootie Plug just last week and it's amazing. No vibrations or anything, but it just feels very, very comfortable. It's small enough for newbies and big enough for intermediates and it's a high quality plug.
10/09/2012